She is not an ideal bahu - Page 5

Originally posted by: Lennie

Thats what i mean, Sakshi's test is different and hard coz everywhere and mostly everytime its gonna be compared and looked upon, and that pressure can bring you down in some ways so much

Originally posted by: itsybitsy

Just saw the episode for today. The girl is sweet and innocent but I was not impressed by her dialog delivery, was a bit disappointed. Hope it gets better with time.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Actually, all the production houses need to work as per the wish of the channel, sometime they cannot do what they want to do...

if someone has seen Bidaai from the beginning, those people can evaluate Sadhna's character very well. Though her sisterly concerns were predominant, she was tried to be portrayed as a good human being..her good feelings towards Kaushi, Nani, Vinu say that all. If a person is humane, everything falls in place.Good people are always blamed, because more than their good acts, what is remembered, how can their actions be questioned. Vasu called Sadhna "Nurse", some supported that, some vehemently protested. But again this same Vasu is made to utter the words on Friday that "a nurse will just take care of Alekh as a duty, not put heart and soul into it and thus she wants someone like Sadhna, a wife for Alekh". Vasu at last understood the difference between "nurse" and "wife". I still remember that Sadhna never left RH till she was driven out by Vasu, and then again she came back to ask Alekh, but Alekh also told her to leave. There was nothing left in their marriage. Its true that both Alekh and Sadhna had suffered because of the outside people, they loved each other but they never got to spend anytime with each other. But still the bond they formed was unique. There was a different flavour in their love story. Even the "Piya o Piya" song does complete justice to their love story.

But, Sdahna is gone now. Alekh has to get normal at least for Khushi. If Sakshi can do that, it will be great. But definitely, as Lennie said, there should be a prior bond between Khushi and Sakshi and then Sakshi should do her part for Alekh. This suggestion seems very reasonable to me.

Originally posted by: reguser

You are right. Even I felt, star plus wants to change its image. This was conveyed indirectly by the actors also. But, changing the image and starting new serials with different perspective is ok. But, changing the existing serial itself is difficult to digest. Anyhow, Bidai is having good TRP, so channel didnt want to shut it off.

Yes, though Sadhna's jiji aspect was shown more, she was shown as a good human being. Thats the reason, people always commented her to be not real. Even I agree that she should have prioritized herself in order to take care of Alekh & Khushi, but that doesnt mean that Sadhna's character can be demeaned. I always liked her strength irrespective of the circumstances.

Anyhow, as she is gone now, Alekh needs to move on in life. Good, Vasu realized the difference between a "wife" and a "nurse".

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

well said. Sadhna had totally many other things to worry about. She had altogether different issues to deal with. Actually, I am happy that Vasu can realise the difference between a nurse and a wife, because previously she had addressed Sadhna as Alekh's nurse instead of Alekh's wife. But then again, she was a completely different person.

Sakshi's test is something different. As Mrs. Alekh rajvansh, she will be intentionally or unintentionally compared to Sadhna always. This can create a lot of pressure on her, as her love, concern everything will be measured keeping Sdahna as a standard.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

thats the best part that Vasu understood the importance of Sadhna, and also a nurse and wife. Sadhna made her realise that, its ultimately Sadhna's reward for her goodness.

Originally posted by: reguser

In reality, getting married to a mentally unstable man is the biggest challenge for any woman. Things dont work as smoothly as in serials. This Alekh is much better than the old Alekh when Sadhna got married to him. Anything can happen to the girl and Vasu being a woman doesnt realize / doesnt want to realize these things.

So Sakshi will definately have to struggle in changing Alekh with her love and she has the extra burden of comparison with Sadhna in RV house. But, she doesnt have the tensions of others like what Sadhna had. So her struggle is much lesser than Sadhna's.