She is not an ideal bahu - Page 3

Originally posted by: Lennie

I agree i hope Sakshi doesnt either, Sadhna'a whole essense is what she was and what she did

Sakshi will create her own, and we all need to see the bigger picture as well

I also like i said before, i really see Alekh/Sakshi learning together to be normal and learning about other stuff

What Vasu said regarding getting Alekh marriage was justified from a mother's pov and that indeed Alekh's needs a second chance in life for his own good, one for his health and also one for Sadhna, as he hasnt let go at all in a way

Originally posted by: Lennie

What Vasu said regarding getting Alekh marriage was justified from a mother's pov and that indeed Alekh's needs a second chance in life for his own good, one for his health and also one for Sadhna, as he hasnt let go at all in a way

Ragini was right from her view as well, who will accept a unstable man and a daughter and have that willpower that Sadhna had and also that 3 lives will be ruined here

I agree, they cant leave it late - because Alekh is stuck wherever he is and needs to get out, and he needs someone to be with him, however much Ragini can do, it cant ever come near to what a wife can do and be with Alekh

Originally posted by: Lennie

I agree with Vasu, she is usually right about Alekh and his wellbeing esp right now, but the way she puts her views across comes across not to well to other ppl but then again this is Vasu, she isnt the sweet motherly mother type of mothers who can sit down and talk sweetly about it but one who stands up and says what she thinks and thats a order, it comes across like that

As you say they do need to work together in this, coz its not only Alekh to be concerned about, but Khushi as well

Sakshi's name - is intriguing, because for me i noticed how she has Shi at the end, like KhuShi and then some ppl here said look its Sakshi making it like SaLekh which is another coincidence or not

Whatever it is, it seems connected names wise lol

Originally posted by: Lennie

Khushi does fit in the blend of the names - AleKH - SakSHI

Khushi is little Sadi, she i feel will protect and do whatever for this relation if Alekh/Sakshi happen

Yes i do feel Khushi and Sakshi should bond atleast before, i think this will be helpful in laying down a foundation of some sort between Khushi and Sakshi, i would love to see Khushi talking away about her dost/papa to Sakshi because in a way i can see Alekh and Sakshi connecting through Khushi as well, i say Sakshi will learn most thing about Alekh from Khushi

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Funny..wasn't Sadhana one of the most vulnerable character...her weakness was Ragini's happiness. Anyways, its just my POV.
She isn't a typical ideal bahu of Tellyworld who's husband won't come last in the priority list or who would sacrifice herself for others happiness all the time or not stand up for herself. Suhana and Pratigya's characters are the best examples here. That's not how normal people behave. Life is all about ups and downs. We just need the support and love of our loved ones in difficult times.
Who isn't vulnerable in real life no matter how strong you are? Everyone has some weakness in life.

She has just entered the show, lets just wait and watch how her character develops.

@TS, why would the jodi flop ? Isn't Angad one of the most talented actor and Sulagana has already done 2 shows. They will surely rock. If we can accept AnGIni then why not AleKshi ? 😕

Originally posted by: reguser

Well, first of all I dont like most of the yester years bahus of star plus (tulsi, parvathi, prerna). Infact, I dont have any great affinity towards an ideal bahu. I always felt, it is important to show a strong personality of men/women who though fall weak at times, come up and fight with situations (and learn from their mistakes). My all time fav is Baa of BBB 😛

Now coming to Sadhna, I agree that she always prioritised her jiji over anything in life. But, that doesnt mean she didnt prioritise Alekh at all. Alekh going back to his original mode after Sadhna's death proves this further. And according to me, Sadhna's strength is very much proved in changing Alekh to normal with her dedication, perserverance and love. Ofcourse, she never converted this into her own benefits (which indeed is a must for her husband and daughter) but that doesnt mean that she is vulnerable. I always felt she is very strong though some of her actions are questionnable. According to me, vulenerable is a person who changes directions along with the wind.

I dont know about Pratigya as I dont watch. But, Suhana still needs to change a lot for becoming a good wife and a person who understands others pain. Again I have no interest in seeing her as ideal bahu (of olden days).

Yes, all of us are vulnerable at times. But the strong person is the one who comes out of the situation with his/her strength. That is what we have been taught and thats what we are teaching our kids now. We are not telling them that being vulnerable is real in life. We are telling them that though at times we become weak, we need to act strong.

Finally, I have no issues with the new girl. If she is proven as the so called "real" person, still I have no issues. But, I dont find logic in the new tracks (Alekh with a new girl and Ragini with a new man).

Agree to disagree 😊