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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

Good parenting is probably hardest thing on earth!!One needs lots of patience,calmness and touch of reality to be a good parent.
Ragini's situation in Bidaai as a parent is a unique one as we all know.She is trying her best to be a good and a unbiased mom/masima.
In yesterday's episode she gave Fairy's dress for Khushi and the other dress for Tammy meaning that,Khushi should be fairy no matter her intention to sacrifice her role for Tammy.
But in today's episode, she saw Khushi pretending to be sick so that Tammy can play the role.She just patted her calling her Mom's daughter.
Was this morally the right thing to do as a parent?I could not follow through Ragini's feeling here😕.What is your opinion?

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smitha

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Posted: 15 years ago

I gave up thinking lol.

Yep Ragini should have forced Khushi but then we wouldn't have seen these kids instigating Tamanna against her uncle as to what purpose I don't know if she is going to be okay tomorrow with the song sung by all three lol.And we all know by now everything happens and keep changing just to make way for a new track!

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ragini had nothing to do at that moment, because the show was already on. But she said that "she wont allow Khushi to act such", so probably she points to incidents here after. I am happy that she could realise that Khushi was pretending to make Tammy the fairy.

Good parenting is the toughest job, thats why many mothers stop working after having kids if they feel they cannot do justice to career and being parent, because for them bringing up the kids with proper values and education seem to be most important.

What do u think about the parenting of Kavya?😆...he is a child also, but look how he behaves, just because of influences of Malti...an example of parenting..good or bad, we have to discuss😉

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Veritas

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think the timing was a problem... If Ragini forced Khushi..she basically would have to tell the teacher tht Khushi lied..
and also the teachers had already made last minute changes..It would seem very high handed to interfere...
another thing..this would further exacerbate things btw Tashi...
I think she should have talked to Khushi yesterday itself and cleared things up ..and tell her not to martyr her self like this...

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smitha

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Posted: 15 years ago

May be from now on she will keep an eye on Khushi and all her actions

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree timing was a problem.But I felt that she should not have patted Khushi, if she wanted Khushi to play the role.Khushi was expecting that Ragini will be angry.So to sign of discouragement she should have also tried to make Khushi to think otherwise.
Coz' yes Khushi is Sadhana's daughter, but sacrificing cannot be one's goal in life, life is too vast to live it like that.
Sadhna's life was very different ,situation also contributed to her extreme steps sometimes, though Sadhna was big hearted girl and sacrificing was her thing.Here Khushi could have been mild version of Sadhana, which would have been more realistic.

Sadhna was a unique person and her decision always stood in between emotions vs.practicality/ smartness.
Well Khushi can still be big hearted like Sadhana, not just for sacrificing and I feel like Ragini should realize and help her.

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zarmeeno

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Posted: 15 years ago

But I guess Anmol question to her made her think that whether she should talk to Khushi or not that if Tammy would be doing same sacrifice for Khushi would she do the same thing that go and tallk to her and ask her not to sacrifice for her sister. I think that was the question that's y she did not go to Khushi. But I have a question from CTS how could a 7 yrs old kid hink of putting the theormemeter in the hot chocolate and all those things.

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: zarmeeno
But I guess Anmol question to her made her think that whether she should talk to Khushi or not that if Tammy would be doing same sacrifice for Khushi would she do the same thing that go and tallk to her and ask her not to sacrifice for her sister. I think that was the question that's y she did not go to Khushi. But I have a question from CTS how could a 7 yrs old kid hink of putting the theormemeter in the hot chocolate and all those things.

May be there is point in what you have said!!
Yes, if my daughter did want to sacrifice , I would have let her to....
But I would have explained her the consequences at the same time.After all now it "Dog eat dog "world.
Lets say thermometer thing was learnt by Khushi watching a movie or something as it a very common scene in movies!!!😆

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@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Purehearts

May be there is point in what you have said!!
Yes, if my daughter did want to sacrifice , I would have let her to....
But I would have explained her the consequences at the same time.After all now it "Dog eat dog "world.
Lets say thermometer thing was learnt by Khushi watching a movie or something as it a very common scene in movies!!!😆

TRUE...now a days. kids learn anything and everything from TV...you know, in my neighbourhood a hardly seven or eight old boy was discussing with his friends incidents about Tiger Wood 😲..

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted
I gave up thinking lol.

Yep Ragini should have forced Khushi but then we wouldn't have seen these kids instigating Tamanna against her uncle as to what purpose I don't know if she is going to be okay tomorrow with the song sung by all three lol.And we all know by now everything happens and keep changing just to make way for a new track!

Smitha, atleast Ragini should have talked to the kids earlier and solved the issue with both of them realising the not obvious.
That way Tammy would have know that she shoukld be happy for Khushi and wait oppurtunity that will knock her door and Khushi should have been made aware of the other side of the coin.
Hopefully the new track will have more sensible scenes.😕

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