Ragini is not confident, that is the truth.And another fact is parents contribute to most of it!
Sadhana did lot of sacrifices for Ragini, but only the results helped to bail Ragini out of the situations, rather than affecting Ragini's confidence in any way.
Lets take some instances for ex: Sadhna never directly helped in Ragini's marrige(though she did try to take word from Vasu which did not really work , thanks to Vasu's shatir dimaag).After marriage she tried to tell Vasu to be good with her sister, but Vasu once again brushed her off.
In Ranveer jail isssue, Sadhna was contemplating to do the right things,if she really had to help Ragini then she should have lied in the court!!!!
Miscarriage issue, Ragini was distraught and blamed Sadhna.
Ranveer asked what will cheer up Ragini, so Sadhana gave him the idea of dance school.
Dance competition, Sadhana had not planned to loose it the moment she saw Ragini, but after Ragini blamed that Sadhana is snatching her every happiness and she will never recover if snatches this one too..That is when she decided to give up.
I know Sadhna ruled the show while trying to save Ragini each time.And that was the biggest thing which sat in our head.In a way she was trying to be Ragini's guardian angel.
I too am not 100% in agreement with whatever Sadhna did .
But no body can build and break a person's condifidence except parents.
If you are a strong person, then first off all you will not get stuck in situations like that.OK lets say things get out of control and bad things happens for even good and strong people, then also if you are a strong personality, you will have only a momentary eclipse in your life and you will come out of it, not drift into it.You are always in control of yourself, that is what a stable /CONFIDENT person is all about!!!!!
Anyways I am not very happy by the way they are pushing Khushi to take her mother's seat at this very tender age, while she is supposed to play and just be a kid, no matter how things are bad in her life.
But this is Bidaai, while they made Ragini look incredibly helpless before , they also made Sadhana take the popularity in a very unfamous way for the sole quality that described her "Sacrifice"I hope they don't repeat the same with Khushi and Tammy.