Kusum: another selfless example - Page 2

Originally posted by: johnangad

agreed. kusum knew wat she was getting into when she got involved wid a married man on da rebound.

I dont think Cts ever showed that completely that Kusum was aware of Inder's marital status..

I kind of agree with you. Though if I was ever in this position, I would most probably move on my life, it's just way life goes. Kusum however did not tell anyone, did not blackmail the Rajvansh family, even though she could of. Even though she did commit a sin, she moved on. And yes she did commit a sin, but so did Inderjeet..it's not just Kusum's sin, but Inderjeets too

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

please do not say sorry...I was expecting your point also, which is also quite probable..because one thing is she did not know Inder was married, so she is not to be blamed then..but it could be she knew..so I admit she committed a sin...but she didn;t commit the sin alone, she committed with Inderjeet...but she even if Inder was leacing her for property, if she had walked a path like Karan and asked for her son;s rights, what could anyone do...accept Karan ...

I feel more than what she did, we also need to evaluate what she could have done...think of Vasu some days back also, how she treated everyone...

More than concentraying on one mistake of Kusum (which is also not shown cleaaarly by CTs), we should see the greatness of the character...her love for Inder and her selfrespect never made her come back...

I get that, but even if she didn't know Indu was married, she still committed another sin. She did injustice with her son. He deserves to know who his father is. Indu deserved to know that he has a son somewhere. This destroyed her son. By saving the family of someone who's guilty (Indu) she did grave injustice to an innocent person (her son Karan). That's not right. Indu, regardless of what, deserved to know that she was pregnant. It was his right to know especially since she brought Karan into this world.

Karan's whole life, he didn't know who he was.. is this justice? Did you see how much pain he was in. That's not greatness or selflessness. It was selfish and wrong.

I know Indu committed a sin. I'm not disagreeing with that, but we're not talking about Indu's character here.

IMO, Vasu should have divorced Indu. He doesn't deserve forgiveness.

@Bani:

Originally posted by: Lamia17

I kind of agree with you. Though if I was ever in this position, I would most probably move on my life, it's just way life goes. Kusum however did not tell anyone, did not blackmail the Rajvansh family, even though she could of. Even though she did commit a sin, she moved on. And yes she did commit a sin, but so did Inderjeet..it's not just Kusum's sin, but Inderjeets too

exactly, thats what I am trying to say...

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

@Bani:

But is this sacrifice truly right?

I mean ... even when Indu was back with Vasu, and she was pregnant ... there was still time. No Alekh or Ranvir was born ... she could call him and tell him that he needs to make a choice immediately....before its really too late.

I know ... there are other side of the story ... but just... I feel bad when love doesnt get realised 😔 ...

Well ,,, jo bhi ho ... My Sadhna is gonna be a mother 🤗

if Kusum had opened her mouth, Inder (if he had guts) would have to go against his father's wish to be with Kusum. ...and when Inder was willing to leave Kusum, why should she be a barrier in between Inder and his family's happiness..

also, I am a bit confused, did Inder stay back because of property or because he wanted to give his marriage a second chance...CTs never dealt with this and dont think will deal with this...

Bani, I'm with Rahm on this one.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

exactly, thats what I am trying to say...

even if Kusum has committed a sin (I'ld have loved to see more from the CTs), her actions throughout her life till her death as well her farsightedness that a single mistake might turn Vasu-Inder's marital life a hell through Karan, only proves the nobility of her soul.

she did make one mistake, but she kept herself away and led the life of a widow..there lies her greatness.

This track was infact been the most realistic.What I mean to say is whether we accept it not affairs out of marriage has been a trend for a very long time, but every time it ends up with a kid might not.
It feels disgusting to think Indu was unfaithful with his wife....but I feel it is naturally one of the most common problem some our societies have been facing.So mistakes like Karan happen.
Whether Kusum fell knowingly or unknowingly is a thing of the past,like in old bollywood famous story lines.
Kusum might have believed in Indu when he said, he is not in good terms with his wife and do not want to live with her or love her.They might have even exchanged garlands, who knows?
Indu returned back when his father called.Kusum might have understood that too....the lady in love she was.Of all he was already legally married to Vasu., so life went on....
I don't think neither Indu planned on it nor did Kusum and it happened....the kind of man Indu is, it is believable he left Kusum for his dad's words...not thinking twice.
In the end he had hurt and betrayed two women not knowingly or wantingly.
In my sense Kusum is a Devi! She knew what she had done.. and took care it did not hurt anybody else... she sacrificed her dream of good life to preserve her love's life!
Inder is the one to be blamed here...😆

By the way...I did not get why Ranveer had to ask for Indu's forgiveness..
Ranveer did nothing wrong, he was just being a son expressing his thought over his dad's misdeeds..He does not need to apologize.
I wanted to make a post but then realizing how sensitive it gets here I refrained.😛