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Posted: 15 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

its better, water and oil can never mix...
and please do not PM me with your "useless" clarifications that "I did not do that" ...you yourself r showing how much u meant from your heart the other day by those PMs. I am very glad that I did not believe your emotions sent through those PMs.
also, When did u add to your replies of that POST..when I objected and complained to the mods that some people are ganging up to insult me...that time to save yrself, u started PMing me...

Hold on, hold on, hold on... I knew it right that moment after I hit the send button that I had made a mistake by trying reach out with a hand of friendship... and where did I clearly say that "I didn't do that" (not that I am saying that I did)... What was written in that PM is being twisted once again, and since that was a PM and not posted on the forum, others don't know the entire matter that was written there, so no point in discussing this as it doesn't relate to the matter here... and why do I need to save myself? Had I committed a crime? Are you like Lord O Mighty that I should be afraid of? I can clearly express my mind about what I feel about certain members but many times its better not to openly hurt others and keep things to yourself... My mother taught me, if you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all... (unlike others who sugarcoat their words. thoughts, and statements)... when I do have something to say, i say it clearly, i don't beat around the bush... Think what you may, like it really makes a difference... You can hate me all that you want (as you do since day one) because no matter who else might have said anything in the past, its only my comments that you never forget to bring up time to time...
Edited by RagVir4eva - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

I started a DIYA (lighted a candle, and placed in near the steps of a lake ... at a very dark hour of the day) .... This is all I started...😊


However ... this DIYA seemed like fire to some eyes 🤢 .... and "did someone try to spill it on dry leaves?".... But I have tried to protect it 😊.

On page 3, I have tried to open the words for your intellect respectfully. However, if your motive had nothing to do with the words - then perhaps this is all you could have said as a response.

Thank you. Have a nice day ahead of you.😊

@chocolover89:

No. You are not precise in your judgement of me. Although, I wonder how can you judge me.


Anyways ... please re-read those lines with a more free-eye. I meant that those men who are linked with this lady, they go and a new person comes up for those gossip seekers. This chain doesnt stop.
That is correct, but you continued that sentence in your original post saying that she is then taunted, teased, by her "admirers" and shame on them--them referring to the "admirers". Fan is a synonym for admirers, hence your post is attacking the fans of Parul.
I am fan of Kinshuk and Parul's jodi. I want to see them together in real life. That is a wish and I don't appreciate some random person that I have never met in my life, who knows absolutely nothing about me, telling me that my linking Parul and KInshuk's name together is a shame to Parul. THAT is the personal attack you made.


Am I incorrect? ... Can you outright say "Incorrect" honestly?

And by admirers, are we only suggesting fans based on Bidaai? ... NO! ... an admirer can be anyone ... even her friends in school (who might be interested to gossip too) ... and those people who are her admirer for her other skills. EVEN I AM HER admirer for her skillfull acting which is very good when considering her as a new-comer!

Now there are admirers ... and there are fans ... and these are of various forms. One form constitute of those who gossip and make fake news (for their ... imaginations ... masala ya know...) and those who are more responsible.

By fake news for their imaginations I am assuming you are talking about Ragvir fans linking up Parul and Kinshuk because they want to see them together in real life?

Every single jodi has fans that want to see them together in real life! Sara and Angad were linked together and Sangad/Salekh fans wanted to see them together as well! The problem-- Angas is married with a kid and Sara has Ali hence you don't see Salekh fans wishing they were together in real life. Both Kinshuk and Parul have said they are single. Neither one has admitted to having a boyfriend/girlfriend. Who knows they might have one? But until it is confirmed, do the fans not have a right to wish they are together without being told it is a shame to Parul?
Link-ups are a BIG part of the entertainment industry. Actors are always linked to each other, especially if they are single. Shahid Kapoor? Since teh day he broke up with Kareena, it is a nightmare for him to even be spotted with a girl--he gets linked to her!
I cannot judge which group of her admirers are stronger or weaker ... but I surely can voice a REALISTIC concern ... based on A WORLD VIEW COLORED BY REALISM....

This is the reality now ... yes ofcourse it can change tommorow ... but till that ... THIS IS CERTAINLY TRUE ...as I write it.

Again .. as for words ... do read page 3 post of mine.

As for ATTACKS on me ... I am not going to sting anyone. Its a peaceful thread, and it declared RESPECT as its key in the beginning post. Those who have transgressed as responsible for themselves, and to the Moderator.😊
Kitni asani se sara blame Parul fans pe daal diya! I-T, kahavat to suni hi hogi, taali ek haath se nahi bajti! The mods are smart enough to understand this thread.

Anyways--the very very core of your thread that Parul gets linked up too much unecessarily--I will appreciate. I wish you had put in a way that did not demean Parul fans, then this whole fight would not have started.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: --Anu--

What's wrong with this forum ? Why does everyone take things so personally and start attacking each other ? Its really pathetic.

This is Bidaai forum. I think that sums it up perfectly, don't you think?
Fights are now as common as illogical storylines in Bidaai.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#84
I don't want to get into this argument. I just want to say this:

Yes, it sucks that actors get linked up to other people all the time, but Parul is a strong girl and I'm sure she's learned to ignore it. No matter what you do, rumors will pop up because she's in an industry where such rumors thrive and at times actually help your career.

Waise, every fan has the right to want to see their favorite jodi be together in real life. If they speculate about that then that is a compliment to the jodi itself. Their chemistry is that amazing that people have started to believe that things are that good off screen. It shouldn't affect Parul to a great extent. I think it's a compliment if people link her to Kinshuk.. their chemistry is that amazing. And anyways, they are good friends (if nothing more) which means that I'm sure they can laugh about it and enjoy the fans wishes.

Ab keh diya na? Bas keh diya. Khallas. 😃😃😃😃😃
Edited by Rahm - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: KiNnY-pArTnEr

Huh whats wrong in this post..Is he bashing parul😕

Sania, no he is not bashing Parul. But he is bashing Parul's fans: with things like admirers and shame on them.
The problem is also not that he started a post on Parul. The problem is with the way he worded it. Things were bound to get out of control.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: chocolover89

This is Bidaai forum. I think that sums it up perfectly, don't you think?
Fights are now as common as illogical storylines in Bidaai.



Bidaai forum hai na koi fight forum toh nahi. 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: RagVir4eva

Hold on, hold on, hold on... I knew it right that moment after I hit the send button that I had made a mistake by trying reach out with a hand of friendship... and where did I clearly say that "I didn't do that" (not that I am saying that I did)... What was written in that PM is being twisted once again, and since that was a PM and not posted on the forum, others don't know the entire matter that was written there, so no point in discussing this as it doesn't relate to the matter here... and why do I need to save myself? Had I committed a crime? Are you like Lord O Mighty that I should be afraid of? I can clearly express my mind about what I feel about certain members but many times its better not to openly hurt others and keep things to yourself... My mother taught me, if you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all... (unlike others who sugarcoat their words. thoughts, and statements)... when I do have something to say, i say it clearly, i don't beat around the bush... Think what you may, like it really makes a difference... You can hate me all that you want (as you do since day one) because no matter who else might have said anything in the past, its only my comments that you never forget to bring up time to time...

I can quote what u wrote me in three PMs consecutively..I dont even know who u r, I just remember u because of those three consecutive PMS you sent me on that day..

also, now u have gone upto my mother also.. by bringing in what what yr mom taught u in contrast to my mother...anyways, I have regards for any mother and with full respect to your mother's words...I'll stop here...thank you...

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Posted: 15 years ago
#88
@chocolover89:

Your wish, when comes through electronic media - and may be presented as a fact ... may become a rumour too. A wish and a rumour, are different ...

I wish that the lady I saw yesterday in the park would be the girlfriend of my neighbour ... but if I do and make groups and spread it as though a fact ... and point fingers and what not ... it becomes something else 😊.

Plus, fan can be a synonym to admirer ... but grammar based on the exact word uttered is not always the case when we consider literature or scribbles expressing deeper thoughts/feelings. Then the context of the sentence, and the atmosphere of the whole architecture of the write-up needs to be considered, often much more than the word alone.

By the way, I have RE-WORDED it after some suggestions. Please do check.

Also, all your assumptions may not be accurite. Do read that proverb, about the thorns in the mind - thorns which are not always present in the rose. All assumptions are not accurite, but they do dominate actions ... due to this the chaos here, outside, around the globe.

As for Taali ... I am not making any taali. If you want to clap ... you may. i have a personal belief that human's can never be fully controlled ... I am sure neither can you be controlled.

About other link ups ... I have given a reply to sweetkanu on this...

Do one thing, if you are interested enough, go through ALL the posts and then respond, it will help.

Thank you.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
#89
Oh and I want to make something else very clear. I am a fan of BOTH the jodis. I don't watch Bidaai for just Ragvir or just Saalekh. I love both equally.

In fact, I'm a fan of the Mama-bhanji relationship, Ma-beti, Bauji-beti, Saas-bahu, sasur-bahu, bhabi-devar, jija-saali, etc etc.

I love Bidaai for what it stands for: all the relationships that a woman goes through in her life.

I love the foursome. They have amazing chemistry not just between the jodis, but between all four of them. Why do we fight over them when they consider themselves the closest of friends?

I'm tired of the who doesn't get enough screen space fights, etc etc. It's not worth it. There's enough wars in this world.. let's make this forum a nice war free area where EVERYONE is respected and everyone's opinions are respected. If someone wants to see Parul and Kinshuk together, they should be respected. If someone doesn't want Parul linked up to others, they should be respected.

Please please please, when you write something on the forum, take care to make sure you won't offend anyone with your words.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: Rahm

Oh and I want to make something else very clear. I am a fan of BOTH the jodis. I don't watch Bidaai for just Ragvir or just Saalekh. I love both equally.

In fact, I'm a fan of the Mama-bhanji relationship, Ma-beti, Bauji-beti, Saas-bahu, sasur-bahu, bhabi-devar, jija-saali, etc etc.

I love Bidaai for what it stands for: all the relationships that a woman goes through in her life.

I love the foursome. They have amazing chemistry not just between the jodis, but between all four of them. Why do we fight over them when they consider themselves the closest of friends?

I'm tired of the who doesn't get enough screen space fights, etc etc. It's not worth it. There's enough wars in this world.. let's make this forum a nice war free area where EVERYONE is respected and everyone's opinions are respected. If someone wants to see Parul and Kinshuk together, they should be respected. If someone doesn't want Parul linked up to others, they should be respected.

BR]

Please please please, when you write something on the forum, take care to make sure you won't offend anyone with your words.
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Edited by SPN_JD_Addicted - 15 years ago

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