Parul Chauhan (Note: Pg 18...going to edit) - Page 11

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

@chocolover89:

Your wish, when comes through electronic media - and may be presented as a fact ... may become a rumour too. A wish and a rumour, are different ...

I wish that the lady I saw yesterday in the park would be the girlfriend of my neighbour ... but if I do and make groups and spread it as though a fact ... and point fingers and what not ... it becomes something else 😊.

Plus, fan can be a synonym to admirer ... but grammar based on the exact word uttered is not always the case when we consider literature or scribbles expressing deeper thoughts/feelings. Then the context of the sentence, and the atmosphere of the whole architecture of the write-up needs to be considered, often much more than the word alone.

By the way, I have RE-WORDED it after some suggestions. Please do check.

Also, all your assumptions may not be accurite. Do read that proverb, about the thorns in the mind - thorns which are not always present in the rose. All assumptions are not accurite, but they do dominate actions ... due to this the chaos here, outside, around the globe.

As for Taali ... I am not making any taali. If you want to clap ... you may. i have a personal belief that human's can never be fully controlled ... I am sure neither can you be controlled.

About other link ups ... I have given a reply to sweetkanu on this...

Do one thing, if you are interested enough, go through ALL the posts and then respond, it will help.

Thank you.😊

Who is spreading around that Parul and Kinshuk are together as FACT?

Originally posted by: Rahm

I just want to add something here if you don't mind. 😊

The difference between that lady and Parul is that Parul is an actor and it's natural when people see her on screen with someone and their jodi is amazing then people will speculate. I'm sure Parul knows this. She's not the first actor to go through this nor will she be the last. Sometimes journalists say stupid stuff (like her eyeing Sara's boyfriend), but in all honesty, I'm sure Sara wouldn't take that seriously because she knows Parul more than any of us and she knows Ali. Simple as that.

As for Parul and Kinshuk link up rumors, that helps the show. It brings interest and Parul/Kinshuk promote the show that way as well so it's fine. I'm sure they can laugh about it.

I absolutely do not mind 😊

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

Rahm ... you are right that things shouldnt offend. But sometimes, even when the thorns are not there ... the mind creates one.

As for the link-ups ... recently such a thing was there, and was subjected to remarks expressing distaste.

In the modern world, such actions/remarks/comments or link ups against real personalities, specially against professionals ... are considered unethical.

Its a huge topic and ethics had been one of my research topics when I had been studying ... I know what I talk about 😊.

Ice, can I call you Ice? Or Thinker?

Yes, sometimes the minds do create thorns that aren't there, but sometimes we fail to see that our words might hurt someone even unknowingly.

I know what you're talking about. The Ali Merchant thing? That was distasteful. If anything, we should complain to the journalist that wrote that piece.

But link ups to Kinshuk is part of the package. Parul and Kinshuk both know that. It's not unethical. I studied ethics too and for an actor it's not unethical. It's unethical for a work place, but actors that play husband and wife--these things happen. They know it comes with the job.

For example Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. They met on a movie set and fell in love. Brad got divorced and is with Angelina now. The fans of Mr and Mrs Smith must be happy.

Same way, if fans express their wish to see their favorite jodi together then it's okay. The actors themselves know this comes with the territory and they are prepared for it.

If my words have hurt you or anyone, I sincerely apologize. I really don't want to hurt anyone or make anyone angry. Just trying to show everyones point of view since I understand each side.

I had to mention omshanti420, just to make few people aware that the people who alleging I_T for something which he has not even stated clearly, these same people when someone insulted me, openly pressed "LIKE" button to appreciate that thread..

Originally posted by: Rahm

If it makes the fans happy and keeps their interest in the show then the people that stand to gain are Parul and Kinshuk. Viewers interest=higher ratings=more episodes=more money and fame which is what every actor at the end of the day wants.

So true!But all this is bekaar isn't it since media doesn't even do that lol.Rumour I mean

Originally posted by: --Anu--

IT, There was no need to bring omshati420 thing and some other old issues in this topic. Things have gotten even more ugly.
Regarding rift track, Ragini and Alekh have been criticized a lot for their actions against Sadhana. They both have rectified their mistakes big time. There is no need to bring back old issues again and create unnecessary fights. I noticed this in some topics. That's all I wanted to say.

420 or 240 is not an issue here ... you can see yourself. And rift track ended, jail track ended ... and again it was brought alive ... WHAT CAN WE DO ANU? ... Its ... unbelievable sometimes!

People have hearts ... sometimes its forgotten.

Rahm I just want to say 👏

Originally posted by: Rahm

Ice, can I call you Ice? Or Thinker?

Yes, sometimes the minds do create thorns that aren't there, but sometimes we fail to see that our words might hurt someone even unknowingly.

I know what you're talking about. The Ali Merchant thing? That was distasteful. If anything, we should complain to the journalist that wrote that piece.

But link ups to Kinshuk is part of the package. Parul and Kinshuk both know that. It's not unethical. I studied ethics too and for an actor it's not unethical. It's unethical for a work place, but actors that play husband and wife--these things happen. They know it comes with the job.

For example Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. They met on a movie set and fell in love. Brad got divorced and is with Angelina now. The fans of Mr and Mrs Smith must be happy.

Same way, if fans express their wish to see their favorite jodi together then it's okay. The actors themselves know this comes with the territory and they are prepared for it.

If my words have hurt you or anyone, I sincerely apologize. I really don't want to hurt anyone or make anyone angry. Just trying to show everyones point of view since I understand each side.

Not to forget our very own Hiten-Gauri,Ram Kapoor and his wife(sorry forgot the name) and many more I can't seem to remember.As you said,not unusual and not unusual for fans to hope either.

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

But yes ... exactly ... who brought 420? ... you can see yourself. And rift track ended, jail track ended ... and again it was brought alive ... WHAT CAN WE DO ANU? ... Its ... unbelievable sometimes!

Check page 3, you will know who brought 420.

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

I absolutely do not mind 😊

I agree with you all though...

You are the first to bring in a new dimention ... publicity ... hmm.... interesting indeed.

Now where does ethics stand when we get publicity in the picture ... is ethics not applicable in fake publicities?

Publicity or deceiving the people? ...

Publicity through rumour?....

Rumour as an element of anti-social activity ... or a catalyst to create publicity....?

Through whichever angle we look at ... is it in accordance with the moral standards of actions and behavior?

Hope is ofcourse ... unbound ... independent ... cherished... but things which go beyond may be nothing but a transgression?...

If you're going by publicity= deceiving people then you should blame Parul and Kinshuk, not their fans.

Parul herself said that her and Kinshuk fight a lot and stated that "jahan pyaar hota hain wahin pe jagda hota hain".

This is publicity yaar. Unless they are in love for real, she is publicizing her show and she has every right to do so. It's her show, her character, her everything at stake and if she has no problem with it then why should we?

When Parul and Kinshuk give interviews, they are in their character and sometimes out of it, but their chemistry always shines through and they want people to love that. It makes the fans stay glued to Bidaai for a glimpse of that chemistry and they benefit from it.