Racism and its Ugly Shade, Hidden vs. Apparent - Page 8

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

I think many people have said the same things about RagVir!
They're my favourite couple and it really hurts when people say Ragini is ugly and she's too dark,fat,older looking etc!
I think they suit each other perfectly!
Bidaai hasn't done a lot to people's mindset actually!Sad to know!

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

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Ragini is fat!!!!!!!!!!!I am really astonished, she has a beautiful figure...

One Bidaai cannot change the concept...actually people are lost in rigid ideas.</font>

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Anyone here watched the movie shallow hal?
lol it was a hillarious movie and it kind of showed similiar attitude of women with more weight vs. Good Nature vs. pretty girls and shallow attitude.

Shrek is also like that, my English professor I remember she said that if , Princess Fiona was to made marry Shrek for who he is instead of becoming an ogre then that would have been more better.

If we think about it... all the disney movies show this type of attitude, Cinderella waiting for her prince charming,

Frog and the prince , its ok once he turns into a handsome prince, even though he was a frog few minutes ago lol

Beauty and the beast, she returned to the beast but, as a reward he had to turn to into a prince cause she could ofcourse not live with a beast its illogica right?

This is what the disney movies are engrained with and what our children are watching and we wonder why this sicknes dosen't end

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

Precisely so!That hurts actually--The mindset of certain people will NEVER change!
In one Shaadi ka show--I forgot what it was called--Monish Behl along with someone would host it.Star Vivaah,I think!
There one guy wanted a 'Fair' girl and Parul asked him,"Tho kya aap meri jaisi ladki se kabhi pyaar nahi kar sakthe?"
The guy was just laughing!!

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

There is nothing wrong to wait for your prince charming,
but to have agenda then thats where the problem starts.

We expect our husband/wives to be beautiful in looks/nature/everything but we forget and I believe this 100% that you get what you are...

We also see this in our daily lives, (there are exceptions) that your husband is a reflection of you and your wife is a reflection of you.

If your wife is not obeying you then it isbecause of some negative character flaw in yours and if your husband is not kind to you or listening to you then it is your fault to much extent.

When one realizes that , Husband and wife Garment to each other, i.e. they like Garment , clothing need to cover each other faults, they need to like Garments, beautify each other with good quality and good behavior and like Garments they need to provide protection to each other then things will be more balanced.

If you really want your husband to treat you better, you become better and vice versa.

Always to have expectations is not good but one needs to become other people's expectations to excel.

That is what solves problems.

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

Well it's not always only the guy's family--I think girl's family also look for that perfect man--Hunk,tall,good hair,body etc!
We really cannot blame one side for that!
But girls(Mostly)are targeted in all this!
If the girl is damn perfect--Then even the girl's family also would want a perfect looking guy for her!
Heart doesn't matter there too!