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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: vishmewell



Nahi Baniji. I feel Sadhana ki bhi galti hai. Aalekh loves Sadhana just as much as she loves him.

Sadhana being normal and responsible always, still failed to set her priorities right. How can we expect Aalekh who was abnormal 20 yrs of his life to understand? Marriage is not business. That too wife-husband relationship is much more complicated than any other relationship.

That too, the bond between man-wife begins and grows with intimate relationship which Salekh never had. Very few close interactions they had, were just enough for Aalekh to realize love and what an intimate relationship can be with someone you love.

As soon as Aalekh became normal, Sadhana should have introduced him to such intimacy instead of sleeping on a couch... 🤪😛

So she should've leapt on the bed? Tongue...
See its a man's job there ... and over it ... this is so much not the topic to discuss in open forums ... but as you have raised it ... its not at all Sadhna's fault there.

Atleast this time I am not saying this because I am a Sadhna Fan ... but just being fare ...Sadhna did try to come nearer to Alekh .. in all the polite ways she could. But it just didnt work...simply.
And Sadhna tried her part to give more meaning to the marriage. But, she not only tried to get near unilaterally ... but also considered giving him more time...

About love ... then ... in the words of Sufi saints (including the founder of Sufizm and Masnavi-e-Mevlana) ...and even Rishis and Darvishes ... LOVE is divine in nature .. and beyond worldly logic and rationality.... infact to love one doesnt need to be sound physically or mentally ....LOVE is very grand... very overwhelming ... and unconfined to general norms.

But then my dear friend ... LETS SEE!... lets see ... what happens ... lol ... !
😊 ... As for Sadhna's mistakes ... she is Tender ... this are her paradoxes .. she is an orphan, insecure and uncertain ... feeling indebted .. WATCH "DIL HAI TUMHARA" ... I found it very interesting ....they show the life of an orphan very well ...

Usually good people who received critical-mercy in their empty scorched out lives ... remain feeling indebted forever... and this becomes a kind of INERTIA for them. In such circumstances, all they need is a BLANKET of Love ... and a sip of CARE.... which this poor girl is deprived from... Thats all I can say.
Edited by Ice-Thinker - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#12
i hope sagini's re union isnt dragged!
vasu today was just,DISGUSTING
seriosly how can she just lie, like that?
alekh is even dumber to believe her..
ranvir I LOVE YOU
ur the best, ranvir seems to be the only one with sense around here..
he didnt believe vasu.. cause he's smart
sooo glad he found out about vasu and her plans
go ranvir go!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: MrsAngadHasija

i hope sagini's re union isnt dragged!

vasu today was just,DISGUSTING
seriosly how can she just lie, like that?
alekh is even dumber to believe her..
ranvir I LOVE YOU
ur the best, ranvir seems to be the only one with sense around here..
he didnt believe vasu.. cause he's smart
sooo glad he found out about vasu and her plans
go ranvir go!



A next higher level in each episode.... Dumb .. Dumber ...Dumbest.😆


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Posted: 15 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

So she should've leapt on the bed? 😛...

See its a man's job there ... and over it ... this is so much not the topic to discuss in open forums ... but as you have raised it ... its not at all Sadhna's fault there.

Atleast this time I am not saying this because I am a Sadhna Fan ... but just being fare ...Sadhna did try to come nearer to Alekh .. in all the polite ways she could. But it just didnt work...simply.
And Sadhna tried her part to give more meaning to the marriage. But, she not only tried to get near unilaterally ... but also considered giving him more time...

About love ... then ... in the words of Sufi saints (including the founder of Sufizm and Masnavi-e-Mevlana) ...and even Rishis and Darvishes ... LOVE is divine in nature .. and beyond worldly logic and rationality.... infact to love one doesnt need to be sound physically or mentally ....LOVE is very grand... very overwhelming ... and unconfined to general norms.

But then my dear friend ... LETS SEE!... lets see ... what happens ... lol ... !
😊 ... As for Sadhna's mistakes ... she is Tender ... this are her paradoxes .. she is an orphan, insecure and uncertain ... feeling indebted .. WATCH "DIL HAI TUMHARA" ... I found it very interesting ....they show the life of an orphan very well ...

Usually good people who received critical-mercy in their empty scorched out lives ... remain feeling indebted forever... and this becomes a kind of INERTIA for them. In such circumstances, all they need is a BLANKET of Love ... and a sip of CARE.... which this poor girl is deprived from... Thats all I can say.



@ blue - 😆 You twisted my words. That's not what I meant. One can be in eternal love and not demand or even want relationship. Can remain a silent eternal lover.

If Love is the only ingredient in a marriage, Aalekh can definitely marry Mallika and still be in eternal love with Sadhana and can put Mallika on the couch (if she doesn't tear him apart) coz Aalekh is anyway a nut case. But that is not what marriage is about. It MUST have Love (which they both never expressed), compromise (which Aalekh never heard of and Sadhana compromised her marriage and hence signed the divorce papers), understanding (they both lack understanding of marriage otherwise it wouldn't be in shambles).

I LOVE SADHANA AND AALEKH. I am trying to look at them without emotions so that I can get into RS's head about these characters. He is always thinking differently... (except for the Sagini negativity part). He is definitely trying to send a strong message. Time will tell us what that is... 😊


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrsAngadHasija

i hope sagini's re union isnt dragged!

vasu today was just,DISGUSTING
seriosly how can she just lie, like that?
alekh is even dumber to believe her..
ranvir I LOVE YOU
ur the best, ranvir seems to be the only one with sense around here..
he didnt believe vasu.. cause he's smart
sooo glad he found out about vasu and her plans
go ranvir go!



I love your post Aneesha. Crisp analysis. 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishmewell


@ blue - 😆 You twisted my words. That's not what I meant. One can be in eternal love and not demand or even want relationship. Can remain a silent eternal lover.

If Love is the only ingredient in a marriage, Aalekh can definitely marry Mallika and still be in eternal love with Sadhana and can put Mallika on the couch (if she doesn't tear him apart) coz Aalekh is anyway a nut case. But that is not what marriage is about. It MUST have Love (which they both never expressed), compromise (which Aalekh never heard of and Sadhana compromised her marriage and hence signed the divorce papers), understanding (they both lack understanding of marriage otherwise it wouldn't be in shambles).

I LOVE SADHANA AND AALEKH. I am trying to look at them without emotions so that I can get into RS's head about these characters. He is always thinking differently... (except for the Sagini negativity part). He is definitely trying to send a strong message. Time will tell us what that is... 😊




Very well said. Loved your post.

@bold : Yes he is..😆...Mallika will leave him on day 1...only Sadi can sustain a relationship with him...no one else.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: vishmewell



I love your post Aneesha. Crisp analysis. 😳

thankyouu🤗
today's epidode had its plus points
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Posted: 15 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: --Anu--



Very well said. Loved your post.

@bold : Yes he is..😆...Mallika will leave him on day 1...only Sadi can sustain a relationship with him...no one else.



Thanks Anu 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

I was disgusted by Vasu today ... i mean... how could she... WHAT IS SHE??

Alekh ... and his confusion...

Ranvir is the dearest...

Ragini ... I saw a promo where Ragini is sorry ... I felt ... bad for her for some odd reason 😕 ... first time ... Maybe now she should start some kind of apology and etc...
I think Sadhna is right not to say anything ... I FEEL even if Sadhna comes up and says everything...NO ONE WILL BELIEVE HER... so why waste words?

To believe you need LOVE... ... a love that stands out.

I know Alekh is immature ... hopefully he will mature soon after this track..

However... as per Sayyid Jalaluddin Rumi (hope you guyz heard of him...)... did a love ever had to be mature and intellectual?... LOVE - IT IS THE INTOXICATION OF A DEEWANA - ISHQ ... is the consequence of divine logic ... those who love are known to be unaware of worldly logic and gain and loss... or respect or insult ...or success or failure...

(But then the argument comes that its a serial...oh well)...

Anyways... lets see whats next....I Foresee the season of solutions comin ahead soon.

why waste words???? thats if anyone lets her speak some words..........its more like why waste her time begging for someone to let her speak..............I think sometimes its unfair for everyone to(in the serial) that "why didn't u tell me Sadhna"......but no one really ever gives her that chance to explain or answer that question.....they just go on and on and on bashing at her..........so she is better off staying quite.......you should never be afraid when you have done nothing wrong...the truth always finds its ways to come out.......and when it does those people are going to be the first ones to feel stupid for saying all they said........so good for her that Sadhna is quite...........👏
Edited by taral83 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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In Alekh's case, falling in love or realizing his love for Sadhna is like a learning process because lets not forget where he is coming from😉..he was immune to love and feelings for years when his mental condition was not proper..so all this trust-factor in love or understanding your lifepartner stuffs Ranvir might understand but Alekh has still not reached that matured phase of life😊;
Just when he was becoming normal,Ranvir got involved in that case and everything went upside down in their lives;Before he could even realize the duties of a perfect husband,he got involved in Ranvir's case and then of course all that case fiasco took place where Sadhna supported the truth...even after that Alekh never imagined of getting separated from Sadhna but it was Vasu who brainwashed him and sinse he was still raw to the definition of marriage or love..he just kept on following his mother's footsteps and still doing the same..
Its Vasu's fault the way she is manipulating things and using her son to her own advantage..
Alekh's only fault is that earlier he blindly trusted Choti Maa and today he is blindly trusting his own Maa..why ??because he is yet to understand the real meaning of marriage and being the ideal husband..he has never gone through that phase after he became normal and so he is acting in a immatured way..
Edited by jyoti06 - 15 years ago

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