Sadhna needs Personality Development Classes

Dear Friends,

Sadhna thinks that she is not good for Alekh her "Mummy jee" is right and Malika and Alekh make a perfect pair. Her Mama jee brought her up and Raagni with s much nice cultured values . If Raagni and Ranvir can make a perfect pair and Raagni does have confidence about her and Ranvir's perfect couple why saadhna have doubts ...why is she a cry baby ?

Regards,

Mrs. Ahmed

yeah true she has very poor confidence but maybe its becos she has been an orphan and has been taking all of mamiji's taunts so she may in the corner of her mind always think she is not the best...whereas ragini has always had full suooirt from parents and sadhna and now ranvir but sadhna didnt even enjoy her husbands love ...all thru her life she has been put up with difficulties and has faced hatred

because raghini got everythng in life so easy.. first off sadhna doesnt have parents to go to whenever she is in trouble like raghini. there is always a difference in mamaji and father, believe it or not there is. secondly everyone she love is going away from her. they are hating her. people do loose self confidence when that happens.. i mean cmon her own husband is not with her, what do u expect. i agree that she can try to get self confidence and stand up for her self but you kknow what its really hard when a person is going thru that much.

Originally posted by: p@ras

yeah true she has very poor confidence but maybe its becos she has been an orphan and has been taking all of mamiji's taunts so she may in the corner of her mind always think she is not the best...whereas ragini has always had full suooirt from parents and sadhna and now ranvir but sadhna didnt even enjoy her husbands love ...all thru her life she has been put up with difficulties and has faced hatred

hmm probably u are right ...but still one should have faith on his / her love ..same is for Alekh why he donot have faith on his wife who is so devoted

I think confidence comes by different aspects.
1.In our country, lots of importance is given to Parents status, which Sadhana does not have.
2.Ragini did whatever she wanted, like learning dance which made her confident as getting whatever you want in life makes a person more optimist....But Sadhana probably never thought of her likes as for her leaving under someones roof itself was too big.
3.I feel Sadhana has confidence in herself, but when somebody says you don't deserve this , it will definitely make you wonder when you are so humble.
4.After saying all these I still want to say that Sadhana has confidence..otherwise she would have not made an attempt to learn dance in 3 days or work under.
So here is it not Sadhana's confidence in question but her down to earth behavior, which put everybody else's perspect in front of her own.

sadhana's confidence comes only when she is doing sumthng for others,like the dance competition or making aalekh allright..for herself she never ever stands up which frankly speaking is a wrong message to put fwd..sum1 who does not respect herself does not expect others to respect her and tht is what happens wid sadhna over and over again..and self respect is necessary..every person owes it to himself or herself..tht is lacking in sadhna..and makes her character doormattish..even ragini,she is so wrapped up around ranvir tht she has lost her individuality..i personally dnt agree wid tht..marriage does not make u less of a person..

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@anu rulz! well said!

I agree! Sadhna does appear doormat-ish at times- I think one can have self-respect, not take crap from people etc without being loud and obnoxious. I don't think she seeks mahaanta for herself, but surely one can be open about one's actions without exhibiting the wrong kind of pride?
Why does she hide everything? Its her tendency to secrecy that I find is her real flaw.


I also agree that Ragini lost her individuality to Ranvir - she is unable to see anything beyond him. Hence her anger with Sadhna. I actually don;t think she should be villainized for that. She did suffer a miscarriage and women react differently to such a trauma....its also hormonal sometimes. and sometimes in the real world when something bad happens to a person they lash out at the people closest to them. Thats what makes Ragini somewhat more human to me....you know real. Kicking Sadhna out of the house etc was unnecessary, but what can I say? This is a soap!


I think these serials portray people as either black or white (no pun intended!) and thats simply not realistic. Thats why they are so frustratingly inconsistent with their character portrayals sometimes. Its so over-the-top sometimes. I have decided that the only way I can watch them is to suspend belief and just go with the flow!