BAAASS sadhna!! STOP this give-and-take contract!!

marriage, nor divorce is a give and take contract. but the way i see it, that is EXACTLY how sadi's treating them, BOTH: like a contract!!! she would've never, NEVER married alekh had it not been for his money. seriously, think about it guys. would sadi have agreed to marry alekh, a mentally retarted man, had it not been for vasu offering her money so she could pay off her uncle's debt and the exchange for ragi's happiness (cause she felt at the time that ragi's happiness would lie within her marriage to ranvir)??? NO!!!! she would've NEVER agreed to marry alekh if it wasn't for that "give-and-take" contract!!!!!! and it was absolutely DISGUSTING then, that she was willing to treat marriage, a sacred union, like that, and it is absolutely DISGUSTING now that she's willing to divorce her husband for the same reason; she's treating it like a CONTRACT, AGAIN!!!!!! if you divorce someone, its not supposed to be so that you can get money from it. that's just WRONG!!!!!! think about it, would sadi be divorcing alekh if it wasn't for the money??? NO!!!!!!!! and what's even more disgusting, she could've had another way, the RIGHT way to get that money, which was by winning the competition. but she blew it all away, PURPOSELY, so she could see ragi's happiness. can you say, "DE-JA-VU"???!!!!!! i would've had no problem had sadi lost, trying her very best, but she lost on purpose, knowing very well that this would jeapordize her chances of getting money for mamiji's operation, who is at her DEATH BED, and also that it would end all her relations with alekh!!!!!! now again, i have said this before, i have no problem with sadi divorcing alekh; he's been a terrible husband. but that is NOT her reasoning for it!!! her reason is that she will get money out of it, that is why she's divorcing him!!!!! like i said, had it not been for the money, sadi would never even consider divorcing alekh!!!! seriously, sadi's behavior today has truly, truly disappointed me. now i HOPE, that she will refuse to sign the divorce papers tomorrow. if not, then believe me, i am DONE with this show. NEVER AGAIN will i watch it!!!! seriously, how sadi's treating both marriage and divorce, like a contract, is just disgusting, DIS-GUS-TING!!!!!!

I understand your frustration completely. But is there any real marriage between Saalekh ?? What has Alekh ever done for Sadhana as a husband?? He has already disowned her...disrespected her so many times. Sadhana gave him another chance by going back to Rajvansh house after Vasu kicked her out. But no...Mamma's boy preferred to stay in his room and cry.
Does it make any difference by signing the papers ?? At-least she can save someone's life. If Sadhana was interested in money then she would have signed it earlier and got the alimony. Lets give this poor soul a break !! She lost on purpose so that her elder sister doesn't get another depression attack as her self confidence is so low. She became emotionally weak after rememering her good times with her sister. Can't blame her in this case.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I understand your frustration completely. But is there any real marriage between Saalekh ?? What has Alekh ever done for Sadhana as a husband?? He has already disowned her...disrespected her so many times. Sadhana gave him another chance by going back to Rajvansh house after Vasu kicked her out. But no...Mamma's boy preferred to stay in his room and cry.
Does it make any difference by signing the papers ?? At-least she can save someone's life. If Sadhana was interested in money then she would have signed it earlier and got the alimony. Lets give this poor soul a break !! She lost on purpose so that her elder sister doesn't get another depression attack as her self confidence is so low. She became emotionally weak after rememering her good times with her sister. Can't blame her in this case.

Totally agree, n sadhna didn't marry alekh 4 money, Vasu wanted her to marry alekh for money but sadhna wanted ranveer for ragini that's y she agreed, vasu knowing well ranveer won't agree, it's funny how much vasu knows sadhna n her weaknesses, we don't like vasu but if u think abt it no one in bidaai knows sadhna inside out or better than vasu, she always know wot to do to get sadhna to do wot she wants, or where to block her, it's pity none of the good ppl knows sadhna like she does including mamaji, it's really bad

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alekh sirf naam ka pati hai,

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its actually gud if they get divorced...i mean it wasnt a real or complete marriage in any way. First of all, alekh didnt even know what marriage means when he married sadi. And sadi also had to marry him helplessly. Even after marriage, they were only frndz, nothing else. So its gud they get divorced & they can still fall in love again & get married only & only they love each other. I like this track now ;O

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

its actually gud if they get divorced...i mean it wasnt a real or complete marriage in any way. First of all, alekh didnt even know what marriage means when he married sadi. And sadi also had to marry him helplessly. Even after marriage, they were only frndz, nothing else. So its gud they get divorced & they can still fall in love again & get married only & only they love each other. I like this track now ;O

I agree with ya. I'd even metioned before that let them seperate and reunite later if they really care about each-other and the true meaning of their relationship specially from Aalekh's side.

Originally posted by: pricey28

marriage, nor divorce is a give and take contract. but the way i see it, that is EXACTLY how sadi's treating them, BOTH: like a contract!!! she would've never, NEVER married alekh had it not been for his money. seriously, think about it guys. would sadi have agreed to marry alekh, a mentally retarted man, had it not been for vasu offering her money so she could pay off her uncle's debt and the exchange for ragi's happiness (cause she felt at the time that ragi's happiness would lie within her marriage to ranvir)??? NO!!!! she would've NEVER agreed to marry alekh if it wasn't for that "give-and-take" contract!!!!!! and it was absolutely DISGUSTING then, that she was willing to treat marriage, a sacred union, like that, and it is absolutely DISGUSTING now that she's willing to divorce her husband for the same reason; she's treating it like a CONTRACT, AGAIN!!!!!! if you divorce someone, its not supposed to be so that you can get money from it. that's just WRONG!!!!!! think about it, would sadi be divorcing alekh if it wasn't for the money??? NO!!!!!!!! and what's even more disgusting, she could've had another way, the RIGHT way to get that money, which was by winning the competition. but she blew it all away, PURPOSELY, so she could see ragi's happiness. can you say, "DE-JA-VU"???!!!!!! i would've had no problem had sadi lost, trying her very best, but she lost on purpose, knowing very well that this would jeapordize her chances of getting money for mamiji's operation, who is at her DEATH BED, and also that it would end all her relations with alekh!!!!!! now again, i have said this before, i have no problem with sadi divorcing alekh; he's been a terrible husband. but that is NOT her reasoning for it!!! her reason is that she will get money out of it, that is why she's divorcing him!!!!! like i said, had it not been for the money, sadi would never even consider divorcing alekh!!!! seriously, sadi's behavior today has truly, truly disappointed me. now i HOPE, that she will refuse to sign the divorce papers tomorrow. if not, then believe me, i am DONE with this show. NEVER AGAIN will i watch it!!!! seriously, how sadi's treating both marriage and divorce, like a contract, is just disgusting, DIS-GUS-TING!!!!!!

Vasu trapped Sadhna into marrying Aalekh, its true if the reason for getting money was not there, maybe Sadi would not have married a mentally challenged man, but once she was married she never treated it as a "CONTRACT" for money.

The day after the marriage when Aalekh and Sadi are at the mandir and Mamaji goes to get her she refuses to go with Mamaji saying that now she is married and her place is with her husband.

She refused to sign the divorce papers for money and tried to get it thru this competition. I wish they had shown that Sadi won so then again this time she would not have had to sign them, but as Taral said she is in a tough situation and if she wins 1 thing she ends up losing something else.

She is not too happy nor to eager to sign the divorce papers, the hesitation is showing very clearly.

i understand that sadi fulfilled every duty as a wife, and that is why even though she married alekh under conditions, her actions were ultimately forgivable. but it was still wrong, the reasons why she got married, and now she's doing the same thing again. don't you guys agree, a marriage shouldn't be based upon a condition, a "contract", no matter how "noble" your intentions may be...? but like i said, as she did prove to be a very good wife in the end, her actions were forgivable, but what's bothering me about it now, is that she's doing it again!!!!
alekh is a terrible husband, and doesn't deserve sadi, i AGREE!!!!! and if she wants to divorce him, it should be for the right reasons, not so she could get money out of it, esp when she clearly doesn't even wanna divorce him!!!! and what's worse, she could've gotten the money the right way, but she blew that away on PURPOSE for a completely unnecessary reason. if she lost even after trying her best, then its fine, but she lost on purpose fully being aware that it could jeapordize both mamiji's health, and her relations with alekh. ok, so she wanted to see ragi happy, and that's why she lost. that's fine too. but why can't she ask ragi and ranvir for help then? at first when she didn't tell ragi about mamiji's condition (before mahotsav), i thought it was acceptable. but now ragi is the reason she lost, so i think its absolutely ridiculous that she isn't asking ragi for the money, esp when its ragi's OWN MOTHER. of course ragi would've helped.
i just don't understand how anyone can give justification for sadi's "give-and-take" attitude towards both marriage and divorce...???!!!!!
and lastly, just wanted to say that i was so happy and proud of sadi when she stood up to vasu on that episode when she refused her "contract", and even applauded CTs of bidaai/rajan shahi for not being another kekta show. but i guess all that was for nothing; unless of course, they show us something different in tomm epi, and sadi refuses to sign the papers, and perhaps gets the money by asking ragi, which would be the RIGHT way. if that happens, i'll take a sigh of relief, or else, its sionara from me to bidaai, at least for a couple of months. no reason in showing and/or seeing such nonsense