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Posted: 15 years ago
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Congrats Bidaaians...for successfully debating without major hurdles.....let's do more of this...happy to see some glimpse of old forum back :)
Edited by Bini311 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ranvir is completely right no doubt abt that, but can we deny that this will be hurting Ragini a lot. Ragini currently is in a state of mind where she is blinded by Ranvir n her love for Ranvir and she is not thinking anything beyond it but is it really her fault?? Ranvir has hurt Ragini a lot, he has always, always been a great brother, great bhai, beta, damad n most importantly a great human being but he has never ever been a Good Husband. No one can deny that he has taken Ragini for granted. No one is stoping him from caring about his bhabi but being a husband was it right on his part to say "dont care about those, who dont care about you"?? Which wife would like her husband to say smthng like this about her? Just a few days back he begged infront of Sadhna to help him get back his old Ragini, so why such a contrast in his dialogues?? All we want right now is Ranvir being honest to Ragini, she'll be hurt, but atleast she'll get to know the other side, the truth about the whole situation.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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and the badest thing is what dharaa that ragini may heard all what he says ,I wonder what she will do next ,ranvir you are right in your place as dever ,as bhai and as human being ,but try once atleast to be good husband ,he should understand this now that a wife not just want love and care of her husband ,she also need's his honesty and trust and an unedrstanding from his side ,and very well said dharaa
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Salha.......[and the badest thing is what dharaa that ragini may heard all what he says ,I wonder what she will do next ,ranvir you are right in your place as dever ,as bhai and as human being ,but try once atleast to be good husband ,he should understand this now that a wife not just want love and care of her husband ,she also need's his honesty and trust and an unedrstanding from his side ,and very well said dharaa ]
Just because he is trying to fix the things in place.........you are addressing him someone as dishonest, untrustworthy.....if he does follow ragini's rules........will you be able to put him apart from Vinu and Naveen?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ranvir is more than a good husband .... he has never ever taken Ragini for granted .... only during the mystry track, he hidden the fact from everyone ... and Ranvir really had faith in Ragini that when truth would reveal, Ragini would understand him ... that is what called true love. Definitely Ragini was hurt .. but telling her everything from begining could have messed the plan completely ....
Ranvir is really a matured person .. and he trusts his wife .... believes in their love. You know that's an example of when too many guests come to house and you have less cups of tea, you give the cup of tea to the guest and do not give to someone own .. as you know that person would understand cause of your behaviour .. as the person is your own .. that is what trust is .... dancing to wife's tune and talking to only those people whom your wife permit is not an example of trust ...
Ranvir told Sadhna ... why you always think happiness of people who never think about your happiness ... Ranvir wants to think her about Alekh .... Ragini knows how much Alekh is missing Sadhna .. she saw him weeping and what she herself did when Ranvir was not there .... Vasu is always selfish and thinks about her happiness only so forget that ... Ranvir has seen the pain on Alekh's face.
Ranvir is only positive character here apart from Sharmaji and Sadhna .... in that case Sharmaji should have thrown Sadhna out of KN also as Kaushi did not want Sadhna there .... so Sharmaji ignored his wife?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I'm not saying like this and I 100% don't want him to become like veenu and naveen .I'm just saying that he promised ragini not to meet sadi, my point is meet sadi ,but not in a place where ragini is there also ,because some how ranvir will feel bad ,because he broke the promise
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ salha.......[I'm not saying like this and I 100% don't want him to become like veenu and naveen .I'm just saying that he promised ragini not to meet sadi, my point is meet sadi ,but not in a place where ragini is there also ,because some how ranvir will feel bad ,because he broke the promise]
.........salha dear........now this is cheating.......
Edited by piyualka - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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how this is cheating ,helping sadi is not cheating
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dharaa

Ranvir is completely right no doubt abt that, but can we deny that this will be hurting Ragini a lot. Ragini currently is in a state of mind where she is blinded by Ranvir n her love for Ranvir and she is not thinking anything beyond it but is it really her fault?? Ranvir has hurt Ragini a lot, he has always, always been a great brother, great bhai, beta, damad n most importantly a great human being but he has never ever been a Good Husband. No one can deny that he has taken Ragini for granted. No one is stoping him from caring about his bhabi but being a husband was it right on his part to say "dont care about those, who dont care about you"?? Which wife would like her husband to say smthng like this about her? Just a few days back he begged infront of Sadhna to help him get back his old Ragini, so why such a contrast in his dialogues?? All we want right now is Ranvir being honest to Ragini, she'll be hurt, but atleast she'll get to know the other side, the truth about the whole situation.

He is indeed a great human being and fulfills all his relationships, including a "good husband"...........there is not a difference in dialogues but a difference in events. When he asked Sadhna for advise on how to make Ragini happy, one he was strictly told by his doctor, two he had no clue on how to bring her out of her depression, three Like a GOOD HUSBAND, not caring if he had to beg someone for help he asked his Bhabi who is also is wife's sister for help......because at that time it was his first priority to make her happy. He went looking for help whether that was to a stranger or a family member that was HIS own Love and Care to help his Own wife. And at that time......I don't recall him tring to talk to Sadhna for any other reason then Ragini..........and how to help her............that was his priority.........he first need to get her out of the depression. He also hoped that once she is out of depression he will rationalize with her with the rift between the relationships. But right now all his plans to bring back things to normal have failed. His own brother doesn't want anything do with his wife, Ragini doesn't want to do anything with her sister, Vasu doesn't want anything to do with her own daughter-in-law............those people very clearly are not taking any interest to mend things back together.............hence the line "why care about people that dont care about you???" not only is that a statement but its also a QUESTIONS............which Sadhna can answer very gracefully................I really don't understand get upset over the fact that Ravir is hiding stuff from Ragini.....about meeting Sadhna and trying to help............but he is also Hiding the reason behind all this happiness................Y is a question not raised on that????.............I am sorry to say.......if almost feels as if you don't do things for Ragini and run behind her like tail........you are wrong and blamed.........Ranvir has fulfilled every responsibility of a husband very nicely..........and because you are someones WIFE or HUSBAND doesn't mean that your partner has to blind sited...and don't do anything but stuff for you........he is not taking Ragini for granted........he very well knows what she needs........HENCE THE SMILE ON HER FACE...................but because your a husband you don't forget that you are a son and a brother........To blame Ranvir of not being a "good husband" is out of the question.............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: piyualka

I'm not saying like this and I 100% don't want him to become like veenu and naveen .I'm just saying that he promised ragini not to meet sadi, my point is meet sadi ,but not in a place where ragini is there also ,because some how ranvir will feel bad ,because he broke the promise ..............salha dear........now this is cheating.......

This is not cheating, this has to be ek na ek din, there should be someone to take a step on getting the justice, no one better than Ranvir in the house who can do it and Ragini has to understand this one day.........
Edited by farislove - 15 years ago

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