Best and worst pati in Bidaai

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Posted: 15 years ago
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This is a fun article to start with , but we can slowly build it up with logical discussions and conclude it with a serious note..I welcome everyone to state their choice and provide a logic even if it is for fun sake...
for me...
Best pati: Indrajeet....he is a true "patnibrata pati"..he knew throughout his life that Vasu killed his father, but out of fear or love(?), he kept numb..noone can beat him...
worst pati: normal Alekh...Alekh opens his eyes towards Sadhna only to criticise or yell at her

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Best pati...Naveen : Avni and Naveen are a match made in heaven. They are so happy with each other.

Worst Pati : No comments. lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Best Pati: Mamaji..............what can I say about him...........understanding, supportive, stern when needed, responsible, great father, a "leader", a man with value, ethics and self respect............not only is he a great husband but he is a great human being...............

Worst Pati: Alekh and Ranvir................Alekh is not at all doing his job as a husband anymore, he is disrespectful, not at all understanding, unfair, and cruel.............Ranvir.....he may not be a bad human being, but he has not justified (for me at least) as a good husband yet.......Romance does not get you through life...............Yes he wan't Sadhna to get the respect she deserves.....but he has not done anything about it except when he first came home.............I don't believe in "pati-parmeshwar" types of traditions.......I think a relationship is 50/50, but its also important for one to put their foot down when the other is wrong.............and he is not at all trying yet in my terms.............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Interesting article..I have been a silent reader of all posts on the Bidaai forum...but this post tempted me to start writing here as well....

I have especially enjoyed reading "Omshanti1111", "Anu" ,"taral 83"and "Crimson_sky"......

Anyway, back to the topic...In my opinion, Mamaji is probably the most balanced and righteous pati on Bidaai, while everyone else is in someway flawed....

Inderjeet is totally hen-pecked, always running around Vasu and letting her ruin people's lifes....

Naveen...Iss ka to kya kehna.....😆

Normal Alekh falls lower each day with his respect/guilt/love for mom and total disregard for his wife's feelings....

Vinu is the most confused husband on Bidaai, torn between his love/responsiblity towards his parents and his wife-kid....

Lastly, Ranveer..he is probably one of the better ones but in my opinion, he too lacks the ability to calmly but firmly talk to Vasu or Ragi or even Sadi and try to solve the current problem.....He should have tried to find out the details from Vasu or Ragi and in a calm but firm manner put his points forward (all of Sadi's sacrifices for the Rajvansh clan etc)....Don't know about Vasu, but atleast Ragi would have somewhat understood, esp as it is coming from her beloved Ranvir....Even when he went to meet Sadi, he should have been firm enough to tell her that he is not doing anything wrong and wants to talk to her for a few minutes...instead of letting all the women folk run his life.....Solely my opinion.....


Edited by svesum - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I didn't put Alekh's name in worst pati list intentionally. For me.. he is not fully normal. This guy doesn't even know ABC of being a dutiful husband and his responsibility towards his dear wife. He just wants to prove himself for his "Mamma". It looks like, he is still in his teens. lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: svesum

Interesting article..I have been a silent reader of all posts on the Bidaai forum...but this post tempted me to start writing here as well....

I have especially enjoyed reading "Omshanti1111", "Anu" ,"taral 83"and "Crimson_sky"......

Anyway, back to the topic...In my opinion, Mamaji is probably the most balanced and righteous pati on Bidaai, while everyone else is in someway flawed....

Inderjeet is totally hen-pecked, always running around Vasu and letting her ruin people's lifes....

Naveen...Iss ka to kya kehna.....😆

Normal Alekh falls lower each day with his respect/guilt/love for mom and total disregard for his wife's feelings....

Vinu is the most confused husband on Bidaai, torn between his love/responsiblity towards his parents and his wife-kid....

Lastly, Ranveer..he is probably one of the better ones but in my opinion, he too lacks the ability to calmly but firmly talk to Vasu or Ragi or even Sadi and try to solve the current problem.....He should have tried to find out the details from Vasu or Ragi and in a calm but firm manner put his points forward (all of Sadi's sacrifices for the Rajvansh clan etc)....Don't know about Vasu, but atleast Ragi would have somewhat understood, esp as it is coming from her beloved Ranvir....Even when he went to meet Sadi, he should have been firm enough to tell her that he is not doing anything wrong and wants to talk to her for a few minutes...instead of letting all the women folk run his life.....Solely my opinion.....


hey, welcome to the forum.... and what an anlysis you made...great and so much logic in it...please keep posting... I welcome all the silent members of the Bidaai forum to start participating ...its fun and such a good way to spend your time..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Vinu and Inderjeet are not at all good husbands as they can't control their wives irrational behavior. A good spouse doesn't let his/her partner go astray, like Mamaji said in one episode.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

hey, welcome to the forum.... and what an anlysis you made...great and so much logic in it...please keep posting... I welcome all the silent members of the Bidaai forum to start participating ...its fun and such a good way to spend your time..




Thanks a lot for the warm welcome...I will definitely post more often...😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Anu--

Vinu and Inderjeet are not at all good husbands as they can't control their wives irrational behavior. A good spouse doesn't let his/her partner go astray, like Mamaji said in one episode.

I wrote it for fun sake and also keeping the "popular awards" in mind...popular awards mean whom people choose and these days any husband who blindly supports a wife is considered an ideal husband...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I wrote it for fun sake and also keeping the "popular awards" in mind...popular awards mean whom people choose and these days any husband who blindly supports a wife is considered an ideal husband...



In that case....the popular award goes to all the hubbies except Mamaji and Alekh. 😆

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