Rift!!!!!!!! who is responsible... - Page 3

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

<FONT color=#0033cc>Coming to your question why Sadhna did not speak openly with Ragini what she could do with Ranveer...but do youremeber that situation, Sadhna did not herself tell Ranveer, but Ranveer could feel and asked Sadhna... my question is same for Ragini, Ragini knows Sdahna from childhood, could she not make out that Sadhna was in a dilemma...any Tom, Dick and Harry could understand that Sadhna will not be able to speak lies by seeing her shivering and fainting, and even if she does, she will be caught in no time...I agree that Sadhna should have been stronger and said "I wont lie", but when I watched, I left she wated to lie, but could not at the last moment...</FONT>

<FONT color=#0033cc>Ragini's all love vanished within a moment when Sadhna could not cater to Ragini;s needs..again if such a situation arises, then Ragini will again weigh her and Sadhna's relationship onthe factor, whether Sadhna can cater to her needs...there was an act of childishness...</FONT>

<FONT color=#0033cc>This is where neighbouring people come in.. and these neighbouring people are not Naveen or Avni or Vasu or Malti..but Kaushi, Mamaji, Naniji, Vinu who have seen their love over the years... Kaushi and Nani just utilised this situation to prove their point that Sadhna is a curse for Ragini...Mamaji should have interacted more with Ragini, Vinu as the only brother to both his sisters should have done a brotherly act...but noone did anything..rather added fuel to the fire...</FONT>

Originally posted by: farislove

I don't agree with u, insteadof getting effected by Kaushi and Vasu's negativity,Sadhna and Raginishould make these people understand that life not take on negativity............

Originally posted by: helloall

Yes, I wanted to say the same thing. Why is Ragini and Sadhna's relationship not like that? Why couldn't Sadhna tell her honestly? I'm not blaming Sadhna, I'm just asking why is the relationship not so that Sadhna could open her heart out? I've always felt that Sadhna has always tried to bring happiness into Ragini's life, she has lived for that, Ragini has also done the same but only when her own interest came into picture she faltered, not just this time but even during the Ranvir slapping incident. Even then I expected Ragini to confront her rather than the cold treatment she was meeting out to Sadhna before Ranvir made her understand. Their relationship is weak is all I can say. Yes, others added fuel to the fire but if the relationship is strong no one can step in. See Sadhna Ranvir or Sadhna Mamaji's relationship. Has mamiji been able to ruin it?

Its hard to blame anyone for the rift between the sisters as the sole reason as surroundings and circumstances around them created the rift. We have insecurity from mamiji's side. If she only realized Sadhna will never stay in the way for Raginis happiness and saw the good nature of Sadhna, things could have been smoother for the sisters. She is neither a good or bad person, but definitely a bad guilder and influence for her daughter. her whole world is all about mama ji and her kids, a mother will always be selfish when it comes to her own kids as she want the best, that's why she couldn't give a place for Sadhna in her heart. Then we have Vasu, her love for her kids are kind of extreme and it folds her eyes

Like someone above mentioned, the lack of communication between the sisters, there is no doubt they share unique bond between them but somewhere, both have not been 100% honest with each other. At one point, both have hided things from each other instead of sharing it with each other and clear out stuff. Both shares their happiness but hold backs their sorrows and pains with good intention but at one point it will backfire. how will the other part know what you think or feel if you are not open?

Originally posted by: meli

Its hard to blame anyone for the rift between the sisters as the sole reason as surroundings and circumstances around them created the rift. We have insecurity from mamiji's side. If she only realized Sadhna will never stay in the way for Raginis happiness and saw the good nature of Sadhna, things could have been smoother for the sisters. She is neither a good or bad person, but definitely a bad guilder and influence for her daughter. her whole world is all about mama ji and her kids, a mother will always be selfish when it comes to her own kids as she want the best, that's why she couldn't give a place for Sadhna in her heart. Then we have Vasu, her love for her kids are kind of extreme and it folds her eyes

Like someone above mentioned, the lack of communication between the sisters, there is no doubt they share unique bond between them but somewhere, both have not been 100% honest with each other. At one point, both have hided things from each other instead of sharing it with each other and clear out stuff. Both shares their happiness but hold backs their sorrows and pains with good intention but at one point it will backfire. how will the other part know what you think or feel if you are not open?

High expectations of someone is also not good. Good exp is the court trial, high expectations and hopes for others may be too high for the situation at hand and when the outcomes it not like the one excepted it may create a big emotional breakdown like in Raginis case.

Many good points on the posts aboves👍🏼

The list can go on and on if we take time to analyze everything😆 but the main culprite for the rift are the creative heads😆

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

<br><br><font color="#0033ff">agreed... what you said... even during that college guy incident, she suspected Sadhna's intentions...that means if you look at the creatives craetivity, they have been consistently shown that Ragini's understanding was a but weaker than Sadhna's..Slapping incident cannot be related to misunderstanding though.. Sadhna should have kept her cool, she could not, she was at fault...<br><br>Yes, Mamaji-Sadhna and Sadhna- Ranveer relationships are equal because as human beings, all are excellent and altruistic, selfless...I run short of adjectives to describe these three people..they have inner sense to feel people..like Ranveer even staying away could feel that Sadhna could be in trouble or by looking at Sdahna felt that there is something wrong going on and she is in a dilemma...<br></font><br>

Well the obvious answer is Bidaai CT.

Originally posted by: taral83

I believe that most people and society live under the notion that "apne apne hote hai...aur paraya paraya hote hai....." No matter what Sadhna does for Ragni.......for Kaushi she was never her real sister...not related by blood....so she couldn't have meant good for Ragni.....that is the misconception that Kaushi is living under. I don't believe that Kaushi wanted to cause a rift between them.......in the evil sense............but I think that Kaushi is genuinely under the impression that Ragni suffers because of Sadhna....and that she must some how really and truly show Ragni Sadhna's true intentions and character....All throught out their life.......Kaushi has seen injustice done to Ragni due to her color and Sadhna beauty...........and to add to that Sadhna is not her REAL sister.............those two factors have created a hatred for Sadhna........because she believes that Sadhna is out to hurt Ragni...........If she was her own sister...........yes Kaushi would not have acted the way she does right now......because she would be Ragni's REAL SISTER..............but the truth is she is not.....and all the wrongs that have happened in Ragni's life are directly or indirectly connected with Sadhna..............call it a mother's love or what.........but that is the average mind of society......................No matter what and how much a out sider does for you..........they will never get the same place in one's heart as someone that is your own..........we see that in everyday issues of saas-bahu's..........daughter-in-law will never be a daughter (and not all cases, im speaking general).....and a mother-in-law can never be a mother (again just general)............why...that blood relationship.........And that is Kaushi's problem...........and when all the mess started to happen......with the case and miscarriage....Kaushi thought what a better opportunity to make Ragni realize Sadhna's true character.......I must warn her before she makes more mistakes.......Kaushi is one of the many that are good at heart........but are under misconception about Sadhna's honest,good natured, and loving character.