Rift!!!!!!!! who is responsible...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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We had lots of fights and discussions as to whether Ragini is right or Sadhna is right in this rift...but I feel if anyone has to be blamed its only Kaushi and the surrounding people..Young people make mistakes, but its a duty of elders to give them good advice, what Mamaji was trying to do.. It was Kaushi's long last desire to create a rift between Ragini and Sadhna, that Ragini should misunderstand Sadhna...She tried many times, but never ever became successful.. as soon as Kaushi found that Ranveer is a weakpoint of Ragini, she slow poisoned Ragini with the help of Ranveer's name and used Ragini against Sadhna... but what happened at the end... Ragini lost her child, the beautiful relationship that the sisters shared is at stake...did Ragini not suffer also?
Once Mamaji had asked Kaushi what she had done if Ragini and Sadhna were own sisters? Really, if instead of cousins, they were own sisters, will Kaushi had not made Ragini understand and comfort her not to think bad about Sadhna? Our society has a habit, that we cant see something good..Ragini and Sadhna's relationship was something which is to be felt jealous of, so the first evil eye will try to see how this wonderful relationship can be broken...
I feel more than Sadhna or Ragini, if the surrounding people could make Ragini understand and let both sisters come together, at least her mother Kaushi could do, things would have been so better for both of them...
I feel this is exactly what Ranveer will do... give proper advice and help Ragini's mental block go away...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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u have a point but i dnt think it totly her fault ragni isnt a 5 year kid ,has she not got a brain? im not takin side i understand y she is bad but is she sooooooo mad that fro d sis dat gve nearly evertin away her happines in a sense away 4 her at a point she cnt tolrte her in d house dat sadi brung her in!!!!!!!!
iv gne off topic not all is her fault she dse hve a role in it well let me tell 20% is khaushi 20% vasu 60% it her ragni!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am not trying to defend Ragini...as I have always said, that Ragini till the point she was upset and not talking to Sadhna was ok, but not those horrandrous words and certain other actions which she executed...

But as a mother, Kaushi is moreresponsible because in times of pain, a daughter comes to her mother, just what Ragini did..but Kaushi instead of comforting her, actually instigated her more, thus filling Ragini with more hatred and fulfilling her desire of making Ragini hate Sadhna....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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to balance it she has her dad wu she nws speaks d truth
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Posted: 15 years ago
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kaushi and vasu are the reason behind this rift and they are the onse who ,brained wash ragini
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: 100GIRL

to balance it she has her dad wu she nws speaks d truth

Yeh, right...till she paid more attention to her bauji, her life was full of happiness...once she became her mother's daughter, look at her condition...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Definately Ranvir will become a bridge the gap between the two sister...
He is the only one who can make Vasu and Ragini understand as I have given hope on Alekh as he will never go against his mama...BUT RANVIR he will fight with vasu or indrajeet for right and wrong...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I feel that if the relationship is strong and there is faith, no one can cause a rift. Looks like somewhere the relationship between Sadhna and Ragini was not strong, that is why the miscommunication caused the rift. Ragini should have listened to Sadhna's point of view for once and tried to give her benefit of doubt and Sadhna should have clearly communicated before court case that she won't be able to lie as she is not comfortable doing it. Why couldn't they be honest with each other?

When we are kids its ok to get brainwashed, but when we are adults, its our life and we are responsible for our own actions, good or bad. You can forever blame someone for your faults and actions or you can take responsibility and own it up, its upto you. Tomorrow if for some reason people instigate Ragini against Ranvir, will she believe them and start acting on it?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anna44

Definately Ranvir will become a bridge the gap between the two sister...
He is the only one who can make Vasu and Ragini understand as I have given hope on Alekh as he will never go against his mama...BUT RANVIR he will fight with vasu or indrajeet for right and wrong...

Plus, if Alekh says anything in favour of Sdahna, he will be called "Joru ka Ghulam"...Ranveer again has to do the needful...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: helloall

I feel that if the relationship is strong and there is faith, no one can cause a rift. Looks like somewhere the relationship between Sadhna and Ragini was not strong, that is why the miscommunication caused the rift. Ragini should have listened to Sadhna's point of view for once and tried to give her benefit of doubt and Sadhna should have clearly communicated before court case that she won't be able to lie as she is not comfortable doing it. Why couldn't they be honest with each other?

When we are kids its ok to get brainwashed, but when we are adults, its our life and we are responsible for our own actions, good or bad. You can forever blame someone for your faults and actions or you can take responsibility and own it up, its upto you. Tomorrow if for some reason people instigate Ragini against Ranvir, will she believe them and start acting on it?

I was about to write the same thing that nobody is responsible except for both of them. In this track their relationshp lacked honesty and trust. Sadhana never trusted Ragini and was not honest in communicating her hear and Ragini never trusted Sadhana and blindly trusted what other people told her and accepted thae fact that Sadhana is jealous from her.

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