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@Kanchhi_

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#11

No, she won't hold any grudges against anyone and forgive them even before asking for the forgiveness. I agree with Eva what she said in her 2nd para. That's not Sadi's forte.

In the contrary if CTs show Sadi doing as such ( Our esteemed CTs are expert in character assassination so can expect anything) then she wouldn't be Sadi anymore, the selfless angel. I hope at least they'll keep Sadi's character intact.

Nice topic to ponder upon. 😊

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Taral

@taral83

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#12

if we are talking about soap life......then yes sadi will forgive everyone and never even remembering the situation again. but if we talk about real life and if these were real life situations.........then i think her biggest enemy is Alekh...........

Vineet, Malti, Naveen and Avni are just plain old evil and some that have no brain of their own.....so you can't expect much from them...that behavior is expected from them........

Kaushi and Vasu......selfish selfish selfish..........in rare occasions you can find a true mother in a mother in law..........but 75% of the time...a Sas is always a Sas.....and she proves this by saying "she was only a nurse a ahya..her job is done".......she THINKS she is thinking about her childeren......but reality she is only feeding her ego........she has to win on any circumstance......she doesn't think about her children......Ranvir went to jail for his mistake period.......but what is the purpose of separating Sad and Alekh.....??? When u see your child yearning for his wife....u still force your decision on him and expect him to except your choice?.......her true character shows when she asks the most dumb and uncaring question in the world "choose between your mother or ur wife"..........there is no such thing...they are on the same pedestal....!!! Kaushi.....what can we say about her....she is a confused soul that doesn't see anything beyond her childs flaws.......i think that if anyone has created more of a difference between beauty and ugly is Kaushi.....constantly yelling at Sad for her beauty.......but does she realize that she is also basically saying my child is ugly and your beauty is making her more ugly. Does she not realize that Sad is not the only beautiful soul in the world.....if she had put the energy that she used on taunting Sad on Ragni and gave her self-esteem.....you have to be tough for others that are weak sometimes.......and she never was.........She is also stupid because she herself says to Sad "that you are the one that got them together now don't separate them".....can you think for a second.......Sad knowingly married a mental person so that her sister can married a handsome man.......she basically put her life on the line....and your telling her that she is jealous??? doesn't make sense to me......

Ragni is not thinking and i have nothing more to say on her or in her defense.......she is basically broken and doesn't know which way to go........but Alekh..........how can he..........if Sad doesn't forgive...she shouldn't forgive Alekh......he is suppose to be her husband.....you take 7 promises in marriage one of which is to stand by u in good or bad....and what does he do......run like a roach.........scared of his mom......he said that he was mental when she married him.......exactly she married you regardless of who u were even though it was for her own reasons.....she never for a second thought of leaving you or not fulfilling her duties.......but u leave her in the middle and judge her.......she never judged you......i think he is the only one that should be truly blamed........his act towards her was disgusting. he broke her trust in him....and she shouldn't ever trust him again.............

sorry for the long reply............😛

Edited by taral83 - 15 years ago

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Sadhana can/will never hold any grudge against anyone. But for once she needs to stand-up for herself. Enough of being sacrifice ki murti, There has to be a limit to everything.
Malti, Vinu, Naveen & Anvi can never be forgiven as they are so mean and selfish characters.
Vasu, Kaushi are so heartless and selfish. Yes, they are mothers and can't see their own kids in pain. But Vasu calling Sadhana as "Alekh's aaya/nurse" was the limit. She can't be forgiven for this. Similarly for Kaushi, slapping Sadhana and then putting blame on her for breaking her rishta with her husband was so mean.
Alekh didn't support his wife when she was being thrown out. As a husband he should have stopped his mom. He is a failure as a husband in my opinion.

Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#14

@taral83

Very nice reply.. I like your writing skills.

Alekh like Ragini is also torn, only thing is Ragini's pain is visible as she is a woman, but Alekh is not. Alekh has come out of his bad phase in life and he wants to make up for all his hatred towarsd his mom. Thw orst part is he is being blackmailed emotionally by his mom.

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@taral83

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

thank you omshanti1111.........i do agree that alekh is torn also....but...everyone comes to one point in there life when they are put between two people they love........i think his actions could have been justified if atleast he tried to explain to his mother...explained to his mom atleast that what sad did may be wrong...but we cant just kick her out...she has done alot for us in the past and she is A FAMILY MEMBER.............she isn't a nobody.....but he didn't...he didn't stop his mom....nor sad..........he basically made no husband like decision..........if he wants to be all grown up and start taking his responsibilites then he just failed...because Sad is his responsibility also..............as a indian wife and a daughter i am constantly put between my two families (i am sure many of u can relate)......but we women always find a equalibrium most of the time.......then y cant a husband.........all he had to do or say was......."Mom i love you as much as I love Sad......yes her saying the truth in court has ruined our lives....but she is still my wife.........i can not blame you or stop you from kicking her out.......but neither can i leave her stranded......so i will except your decision on Sad leaving this home....but i will also have to fulfill a husband's duty and leave with her".............by saying and doing that....neither would he have went against his mom nor would he have failed as a husband............but he didn't...........

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: taral83
thank you omshanti1111.........i do agree that alekh is torn also....but...everyone comes to one point in there life when they are put between two people they love........i think his actions could have been justified if atleast he tried to explain to his mother...explained to his mom atleast that what sad did may be wrong...but we cant just kick her out...she has done alot for us in the past and she is A FAMILY MEMBER.............she isn't a nobody.....but he didn't...he didn't stop his mom....nor sad..........he basically made no husband like decision..........if he wants to be all grown up and start taking his responsibilites then he just failed...because Sad is his responsibility also..............as a indian wife and a daughter i am constantly put between my two families (i am sure many of u can relate)......but we women always find a equalibrium most of the time.......then y cant a husband.........all he had to do or say was.......Mom i love you as much as I love Sad......yes her saying the truth is court has ruined our lives....but she is still my wife.........i can not blame you or stop you from kicking her out.......but neither can i leave her stranded......so i will except her decision on Sad leaving this home....but i will also have to fulfill a husband's duty and leave with her.............by saying and doing that....neither would he have went against his mom nor would he have failed as a husband............but he didn't...........

That's a very valid point. Leaving the house with Sadhana is not possible for him....being the elder son he has some duties towards his parents when his brother is in jail and Alekh holds himself responsible for this mess. He also promised Ranveer that he will take care of his wife and unborn baby. Alekh's parents need him the most at this time. So until Ranveer is out, he can't leave them.

If Alekh would have just told his mom that he doesn't agree with her decision but will support her anyways then that would have been enough for me. He should have also been honest with Sadhana about his true feelings.

Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#17

@ taral83 and Anu

both of you are valid. But everything has a right time to do. Now, the major issue of Rajvansh house is to get Ranveer out of jail. And Alekh is supporting his parents during their bad time. My point is even if he cannot say anything to his mom, he should try to meet Sadhna and Mmaji and explain to them that he is with her always. He just needs time to settle this storm in everyone's life and bring back Ranveer to Rajvansh house. When Ranveer comes out of jail, he should make it clear to Vasu, that since Sadhna cannot stay in Rajvansh house, he will leave Rajvansh house. In that way, he fulfills his duties both as a son as well as a husband.

Edited by Omshanti1111 - 15 years ago

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Bani, I agree with you. Alekh can't /shouldn't leave his parents and his brother's wife at this time. But he can be honest with Sadhana and let her know that he will always be there for her.

Alekh is not like any other normal character in the show. He has been through a lot and he is learning about life through experiences. His character will surely evolve for better.

Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: --Anu--
Bani, I agree with you. Alekh can't /shouldn't leave his parents and his brother's wife at this time. But he can be honest with Sadhana and let her know that he will always be there for her.

Alekh is not like any other normal character in the show. He has been through a lot and he is learning about life through experiences. His character will surely evolve for better.

His character will evolve in a way, which will be an example...thats my gut feeling...

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Taral

@taral83

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: --Anu--

That's a very valid point. Leaving the house with Sadhana is not possible for him....being the elder son he has some duties towards his parents when his brother is in jail and Alekh holds himself responsible for this mess. He also promised Ranveer that he will take care of his wife and unborn baby. Alekh's parents need him the most at this time. So until Ranveer is out, he can't leave them.

If Alekh would have just told his mom that he doesn't agree with her decision but will support her anyways then that would have been enough for me. He should have also been honest with Sadhana about his true feelings.

I think Sad needs him the most because basically she is all alone............and if Vasu really truly loves Alekh she would never let him leave the house and intern agree for Sad to stay.............but if she chooses to let them both go.......well then that just proves the point........she is feeding her ego not doing it for her children.....if she lets them both go she is indirectly saying......i don't care whether my son goes or not.......i just was to kick Sad out and win and make sure she knows who i am.......And regarding the promise to Ranveer about taking care of his wife and unborn child.....i am sorry you didn't marry Ragni....and there is no child anymore.....I am sure that Ranveer wouldn't expect Alekh to take care of his wife and leave his own wife stranded. Ragni is not a small child that she has to be taken care of no matter what.......... Lets put it this way........if Sad had promised Ragni that she will take care of Ranveer....and something came up were she had to chose Alekh or Ranveer.......she wouldn't leave Alekh........

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