Kaushi has no ryte to slap Sadhna:@ - Page 3

I am amazed at some of you people in the US if a person is caught lying on the stand they end up going to jail so for her to tell the truth she is getting faulted as for Ragini's miscarriage how can the blame be laid at Sadhnas feet? This is fate dealing a hand, sure Sadhna could have lied but to what end what if her lie had come out then Ranvir would be right back in the situation he is in, as for calling her a hipocrite for not lying I think that she wanted to do what was right for everyone but was caught between a rock and a hard place if you want to believe her wrong then it is your choice but circumstances happen that are beyond a normal person's control and we play the hand we are dealt in life, if you think about it blame could be dolt our evenly through all the players, Ranvir is to blame for letting his temper get the best of him, Alekh is to blame for not protecting his own wife, Sadhna for not lying when everyone wanted her too, Ragini for allowing her emotions to get the better of her and not thinking about her health, and so on, so to lay the blame at the feet of one person is obsurd and to defame a character because she took the moral high ground is ridicoulus but as some said we each have our own opinions on the subject. I for one think that kaushi needs someone to blame so Sadhna is an easy target and one poster said that Sadhna had her dad until she was an adult but not really he lived somewhere else and her mother died and we as women know that a girls mother is important who stood up for Sadhna when she had to make choices that affected her life no one so yes she is alone. The synopsis of this serial says that life is easy for Sadhna because she is beautiful but all I have seen is hardache and pain given to her. Each of us has an opinion and I think kaushi had no right to strike Sadhna but there a those of you who do and I think we should agree to disagree.

It is soo ridiculous how everyone is blaming Sadhana for not lying..wht did u want her to do lie after swearing on her holy book :S I just find that really strange..They have never ever shown Sadhana happy in this serial and she has always helped and sacrificed for everyone. Oh yea when Ragini and Ranveer fell in love she was the one who took all kinds out crap from Vasu and Kaushi ..I don't get how she always ends up suffering because she is doing the right thing. I'm sorry but I'm very frustrated!

Originally posted by: zara4u

I hate kaushi but thought that it was understandable how she reacted towards sadhna afterall Ragini her daughter suffered the most due to Sadhna's truth. Sadhna didn't lie and was with the truth well now she's getting the punishmentt for it and in some ways deserves it. After all when it comes down to it everyone would save their family members by any means but sadhna being sadhna didn't. So does she deserve it ? i think in a way she does. Well thats my opinion anyways!

Originally posted by: Uk_Princez

First of all...sadhna had a dad up untill she was a an adult...so how was she a "lonely anat kid"?
second of all...how can you blame Kaushi, for telling Sadhna to stay away when the guy's side came to see Ragini...you seen how many times Ragini got rejected just simply becuase she had a better looking sister...you should try to understand where Kaushi is coming from...deep down she loved Sadhna, she just misunderstood her becuase of what her daughter Ragini was going through...and Kashi has all the right to slap Sadhna...she bought her up...kept her in her house...and most important fact is that she's Ragini's mum...any mother would slap a person like Sadhna.

What was Sadhna's fault in that? That fat big buffalo has absolutely no right to slap her... It was Mamaji who brought her up.... Against her wishes.. providing food and shelter does not make a lady Mom.. It needs some more attachment.. which sadly, Koshi big buffalo couldnt provide.. Moreover, the house is Mamaji's..... not this buffalo's..... She only knows how to lament with "Meri ragini meri ragini.."

Buffalo's character was intolerable to me since the very first day.. Now it's crossing all limits.. All the mothers who would slap Sadhna are utterly selfish n inhuman... and they ALL come into the category of Koshi....👎🏼

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

What was Sadhna's fault in that? That fat big buffalo has absolutely no right to slap her... It was Mamaji who brought her up.... Against her wishes.. providing food and shelter does not make a lady Mom.. It needs some more attachment.. which sadly, Koshi big buffalo couldnt provide.. Moreover, the house is Mamaji's..... not this buffalo's..... She only knows how to lament with "Meri ragini meri ragini.."

Buffalo's character was intolerable to me since the very first day.. Now it's crossing all limits.. All the mothers who would slap Sadhna are utterly selfish n inhuman... and they ALL come into the category of Koshi....👎🏼

@blue: his dad left her when she was very lil mamaji brough her her dad went to usa she was far away from her dad when finaly he was comig bacxk he died. so was it sadi fault

Originally posted by: Uk_Princez

I don't think you got what they were trying to show...Ragini fell becuase she thought Ranveer was with her...but then realise his not in the room...so she was tring to find him...so there was less chance of her falling whilst ranveer was there...and Sadhna is to blame in some extent, I just don't get the fact that why Sadhna has become an honest person all of a sudden...it's not like she's never told a lie before...she lied about the Sholok thing...just shows she can do anything for her "own husband"..she can lie and act, but when it comes to her sisters husband she has to be an honest person...what a hypocrit!!

Guess u r not Indian... Becoz... when someone is in the court and vows with Bhagbat Geeta, she/he is supposed to tell the TRUTH..

If every murderer gets supports of his/her family member, then nobody will be punished.... Lying for her hubby's treatment... and lying to protect a murderer is TOTALLY different only if u can see the difference👎🏼

I can't believe some ppl expect a person to LIE in court.... and then they call others Hypocrite🥱

If Sadi is selfish... that goes for Ragini as well....

Ragini was with Sadi for all these yrs.... Since their childhood.... So now what happened to her??? Jz becoz she got her love of life, and now that her love is in trouble, she is blaming her lil sis for that???????????

Is that what elder sisters r supposed to do? To curse their younger sisters for their sasuraal or husband? And when she knows that Sadi didnt make up anything of her own... she juzt stated the fact..............

Ragini is behaving selfish rather..... Who forgot all these yrs' love n bonding, for merely 1 yr of love............. She insulted Sisterhood of yrs for 1/2 yrs of lovelife...

I hate such kraps.... I never hated Bidai so much....... All threee chars r my fav............. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..................

I have to say, I'm not quite sure how Sadhna telling the truth makes her wrong. Everybody was pressuring her to lie under oath. That is something very serious.

Ultimately the only one I blame for this whole situation, of course Naveen, but also Ranvir. As I said in another thread, Ranvir needed only to keep his temper and call the police once he knocked out the goon. Instead he hits him with a rod. He encourages Sadhna to tell the truth, and yet he doesn't tell it himself. I would have more respect for him if he came forward and told everyone what happened. Instead he put it all on Sadhna. He knew she would be blamed by the relatives and yet he said nothing on his own. It is not Sadhna's responsibility to save him when he actually committed the offense.

Just because someone is family, doesn't mean you protect them from the consequences (by lying) when they do something wrong or against the law.

i dun knw hw tht kaushi hit sadhna at tht time i wanted to kill tht kaushi tht iddiot hw dare she oh god i m soo angry on her just hate her😡

well i think ppl expect family to be there for them no matter what... for the most part its true that ppl will do anything for their families but this situation is totally different because ranvir was at fault.. he should have left the guy when he was wounded.. he basicallly did go too far.... but i still cant believe kaushi slapped sadhna.. that was totally unexceptable...i think ragini shouldnt have said so much to sadhna either.. it shows that ragini is kaushis daughter.. they are both selfish.. same with vinu..