REOPENED - In Raginis Defense - WARNING Pg7

To all those people who understand my point of view, please join in and add your views. Even if you don't agree with me but have a valid reason/argument to support what you feel please join in too.
And to all those, who have no basis whatsoever for what/who they support apart from some random adjectives for their favorite characters, than I guess this is not the best post for you 😆

Anywhoo, coming to the point, I don't understand why Ragini is being projected to be such a villainous in todays episode. Here are my arguments in this poor girls defense:

1. Her husband was just taken away to jail for crying out loud! Give her a break already.
2. She just discovered shes carrying a child. And is not able to share this one biggest news of her life with anyone due to her heartbreak over her separation with her husband.
3. Do we really need to question her intentions ANYWAYS? I feel, what she said today was to blame herself/her own destiny and not point any fingers at any other character. In my POV, she blames herself for planning this entire by now famous trip. When Ranvir came to know shes not doing well, he wanted to cancel the trip. But she did not let him just coz her sisters life and happiness was a priority over her own health at that time. She FORCED everyone to go on that trip without her. Maybe somewhere she feels, She could have prevented them from going or not come up with that plan in the first place. Or maybe she could have accompanied the trio on that trip-maybe that could have altered whatever happened.
4. If her intention was REALLY to hurt a certain character like others claim, how is it possible that when she realized that her sister is blaming herself-she IMMEDIATELY, without the blink of an eye cleared the air, told what her real intentions were and said why she said what she said- she blamed "kismat" for the obvious.

So I just don't get why whatever poor Ragini said is being blown to such epic enormous proportions. Give the poor girl a break!

Please dear. No one is hating her or blaming her. When someone is in pain they may say some things unintentionally. Its normal. But the person on the receiving end can get hurt. Both reactions are normal under the circumstances.

I dont think there is need to be topic on this it can lead to more fight

Hey Anu. But I don't think she blamed someone to begin with! Yes, she was in pain. But she still wasn't pointing fingers at anyone. So why do people feel that? And The funny part is, even if what Ragini said was controversial, when she realized that, she cleared the air with her sister.

then how come people are still taking her to task coz of THAT?

And maybe you are not hating her/blaming her dear. But this forum is not really devoid of Ragini hate. If you know what I mean. 😉

Isabel,when I first saw that scene I was surprised Ragini mentioned that.It was spposed to come after the rift and it wasn't convicing the way she tried to correct it.But then I also realized that she is grieving for her husband and one shouldn't really give any importance to such words uttered in grief.I also mentioned an example where a pregnant woman just swears and blurts out the nasty truths during delivery.That was her way of coping with pain and she doesn't really mean and it would be mostly partners who bear that brunt and they wouldn't react either cos they atleast try to understand.And Ragini's situation is the same.This should be the happiest moment in her life which turned to a nightmare and she obviously needs sometime to work thru it!!!

I am sorry Kinny-Partner if you think this post can lead to a fight. I don't think so. It can lead to a fight only if we want it to be a fight.

I have just written my POV on a certain part of todays episode just like others have written about it in other posts. If you think theres something wrong with my post, please give me a reason. Thanks.

Originally posted by: isabel

Hey Anu. But I don't think she blamed someone to begin with! Yes, she was in pain. But she still wasn't pointing fingers at anyone. So why do people feel that? And The funny part is, even if what Ragini said was controversial, when she realized that, she cleared the air with her sister.

then how come people are still taking her to task coz of THAT?

And maybe you are not hating her/blaming her dear. But this forum is not really devoid of Ragini hate. If you know what I mean. 😉

No one felt that Ragini was blaming Sadi. Please there is no need to be so defensive for such a small thing . We only felt bad for Sadi as she got bashed by Vasu first and later on she felt guilty for the whole thing.

Yes what Ragini said was controversial as its a base for the future storyline.

Hey Smitha, I understand your point of view. Thanks for seeing it that way. Ragini must be having all those hormones rushing through her at the point of time. Like literally due to her current situation. But I STILL feel, that she had no intention of hurting anyone. Even if it was perceived to be an open ended statement like the other character thought it is- Ragini cleared it then and there. Then why this hate?

Of-course Kaushi will come to make Sadi more miserable. With no one's support at this point she is all alone. So we felt bad for her.

Originally posted by: isabel

Hey Smitha, I understand your point of view. Thanks for seeing it that way. Ragini must be having all those hormones rushing through her at the point of time. Like literally due to her current situation. But I STILL feel, that she had no intention of hurting anyone. Even if it was perceived to be an open ended statement like the other character thought it is- Ragini cleared it then and there. Then why this hate?

You are using very strong word here. Like Sania said it will lead to fight. Please try to be more balanced.