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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 16 years ago

I think Ragini's act of trying to balance two people might end her in problem for no fault of hers... Her intention is good no doubt, but her only fault it seems to me is she is trying to pacify both Vasu and DB. I think given the personality both DB and Vasu, it would land her in problems. Ragini does not want to see anyone unhappy. But sometimes, people need to speak out straight. I suggest Ragini should do that only. She should try to make out who is wrong... Vasu or DB and act accordingly. Because, out of the two, one is definitely wrong. It depends on how she analyses the situation...she has to take one side, either Dbs or Vasu's. One cannot maintain balance for long by keeping two feet on two boats. Its high time for decide and make her move.

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well Bani to tell you the truth, I was disappointed with Ragini's reaction today. When DB said all those mean things to Sadi, Ragini was standing there like a statue. She should have made DB stop saying all that crap.

Also I strongly feel there was no need for Ragini to apologize to DB and give way too much importance to her. For Ragini, Vasu should come first not DB. She is inviting big trouble for herself.

Edited by --Anu-- - 16 years ago

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gilmores

@gilmores

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Posted: 16 years ago

I completely agree! I have been in a situation where I was stuck between 2 friends trying to figure out who was right....and because it was 2 really really good friends I didn't want to pick between them, so I tried to balance everything which only made things so much worse for me and them..

Today, Ragini did not need to say that Vasu says anything in anger, it kinda shows that she slightly agrees with DB. She could've explained things in a manner that did not suggest that she agreed that Vasu was at fault.

It's not possible to pacify both Vasu and DB, because of their strong personalities. So she definately needs to take a side. And she definately needs to stop mingling too much with DB. DB has made it clear that she does not like Sadhna and is trying to poison Ragini against her every chance she gets, so ragini needs to come out very strongly and say Sadhna is my sister and I don't want to listen to anything against her. She can take care of DB's needs, like food and other stuff, but there's no need to sit and chat with her when everytime she does, DB either says something against Vasu or Sadhna.

I feel like she should tell DB that Ragini got married to ranvir and is happy because of Sadhna only, just saying stuff like Sadhna is really nice is not going to convince DB. Because let's face it, if Sadhna hadn't convinced Ranvir to apologize after the first phone fight, they wouldn't be on talking terms and the love stroy might not even have started. Sadhna also used to explain things to Ragini many times when Ragini fought with ranvir, and she used to give Ragini courage so she would go meet Ranvir. Sadhna had a HUGE role in RR's love story, and without her they might not have fallen in love and gotten married.

Edited by chocolover89 - 16 years ago

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

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Posted: 16 years ago

Ragini needs to get her priorities straight and also understand that she can not make everyone happy. Sorry, I am losing hope already. I can see bad times ahead. CT delayed Alekh's recovery for this reason only i.e to create tension in the family.

Edited by --Anu-- - 16 years ago

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@Kiran.

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+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

I agree with all of you. Why is Ragini giving so much imprtance to DB. I was really shocked to see Ragini not standing up for Sadna when DB was talking all that crap about Aalekh G.
Like anu said, I am already loosing the hope. Ragini is getting helself into a BIG trouble.

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Bini311

@Bini311

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Posted: 16 years ago

Common yaar....we know that Bidaai sisters are Shashkari, and Duniya idhar se udhar ho jaye...they will try to balance......thats what they are taught...to have patience........and to try to make everyone get along with eachother......so I am not surprised......

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Bini311
Common yaar....we know that Bidaai sisters are Shashkari, and Duniya idhar se udhar ho jaye...they will try to balance......thats what they are taught...to have patience........and to try to make everyone get along with eachother......so I am not surprised......

I disagree. What DB said to Sadi was way too mean. I was amazed to see Ragini doing nothing about this. She could have at-least tried to change the topic.

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

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Posted: 16 years ago

ragini was supposed to b a strong character who stood up for the correct things..very disappointed wid her today..she knows sadhna is not a bad prsn but she dint say nethng in her support..elders r to b respected i agree bt they shud also b corrected if they r wrong in their thnkn..

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Bini311

@Bini311

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anu--
<br><br>I disagree. What DB said to Sadi was way too mean. I was amazed to see Ragini doing nothing about this. She could have at-least tried to change the topic. <br>

Haven't watched the episode so can't really comment on the gravity of the situation......but Ragini is not known to argue with elders.......even with Kaushi she didn't argue...but she loves Sadi a lot......perhaps there will be several instances more when DB will try to poison Ragi, and one day Ragi will loose control, and shout back......I can't wait for that day....but have no faith in creatives....

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: anu rulz
ragini was supposed to b a strong character who stood up for the correct things..very disappointed wid her today..she knows sadhna is not a bad prsn but she dint say nethng in her support..elders r to b respected i agree bt they shud also b corrected if they r wrong in their thnkn..

Exactly. Even Vinu is Sanskari but he did the right thing by sending Malti's mom back.

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