ur beauty is not the main thing, ur luck is

after watching bidaai so far...i wud like to tell u wat i learnt.
many people may envy those people who are very beautiful...but beauty is never the main thing...there r many people in the world who are beautiful yet very very unhappy...because? their BAD LUCK

look at sadhna for once...she's so beautiful...but did u see her getting happiness for even once on the show?1st she lost her parents at an early age, then marrying somebody with such a mental condition, having to see kaushi's hatred throughout her life though she did so many things for her, & now i THINK she wont be able to conceive😭😭😭 seeing sadi makes my heart tear apart..i know i know its fiction...but i've seen some1 like sadi thrughout my life who is very very own to me😭 though sadi's beautiful, i have to say she has a very very bad luck

so people who does envy the people who are beautiful...plz keep these in mind. You can envy people's good luck, but never envy people's beauty.

Your thoughts plz😊

Yes it is so true Salekh. Luck is so very important in life. Not only beauty even in many other thing luck is so very important.

sukanya.

Yeh, you are absolutely right. I like Bidaai simply because it shows the reverse concept--- that how a good looking girl does not have anything, whereas a dark complexioned one has everything starting parents love, good husband. Had it been any other serial, they would have how the dark complexiobned girl is being tortured and what not.

Firstly everyone is beautiful but it's just people ask for more and more which makes people think..Oh my she's beautiful than me...Oh no why is she like this why am I not...And all that stuff...Firstly people should stop thinking such kind of things and then also should feel that everyone is beautiful coz God made every man and woman in his own image and liking...:)

Well coming to Sadhna's sadness..For a girl her beauty is something which is very close to her...And when someone insults that beauty it's very hurting...

Every girl dreams of her dream man and then when she doesn't get him she's shattered..This is what happened to Ragini and that too twice..She's always been insulted for her dark colour and that's what I guess the maximum torture anyone can face...Ragini had loved Saket from the bottom of her heart but she lost him..She started liking Puneet she lost him also...Ranvir also was the one whom she loved and then she almost lost him...Three times...It's really hard to bear!!It's just now that she's happy...

Now coming to Sadhna...Mamiji has always resented her coz her she thought that her daughter has nothing in her in terms of beauty but Sadhna has and this thinking is such a dirty thing that Sadhna never got a mother's love..Secondly she sacrificed her life just for the sake to get her sister married and also to give her people a shelter...But her sacrifice went unnoticed by Mamiji..In Rajvansh house also she always had to bear Vasu's tantrums...I had seen her happy only for others but not for herself..Anyways I am sure her happy times are yet to come...

So seeing the above two,I feel that Sadhna and Ragini both have had their share of problems...One who had never got the love of a mother and the other who had been rejected by two boys and one initially...

It tears my heart apart seeing these 2 girls...:(

Didn't mean to bring in Ragini into this post but to see people always saying Sadhna is the one whoz faced lots of problems and all is little sad coz even Ragini has her share of problems...:)

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Yeh, you are absolutely right. I like Bidaai simply because it shows the reverse concept--- that how a good looking girl does not have anything, whereas a dark complexioned one has everything starting parents love, good husband. Had it been any other serial, they would have how the dark complexiobned girl is being tortured and what not.

So the beauty is not the main thing, but destiny is.

i agree ragini has faced lots of problems too 😭

Panchi, I agree with you somewhat.

I don't think Ragini's suffering is worse or on the same level as Sadhana's suffering. Sadhana never felt the love of a mother. Every woman she took as a mother figure to her didn't really care much for her (Kaushi and Vasu). Regardless of what she did, she was never good enough. Ragini, at the very least had her mother's love.

Yes, Ragini suffered because of Puneet and Saket, but after and during those hard times, she had her family backing her up. She had their love. When Sadhana went through with the marriage with Aalekh, she had no one. I don't blame Mamaji and them for leaving the wedding, but she really did have no one and now that she's married, her husband is more like a friend than anything else. Yes, he makes her happy, but she deserves more than that.

I'm glad Ragini has got happiness. She deserves it. Now it's Sadhana's turn.

RAHM i agree with u they got there own problems but sadhna is worse then ragini

sadhnna and ragini had prblems but i like ragini story line 😊

Originally posted by: Rahm

Panchi, I agree with you somewhat.

I don't think Ragini's suffering is worse or on the same level as Sadhana's suffering. Sadhana never felt the love of a mother. Every woman she took as a mother figure to her didn't really care much for her (Kaushi and Vasu). Regardless of what she did, she was never good enough. Ragini, at the very least had her mother's love.

Yes, Ragini suffered because of Puneet and Saket, but after and during those hard times, she had her family backing her up. She had their love. When Sadhana went through with the marriage with Aalekh, she had no one. I don't blame Mamaji and them for leaving the wedding, but she really did have no one and now that she's married, her husband is more like a friend than anything else. Yes, he makes her happy, but she deserves more than that.

I'm glad Ragini has got happiness. She deserves it. Now it's Sadhana's turn.

yes i agree ragini's prob is solved where as sadhna is still where she was....