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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: locman

how many times can he ask?

and now Pihu is standing there with her parents and saying nothing, but she did ask him what he believed to be the truth about her....yes...she needs to ask him a few things too.....it's not all one way..

As many times as in necessary. And especially after the girl runs away from the wedding ceremony to be with her ex-lover. He needs to ask her if she' changed her mind.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

As many times as in necessary. And especially after the girl runs away from the wedding ceremony to be with her ex-lover. He needs to ask her if she' changed her mind.

😆 well it's a long enough show...hopefully. so yeah, he can ask away....may get different answers each time. better to just get on with it i think.
but seriously.....she isn't in LOVE with R.
Edited by locman - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I like what ever u said Laila, but lets face it , it happens in todays world too....I have a complete different take on RP love which i dont find it real , and P is someone who's been keeping up with him but when she had enough she choose A over R, but i wont rule out that she has some feelings for R, no she is not really running 3 lifes infact she is saving 2 lifes, if RP end up together they can never have a happy life as they seriously have to grow up , P busy with her childish tantrums and R running after her to satisfy her .... at least A would show her some reality ......and i seriously hope the same way they plan to show R fall in love with G , i want to see P falling in love with A ... if R gets second chance why not P ....
Jaya, Your observations of the story are what I think the writers want to convery but are not sending out the message in a strong or clear manner. I disagree in that Pihu is in essence ruining RP's life because he is in love with her and she is in love with him and her feeling are not towards Abbhay. We know the relationship is not good for Pihu and R, but this must be seen in far better terms and not just through her ficklemindness...

No secretes there like anu said its just that P has to be little bold like u said, for that she has to stop playing games around , she is taking every one for a ride/ taking them granted

Sometimes we think we r in love but we never know what real love is same goes for R .....
R. is not in love; he's obsessed with her. When Gauri asked him what he liked about her, he couldn't come up with anything other than she was pretty. That was a better written part from the writers as it gives a good foundation as to why he eventually could fall in love with Gauri.

A already did his side of talking and the gal confuses every one big time , he openly spoke to her before she was yes kabhi ha kabhi na ... so i dont blame him for being firm

R choose to be alone , he became friends with P and made her his world and he choose not to see others in his world , blame him for that ...
I am not sure however WHERE in the storyline he chose not to have others - was this something you've come up with and accepeted because I don't recollect him coming up with this line. Let's face it WHO in life does not have friends or a sibling who is our best friend?

P being calm shows she is in a fix, she wants to act normal to show she is fine yet plan to marry R, thats my take from ydays episode
Well let us hope the writers convey this more strongly during the course of the week.

Did i make sense ., well i guess i did
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

I agree with you laila.I am actually bored to see these things in all the serials.The parents behave like beggars to get their daughters married.Be it KB,PR or any other soaps the parents just go to their future son in laws and beg and plead infront of them to marry their daughters.If someone doesn't want to marry your daughter then please leave him alone.Why touch someones feet to make them accept your daughter.Today's woman do have the strength to live alone when needed.No need to beg to someone to mrry your daughter.And the female leads always keeps on sacrificing their love because of their families dignities.The most interesting and hillarious thing is that the female leads do not have any relatives or friends whom they can share their feelings.Even the mothers never try to understand their daughters.

A five star post ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️. One of the best I've read on this forum. I think you've summed up my frustrations about zeetv dramas in a nutshell. Despite all the issues with this show and others, I do watch them but this theme is rampant in all of them and is becoming very frustarting to watch.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

I completely agree with you.It is surely very frustating to watch these force marriage things in all soaps.I didn't like the way they make Pihu agree for the marriage decision.The CV's are not using Pihu's character properly.Pihu is a very different and complex character but the CV's are not able to show it.They are changing Pihu's character everyday and also in a very untidy way.To create suspence and Maha episodes they are ruining the essence of the story and they have made Pihu the scape goat.They never showed us the inside of Pihu,her thoughts,her point of views.It is just because of AG's amazing acting we can realte to Pihu.I liked Pihu's character in the initial episodes but now they are ruining it.The CV's are rushing to get RaGa married but are failing to create the base for it.The CV's are confused.They don't know what to show.So they are showing the same things in different ways and ruining the characters.

Well said about the character of Pihu. I think the relationship between her and Abbay would be interesting to watch but they've done such a shoddy job of showing her. They will fail miserably if the do not show her inner conflicts or desperation. To show these emotions, you can have the character talk to him or herself but better, give the character a friend or a confident. That is why I liked the last scene between Gauri and her mother - she is truthful to her and tells her what is going on instead of "stuffing her feelings" with everyone. In life we all have ONE person in whom we can trust....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I love your post. I also don't understand how her parents forced her into that marriage because pihu is a character who take her own decision never follows anyone so how she agrees with her parents. I hope show some scene where she can to her parents about her feelings.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

I disagree, her secret is that she is in love with Rudhra and regrets going ahead with the marriage now and doesn't want to go through with it.You are assuming that he'll probably have a conversation with her and that simply brushes of the fact that he should have had one with her when she showed up at her house. That approach makes execuses for the writers and their mistakes. I call this a lot of loosey goosey writing...



u are right
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good response Jaya. Agree with everything you said about the RP relationship. Pihu would have spoken to her parents if she was truly in love with Rudr bcos that is her character. She is not able to do so bcos whatever she feels for him is not true love in the real sense. She is still in doubt. There are no secrets, P's parents understand her dilemma. A and his mom knows about P and R too. About A asking P, how many times should he ask.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

R choose to be alone , he became friends with P and made her his world and he choose not to see others in his world , blame him for that ...
I am not sure however WHERE in the storyline he chose not to have others - was this something you've come up with and accepeted because I don't recollect him coming up with this line. Let's face it WHO in life does not have friends or a sibling who is our best friend?

@above quote: well that is where rudra's grandfather comes in! - the one who understands rudra completely, and the one rudra shares everything with.
Posted: 15 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

I agree with you laila.I am actually bored to see these things in all the serials.The parents behave like beggars to get their daughters married.Be it KB,PR or any other soaps the parents just go to their future son in laws and beg and plead infront of them to marry their daughters.If someone doesn't want to marry your daughter then please leave him alone.Why touch someones feet to make them accept your daughter.Today's woman do have the strength to live alone when needed.No need to beg to someone to mrry your daughter.And the female leads always keeps on sacrificing their love because of their families dignities.The most interesting and hillarious thing is that the female leads do not have any relatives or friends whom they can share their feelings.Even the mothers never try to understand their daughters.

i agree!!
Pihu is very unique character, very real. She has shades of gray and has her set of flaws which is why is very realistic unlike the usual soap girls who are prefect and flawless! Unfortunately, the writers have not invested proper time in developing and writing the character. Her character for me appears 'confused' she is yes and then she is no, she is in then she in out (😆 reminds me of hot n cold song)
She is very dominating woman when it comes to relationships, she always wants to be one calling shots and rudra forever dancing to her tunes!!
There is a part of her that loves Rudra, the mad lover who treats her as the center of his universe but unlike gauri she is not able to love or for that matter even understand Rudra as a person. Rudra never got love all his life and hence special relation he started with pihu has frndship grew into love and now obession!! For Rudra Pihu is the only person who has touched his heart and warmed up to his feelings so for him Pihu is very thing but in reality she is just not meant for him!
Yesterday's episode was didn't fit well with me, y on earth are pihu's parents begging abhay to marry their daughter. A girl who ran from the mundap with her lover, how can they calim that she doesn't feel anything for Rudra!??? It's an open secret abt Rudra - Pihu's relationship. Until yesterday i thought Abhay was a good guy but the conditions he placed made me think he too is more into his jhooti shaan and name! I was expecting Pihu to stop her parents from literally falling on abbay's feet and walk off saying she will marry Rudra!
i mean a boy and his mother who are only agree for the marriage after pleading by the girl's parents wht kind of a life is insorted for that girl after marriage! i fail to understand why can't these parents swallow their pride have these love birds married off!😕
i wish the CVs and writers pay more attention of the story and plot rather than rushing trying to create unwanted suspense and drama. Pihu's character needs to be developed and shown properly!!
We need to peek into her mind, her heart as unless u r a fan of aditi one cannot connect with the character(i for one, can not)
this is one serial i fail to connect with, i watch 2 - 3 episodes and then i lose interest. The characters are wonderful, talented star cast, chemistry is mind blowing but writing needs to be improved and there shd be smooth flow in story which is missing.
cheers
Kai
Edited by Kai_Hiwatari - 15 years ago

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