Originally posted by: Laila2009
The writers have done a very shoddy job with this character and the storyline related to her. Her reason for not wishing to go with Rudra is his character. He was rude and slapped her and she had had enough of it. She knew what was right but her love for him is still there. A self-respecting woman just cannot bring herself to go through with marrying someone who has a volatile temper and makes a fool of himself. On top of that he slaps her whenever he gets worked up
The writers couldn't come up with a better reason for her to turn him down because these reasons really protray the lead actor in a very bad light. It also sends a wrong message that men who are hot-tempered or aggressive change when they meet the right woman. That's not the case. It is not like they could not have shown him in a negative light as a jerk who was bigheaded and arrogant but the slap really made the situation worse. Several people here endorse or justify it but as a viewer it puts the whole stiuation in a very bad light.
Laila, loved the way u have pen down ur views
my pov is slightly different not in that sense that i am supporting Rudhra's action os slaping pihu not at all there is no justification for that. but i beliebe she was teh one who provoked him to do so she initiated he asked her not to compare him not to talk about anyone else but she kept on reiterating those harsh words and on top of that if she loved him and that too since childhood why didnt she understand him why didnt she bring change in him in all those years.....
Rudhra is being portrayed having insecurities in life insecurity of loosing someoen he loves immensely insecuroty of living alone insecurity of not having anyone who understand him fully... some one has to be there who make him understand his mistakes he is not bad at heart its just situations ignorances has made him like this....
like Gauri hasnt forced his views upon him instead she made him understand to leave that alcohal ......
i believe Rudha is having so many bad traits in him but at th esame time i believe he needs someone badly in his life who is gonna make sure he is not alone in this world....