why bashing without understanding??

Hi everyone,this is my first post in sh, as past 1 week had a frustating time in validating my email😡 so that I too could make a new post.Tis is addressed to all the bashers of sh and its writers, who cant seperate REAL from REEL pls hear me out once,if u r connecting sh with real life.

Randhir has come across as a natural predator,dark,dangerous with an undercurrent of simmering anger😡 towards female community which was mostly due to frustation & had always feeling disturbed coz sanyuktha was not the one to be easily intimidated & she also stood against him.Randhir had always associated words like''fickle'' weak'' ''manipulators''with female fraternity but when sanyu entered his life she taught him respect for woman and also tat''BONDS OF LOVE R STRONGER THAN BONDS OF PASSION''😊

Randhir has had a tumultuos past & has stayed alone & is still(pls understand the word ''still'')scared of the word''relation'' ''feelings'',whereas sanyu has had a cocconed life,protected life& understands the word love,trust and all tat kind😕...but randhir being randhir has a bit of his old self is still in him(pls give him a break guys afterall he is human too) and understands the word ''RETRIBUTION'' only,pls understand guys tat though sanyu has done a major job in reforming him,a bit of his former self is with him,& needs time to exorcise his past.

Though he understands what he has done is wrong it is his ''guilt'' & not pride as u guys r telling which is unyielding & tight and not letting him accept this fact as randhir equates guilt with weakness and randhir singh shekawat is not weak according to him😊 and guys he is still 21 or 22 and not some enlightened soul,that he deserves such brickbats).Randhir also feels tat sanyu should have stayed longer with him and made him understand as we too in real life feel tat the opposite person in relation should have understood our vulnerabilities and not given up on us(even when we r wrong).But sanyu did not stick by him and hence he is seeking retribution in finding solace with pain.😭Randhir is not wrong guys as no one wants indignity of suffering rejection twice when sanyu refused to support him...(and so blames her too) even though time has proved him wrong(tats a different story)

Guys we too r in relation with our parents,friends,spouses gf/bf and all of know that relation is a very fragile word and maintaining it is like walking tightrope across perhaps crater of seething volcano,& all of us find ourselves in tis emotional maelstrom(so y bash randhir and sanyu,sh writers which is totally disgusting) if u r connecting them to us real life characters who too sometimes slip & make mistakes.(dont we????)

Only humans mke mistakes and relations started with best interest become some test of blind faith and sometimes we cannot match its standard as in case of randhir(if u r bashing him for his relation perhaps liplock with ishika which has irked u guys) & no one changes overnight.we cannot the persons we live our whole life be it our sister,brother anyone & u r expecting randhir to ...??I have never come across such a magic wand in my life so I think u bashers will be having one,so tat u hve taken such liberties to bash anyone on the forum.😡

Randhir too will learn from his mistake &nurture his relation with sanyu(with time ...) and being human he has right to commit life size mistakes so pls stop tis habit of jumping in to the bandwagon and bash people up and the words used are too derogatory and very spiteful (too unpalatable).Forums r meant to lighten us up as we have lot of this innuendoes and prejudices in our work place and real life & forum brighten our mood (perhaps these bashers get a kick in doing so as they not conspicous to our eyes and spoil the forum atmosphere).

Hence guys ,guess it has been a long post and do give ur opinion.It was in my best interest not to hurt anyone and if I have done so...kindly write to me & not make me at reieving end of brickbats & tomatoes

(Thanks payal in helping me download hotstar app and thanks mandy in helping me validate my email...love u both)

Originally posted by: neelakshi.swain

wat does tis res/unreserved means...have i offended anyone.i m new here so cant understand tis codes yet

no dear...reserved means when a person is busy in some work or with something so as of now he/ she can't be able to comment on ur post...when that person will be free that time he will unreserve his/ her post & will comment also on ur post...this is not because of that u have offended anyone...this res/unres thing is very common in this forum...

by d way very well written post...

Originally posted by: neelakshi.swain

Hi everyone,this is my first post in sh, as past 1 week had a frustating time in validating my email😡 so that I too could make a new post.Tis is addressed to all the bashers of sh and its writers, who cant seperate REAL from REEL pls hear me out once,if u r connecting sh with real life.

Randhir has come across as a natural predator,dark,dangerous with an undercurrent of simmering anger😡 towards female community which was mostly due to frustation & had always feeling disturbed coz sanyuktha was not the one to be easily intimidated & she also stood against him.Randhir had always associated words like''fickle'' weak'' ''manipulators''with female fraternity but when sanyu entered his life she taught him respect for woman and also tat''BONDS OF LOVE R STRONGER THAN BONDS OF PASSION''😊

Randhir has had a tumultuos past & has stayed alone & is still(pls understand the word ''still'')scared of the word''relation'' ''feelings'',whereas sanyu has had a cocconed life,protected life& understands the word love,trust and all tat kind😕...but randhir being randhir has a bit of his old self is still in him(pls give him a break guys afterall he is human too) and understands the word ''RETRIBUTION'' only,pls understand guys tat though sanyu has done a major job in reforming him,a bit of his former self is with him,& needs time to exorcise his past.

Though he understands what he has done is wrong it is his ''guilt'' & not pride as u guys r telling which is unyielding & tight and not letting him accept this fact as randhir equates guilt with weakness and randhir singh shekawat is not weak according to him😊 and guys he is still 21 or 22 and not some enlightened soul,that he deserves such brickbats).Randhir also feels tat sanyu should have stayed longer with him and made him understand as we too in real life feel tat the opposite person in relation should have understood our vulnerabilities and not given up on us(even when we r wrong).But sanyu did not stick by him and hence he is seeking retribution in finding solace with pain.😭Randhir is not wrong guys as no one wants indignity of suffering rejection twice when sanyu refused to support him...(and so blames her too) even though time has proved him wrong(tats a different story)

Guys we too r in relation with our parents,friends,spouses gf/bf and all of know that relation is a very fragile word and maintaining it is like walking tightrope across perhaps crater of seething volcano,& all of us find ourselves in tis emotional maelstrom(so y bash randhir and sanyu,sh writers which is totally disgusting) if u r connecting them to us real life characters who too sometimes slip & make mistakes.(dont we????)

Only humans mke mistakes and relations started with best interest become some test of blind faith and sometimes we cannot match its standard as in case of randhir(if u r bashing him for his relation perhaps liplock with ishika which has irked u guys) & no one changes overnight.we cannot the persons we live our whole life be it our sister,brother anyone & u r expecting randhir to ...??I have never come across such a magic wand in my life so I think u bashers will be having one,so tat u hve taken such liberties to bash anyone on the forum.😡

Randhir too will learn from his mistake &nurture his relation with sanyu(with time ...) and being human he has right to commit life size mistakes so pls stop tis habit of jumping in to the bandwagon and bash people up and the words used are too derogatory and very spiteful (too unpalatable).Forums r meant to lighten us up as we have lot of this innuendoes and prejudices in our work place and real life & forum brighten our mood (perhaps these bashers get a kick in doing so as they not conspicous to our eyes and spoil the forum atmosphere).

Hence guys ,guess it has been a long post and do give ur opinion.It was in my best interest not to hurt anyone and if I have done so...kindly write to me & not make me at reieving end of brickbats & tomatoes

(Thanks payal in helping me download hotstar app and thanks mandy in helping me validate my email...love u both)

hey you have actually given words to my thoughts I agree with each and every word of yours...It actually is something that we all need to understand...and really I was pissed off with all the bashing and negativity too...and we were the one to state that we love Randhir...we use the word so easily if we love someone then we should truly accept him with all flaws and qualities ...when they are in happy and good times that's fine but when such circumstances come we leave them alone...now that's something worth giving a thought about...is'nt it...and yeah it's a lovely post

p.s: reserved/res does not mean that they are offended by your post...it means that they will comment afterwards and they have just reserved the place for commenting...

Love 😊😛

Lakshita 😳⭐️

Originally posted by: neelakshi.swain

Hi everyone,this is my first post in sh, as past 1 week had a frustating time in validating my email😡 so that I too could make a new post.Tis is addressed to all the bashers of sh and its writers, who cant seperate REAL from REEL pls hear me out once,if u r connecting sh with real life.

Randhir has come across as a natural predator,dark,dangerous with an undercurrent of simmering anger😡 towards female community which was mostly due to frustation & had always feeling disturbed coz sanyuktha was not the one to be easily intimidated & she also stood against him.Randhir had always associated words like''fickle'' weak'' ''manipulators''with female fraternity but when sanyu entered his life she taught him respect for woman and also tat ''BONDS OF LOVE R STRONGER THAN BONDS OF PASSION''😊

Randhir has had a tumultuos past & has stayed alone & is still(pls understand the word ''still'')scared of the word''relation'' ''feelings'',whereas sanyu has had a cocconed life,protected life& understands the word love,trust and all tat kind😕...but randhir being randhir has a bit of his old self is still in him(pls give him a break guys afterall he is human too) and understands the word ''RETRIBUTION'' only,pls understand guys tat though sanyu has done a major job in reforming him,a bit of his former self is with him,& needs time to exorcise his past.

Though he understands what he has done is wrong it is his ''guilt'' & not pride as u guys r telling which is unyielding & tight and not letting him accept this fact as randhir equates guilt with weakness and randhir singh shekawat is not weak according to him😊 and guys he is still 21 or 22 and not some enlightened soul,that he deserves such brickbats).Randhir also feels tat sanyu should have stayed longer with him and made him understand as we too in real life feel tat the opposite person in relation should have understood our vulnerabilities and not given up on us(even when we r wrong).But sanyu did not stick by him and hence he is seeking retribution in finding solace with pain.😭Randhir is not wrong guys as no one wants indignity of suffering rejection twice when sanyu refused to support him...(and so blames her too) even though time has proved him wrong(tats a different story)

Guys we too r in relation with our parents,friends,spouses gf/bf and all of know that relation is a very fragile word and maintaining it is like walking tightrope across perhaps crater of seething volcano,& all of us find ourselves in tis emotional maelstrom(so y bash randhir and sanyu,sh writers which is totally disgusting) if u r connecting them to us real life characters who too sometimes slip & make mistakes.(dont we????)

Only humans mke mistakes and relations started with best interest become some test of blind faith and sometimes we cannot match its standard as in case of randhir(if u r bashing him for his relation perhaps liplock with ishika which has irked u guys) & no one changes overnight.we cannot the persons we live our whole life be it our sister,brother anyone & u r expecting randhir to ...??I have never come across such a magic wand in my life so I think u bashers will be having one,so tat u hve taken such liberties to bash anyone on the forum.😡

Randhir too will learn from his mistake &nurture his relation with sanyu (with time ...) and being human he has right to commit life size mistakes so pls stop tis habit of jumping in to the bandwagon and bash people up and the words used are too derogatory and very spiteful (too unpalatable).Forums r meant to lighten us up as we have lot of this innuendoes and prejudices in our work place and real life & forum brighten our mood (perhaps these bashers get a kick in doing so as they not conspicous to our eyes and spoil the forum atmosphere).

Hence guys ,guess it has been a long post and do give ur opinion.It was in my best interest not to hurt anyone and if I have done so...kindly write to me & not make me at reieving end of brickbats & tomatoes

(Thanks payal in helping me download hotstar app and thanks mandy in helping me validate my email...love u both)