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Posted: 14 years ago

Lol just edited the post, please close if you wish :)

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Afreen

@-Afeelicious-

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Posted: 14 years ago

arre vaah, to madam ke liye rishte a rahe hai and OMG they r coming to see on Sunday awesome, all the very BEST.....
well i can't advice on this this, i have no experience😆... and in my family we are not allow to see or meet boy. its our parents who decide everything, but yeah they do show us the pic,😉..... so i can't give u any advise here, but i will pray for u, may u get the best hubby.

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Lakshmi

@lakshmi42

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Posted: 14 years ago

All the best for your rishta dear👍🏼.I also cannot advice you in this matter because no experience. My mother have promised me that she will talk about my marriage only after my studies. In my family also it is the parents who decide everything; but we are given chance to meet the boy and our consent is very important. Any way all the very best and may God help you to get a loving and caring husband just like our Amrit😉.

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Alja

@Ambofan

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Posted: 14 years ago

A somewhat simialr response like Afee n Lakshmi...
In our family, the consent of the girl is equally important. And the boy and girl can see each other but only in front of everyone. Then the parents ask the children and then take their own decision. Haan if the rishta gets okay, then probably (in some cases) the boy n girl can talk on phone but do not meet.
And as for my experience, I am totally in for an arranged marriage. My parents have been handling any rishtas that came in themselves and they want me to get into medical school first. And then they'll see k kia krna hai...
However if you are being insisted on meeting the boy, dont be extra shy. Kahin larka samjhe k tum us pr tunn ho... So wait for him to say something or phir khud hi baat nikal parey gi... Dont show too much of ur interest coz girls shud maintain their dignity. Aur general baatein krna. During the course of ur meeting, u'll yourself come to know if there is that spark. 😊
Wishing all the very best for u dear.

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Sharmilee Sinha

@sinhactnt

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Posted: 14 years ago

AmboLove,

Mine was a love marriage. However my parents tried to fix my marriage many times. I would say, do not take any stress about the meeting because first and foremost you need to be comfortable with the guy.

You consent is very important. This time do not be shy about your decision. I was also a very shy girl until I decided that I had found whom I wanted to marry. So be sure to be heard.

Go into the meeting with any open mind. See how comfortable you feel. Who knows, you might find love in this first meeting. Best wishes.

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rayaloveland

@rayaloveland

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Posted: 14 years ago

All the best dear!!

well I cnt give u any advise cos I dnt have any experience n I am still small. I am just 16yrs now..

I can just say dnt be shy. u used to talk to boys much? if u used to then u should not be shy..

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-Alone-

@-Alone-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Dear ambolove,
i m quite near of ur age. But as i m an engineering student my parents want me 2 complete my graduation 1st n i m also keen at having a MBA degree after my graduation, so i don't want 2 think of marriage now.But being ur same age i know how wud it feels abt thinking of marriage.I m happy 2 have such parents who wudn't do anything without my consent.And it's most funny things that it is very hard 2 make my parents agree 4 a proposal than me, bcoz they r so choosy abt this kind of matter. I have complete faith on my parents that they will choose the best guy 4 me.U shud also have the same if u r keen at arranged marriage.But if u like som1 u shud choose that person with whom u can go proudly 2 ur parents n tell that look i have found som1 that u cud never find 4 me & ur parents also agree that yes!! it's the guy who can b ur partner.

And the matter of shyness plz don't b shy at that time. U can ask the boy about his future plannings n himself politely. But b a little reserved bcoz some boys don't like too much free girls.I can tell only that u shudn't give the boy chance 2 complain or reject rather u shud keep those power 4 urself.

At last all the best.

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