This is uncomfortable to watch.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't know about anyone else, but this leap is the first time I have actually felt uncomfortable watching SNS. I could tolerate all the illogical crap and the dragged out tracks, but seeing Kokila being maligned by her own "family" is painful to sit through. All Paridhi, Jigar and Monica seem to do is treat her like scum, make bitchy comments, get her into trouble or shove her around. I don't believe Kokila has done something so wrong for the family to mistreat somebody of her stature and age. In tonight's ep Kokila muttered that she hadn't hurt anybody for them to deal with her in this way. 😕

Actually it reminds me of elder abuse. 😭 😭 😭

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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is difficult to watch. No woman deserves to be treated as such by her family. Kokila's only mistake seems to be is that she is old, a widow and she and Gopi don't bring in any money and are burdens to their family. If you think about it, it is not uncommon in families where selfishness, greed and money mean everything. Hopefully Kokila gets back on form soon. Miss her of old.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

It is difficult to watch. No woman deserves to be treated as such by her family. Kokila's only mistake seems to be is that she is old, a widow and she and Gopi don't bring in any money and are burdens to their family. If you think about it, it is not uncommon in families where selfishness, greed and money mean everything. Hopefully Kokila gets back on form soon. Miss her of old.

i also wonder dear never watch for long time why KoKila become so helpless now. Have to beg for ev7before she is the One who keep this house and family together. Where is all her respect gone. And Jigar in the beginning he is very polite and respect KoKila and Gopi a lot and now his behavior is very rude what change him so much.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am hating Jigs, Pari and that stupid Monica... How could JIgar be so rude his Kaki ji & Bhabhi wow..This is not uncommon actually... Weaknesses for KoGi is taht AHem is not there, Kokila is a widow so there is no support for them. Meera is another annoying character she is making things too complicated when she should stand by her mom and dadi...
It really is painful to watch Kokila... how she was dominating before and now.. wow.. what a change in character..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Catmittens

I don't know about anyone else, but this leap is the first time I have actually felt uncomfortable watching SNS. I could tolerate all the illogical crap and the dragged out tracks, but seeing Kokila being maligned by her own "family" is painful to sit through. All Paridhi, Jigar and Monica seem to do is treat her like scum, make bitchy comments, get her into trouble or shove her around. I don't believe Kokila has done something so wrong for the family to mistreat somebody of her stature and age. In tonight's ep Kokila muttered that she hadn't hurt anybody for them to deal with her in this way.😕

Actually it reminds me of elder abuse.😭😭😭

OMGu r post made me emotional I also can't see my Cutie pie Koki in pain Paridhi, jigs & Monica are totally unbearableafter crossing all limits in showing their idiotic mentality now CVS has also ruined Jigar's characterAhem was also rude but acc. to his looks and physique that character was perfect for him but Vishal is damn cute and negative character doesn't suits himAnd there is no logic behind showing his character negativeas Jigs considered Gopi as his Mom and he always helped her even when Ahem was against himand This so called Pari o my goshhow can she forget that Koki and Gopi always supported herand when she wanted a child When everyone ( including jigs was against him)only Gopi was the one who supported pariand for Monica I am speechlessit seems this lady has come from circus and big lol Pari looks far better and younger than her




I want strong Koki back

Koko has broken million TV sets with her Nightingale type Sweet Voice

Joke aside, Rupal mam is pillar of SNS

hats off to Rupal mam
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

It is difficult to watch. No woman deserves to be treated as such by her family. Kokila's only mistake seems to be is that she is old, a widow and she and Gopi don't bring in any money and are burdens to their family. If you think about it, it is not uncommon in families where selfishness, greed and money mean everything. Hopefully Kokila gets back on form soon. Miss her of old.


What was jigar when ahem and chirag was running the company. Ahem was running the company single handedly. Modi ladies never worked anywhere so as to contribute financially as they are super rich. It is not a big deal for them to maintain 50 people but they are focusing more on their lives.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

It is difficult to watch. No woman deserves to be treated as such by her family. Kokila's only mistake seems to be is that she is old, a widow and she and Gopi don't bring in any money and are burdens to their family. If you think about it, it is not uncommon in families where selfishness, greed and money mean everything. Hopefully Kokila gets back on form soon. Miss her of old.


Yes that must be the case - I really feel this makes the family complete hypocrites. Remember that Baa was cherished, loved and respected though she was widowed, brought in no income, nearly always ill, frail and sometimes needing constant support. But Modis always made sure she was happy, tended to her in sickness, listened to her stories, willing to spend time with her. Now Kokila inhabits the role of eldest family member. Yet she is looked upon as if she is the scum of the earth, stripped of her dignity, having to dress and bathe Gopi singlehandedly though her knees are giving out, forced to keep quiet or else she'll be thrown out of her own home by people she considered her children. 😔

If I have to sit and watch Paridhi give Koki those dirty looks one more time... 😡 😡 😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman

What was jigar when ahem and chirag was running the company. Ahem was running the company single handedly. Modi ladies never worked anywhere so as to contribute financially as they are super rich. It is not a big deal for them to maintain 50 people but they are focusing more on their lives.


100% correct. The reason Modi Industries grew to great heights was Ahem. It was always made clear in the show that the company prospered only because of Ahem's savvy business skills. When he was alive, Jigar always deferred to Ahem. "Yes Ahem bhai... no Ahem bhai... three bags full, Ahem bhai... shall I wash your clothes, bhai? Shoulder massage, bhai?" 🤔

Now Ahem's dead and gone, Jigar is happy to scold his dear Ahem bhai's mother, wear Ahem bhai's clothes, sit in a big fancy office just like Ahem bhai. What lovely behaviour. Hetal is probably rolling in her grave! 😲
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Not only it is elder abuse, it also shows the power of money within the family structure. Koki ruled earlier as her husband and Ahem controlled the business and now Jigar controls it. This is a very common story in joint-business families and this is why husbands need to make sure, that if anything happened to them, their wives at not left at the mercy of the rest of the family. 😡
Koki was also a strong headed woman but overall she was just and wanted the best for the family. Pari is just rude and Monica is bordering evil. Pari and Monica could care less for the family as long as they get what they want.

Anyway this rude behavior is going to be the main driver for Koki to get Gopi married and out of these people's influence. 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@usaonly, catmittens and katrinasalman Jigar obviously cannot handle running a business and keeping his household happy. When Baa was alive she was the centre of the family, much loved and respected by her family and daughters in law who held family principles to heart. Paridi and Monica are modern day, society snobs. Family unity means nothing to them. An easy life, with parlour visits, lazing around eating and gossiping is what they do.
To me it seems that Jigar cannot handle the business and his parents' loss. Why he is treating Kokila and Gopi so rudely is solely down to Paridi and Monica.

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