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ANJ4

@ANJ4

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Posted: 10 years ago

I have 2 nephews that watch the show 8 and 10 ... OMG what are the writer thinking ... CVS ... this is not entertainment ...when you show a 10 year old trying to commit murder... I live in USA ...we have enough school killing... come on CVs get a brain

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Posted: 10 years ago

From: librapiscesarie@yahoo.com, To: response@hellostarindia.com, Subject:Saathiya

pls throw out GOPI, KOKILA, RASHI-2 OUT OF SERIAL
OR
ATLEAST OUT OF MODI-MANSION.
SICKKK OF THESE 3.. MOST IRRITATING CHARACTERS AND ROLE-PLAY.

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a shitty 10 yr old girl not scared of burning humans and cars and garages/ WILL GET SCARED MANN-SEY ON DOOR BEING OPEN BY A SMASH BY Jigar-Ahem? 😆😆😡😡

Reeeaaaly??? you third-class B***H Gopi? reeealy? who the shittt u r talking to?😡😡

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kavita

@kavitha_r

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+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

It does not teach us anything except kalakaris, how to use & throw people.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ANJ4
I have 2 nephews that watch the show 8 and 10 ... OMG what are the writer thinking ... CVS ... this is not entertainment ...when you show a 10 year old trying to commit murder... I live in USA ...we have enough school killing... come on CVs get a brain

What is SNS "teaching us"?

That DILS should be doormats like Gopi.

Kill off a criminal like Radha not even in self defense but in retaliation

but when she was alive never stand up to her and tell her off or "tackle' her using "common every day" cheez like police, a bit of hoshiari a bit of psychology , a bit of smartness etc.

When you want to marry a rich guy do manipulation. Break up matches that were already made. Don't ever have remorse. You see all is "fair" in "love" and "war".

Rich ghar ki beti ho to Kinjal jaisi

Whenever your saas (fai) taunts you point "index" finger at her. Speak with your voice raised always but not for any valid point but for each and every thing.

Go after a guy who wouldn't marry you and then ruin your own name.And then get married to some guy because you could get no one else. and then treat him with scant respect. When some one like Madhubehn is of some support to you taunt her for no fault of hers for what someone like Radha did. In this case act like unpad aurat taunting speaking indirectly hurting other's feelings etc. What use is education to you? Never earn a honest day's living doing something worthwhile. Live off your parent's money making bhabhis work and live araam ki zindagi.

Be with your husband when everything goes well but leave him to live in your maike when little bit of tiff arises. and don't ever go back.

For DILs like Gopi do stupid things like washing laptop and hanging it dry even if you do not go to school, even if somoene like Rashi tells you. Go on bearing every kind of atrocity never speak up but when a "big" occasion comes up do a murder saying there was no other way.

For Kokila first "start" the story with looking for a bezubaan bahu and when you get one even when she is illiterate go ahead and saddle your son with such a bahu. But after that have no mercy or compassion for her situation nor your son's. When your son sends bahu "back" to maike keep quiet as if you did not do anything. But galti se bhi do not take the initiative to educate your bahu to help her live a better life. Never mind you were in the same position as Gopi when you married.

Speak in sanskrit in the most in opportune occasions. act like jasoos and then find out nothing worthwhile

Do a rotten job of bringing up children Ahem/Kinjal and now Rashi jr. when a ten year old commits murder attempt after much planning try to justify her saying bachi hain woh , meri parvarish galat nahin hain. etc. Kokila at this point is more worried about her own parvarish ore than what happened.

Instead of explaining to your own daughter Kinjal calmly just go on being rude/crude/interfering in every jayaaz wish of hers not understanding her difficulties and not able to stop her when your own daughter does something that is not right. For Kokila's faltu "usul" Kinjal suffered in Urmila's hand.

For Rashi even after you got what you "wanted" to marry into rich ghar go on plotting against your own behn in addition to her already troubled life where you treated her like a servant.

For Radha go on being jealous of your own behn and go on plotting against her her child and try to take her place in her own house all for the sake of sister's husband and her rich in laws. (sick)

Even commit murder or rape any kind of sabotage just to trouble your own sister and her family. "reason"? she is rich and you are not.

For Paridhi manhandle a ten year old. and try to throw her out of the house at ten in the night. (Never mind she tried to murder at ten in the night) Try to throw the kid out of the house by pulling her by the hand and throwing her out bodily. Abuse the kid for no reason except her parentage. You may be saying the right things but for the wrong reasons. Also marry by manipulation (same like Rashi) .

Don't even talk about Urmila. Live life by plotting. Excuse you live in chawl and others in mansion.

The characters "teach" us the above mentioned things .

Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Further to my post I have not spoken about Meera/Rashi/Tolu/Molu because right now I am overwhelmed

I may have missed out some points let me think and add them too.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

What is SNS "teaching us"?

That DILS should be doormats like Gopi.

Kill off a criminal like Radha not even in self defense but in retaliation
but when she was alive never stand up to her and tell her off or "tackle' her using "common every day" cheez like police, a bit of hoshiari a bit of psychology , a bit of smartness etc.

When you want to marry a rich guy do manipulation. Break up matches that were already made. Don't ever have remorse. You see all is "fair" in "love" and "war".

Rich ghar ki beti ho to Kinjal jaisi

Whenever your saas (fai) taunts you point "index" finger at her. Speak with your voice raised always but not for any valid point but for each and every thing.

Go after a guy who wouldn't marry you and then ruin your own name.And then get married to some guy because you could get no one else. and then treat him with scant respect. When some one like Madhubehn is of some support to you taunt her for no fault of hers for what someone like Radha did. In this case act like unpad aurat taunting speaking indirectly hurting other's feelings etc. What use is education to you? Never earn a honest day's living doing something worthwhile. Live off your parent's money making bhabhis work and live araam ki zindagi.

Be with your husband when everything goes well but leave him to live in your maike when little bit of tiff arises. and don't ever go back.

For DILs like Gopi do stupid things like washing laptop and hanging it dry even if you do not go to school, even if somoene like Rashi tells you. Go on bearing every kind of atrocity never speak up but when a "big" occasion comes up do a murder saying there was no other way.

For Kokila first "start" the story with looking for a bezubaan bahu and when you get one even when she is illiterate go ahead and saddle your son with such a bahu. But after that have no mercy or compassion for her situation nor your son's. When your son sends bahu "back" to maike keep quiet as if you did not do anything. But galti se bhi do not take the initiative to educate your bahu to help her live a better life. Never mind you were in the same position as Gopi when you married.

Speak in sanskrit in the most in opportune occasions. act like jasoos and then find out nothing worthwhile

Do a rotten job of bringing up children Ahem/Kinjal and now Rashi jr. when a ten year old commits murder attempt after much planning try to justify her saying bachi hain woh , meri parvarish galat nahin hain. etc. Kokila at this point is more worried about her own parvarish ore than what happened.

Instead of explaining to your own daughter Kinjal calmly just go on being rude/crude/interfering in every jayaaz wish of hers not understanding her difficulties and not able to stop her when your own daughter does something that is not right. For Kokila's faltu "usul" Kinjal suffered in Urmila's hand.

For Rashi even after you got what you "wanted" to marry into rich ghar go on plotting against your own behn in addition to her already troubled life where you treated her like a servant.

For Radha go on being jealous of your own behn and go on plotting against her her child and try to take her place in her own house all for the sake of sister's husband and her rich in laws. (sick)
Even commit murder or rape any kind of sabotage just to trouble your own sister and her family. "reason"? she is rich and you are not.

For Paridhi manhandle a ten year old. and try to throw her out of the house at ten in the night. (Never mind she tried to murder at ten in the night) Try to throw the kid out of the house by pulling her by the hand and throwing her out bodily. Abuse the kid for no reason except her parentage. You may be saying the right things but for the wrong reasons. Also marry by manipulation (same like Rashi) .

Don't even talk about Urmila. Live life by plotting. Excuse you live in chawl and others in mansion.

The characters "teach" us the above mentioned things .

Good post. I suggest you to post even about the male members of this show.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

About the men all of them in one word.

They are all on "stand by" They only come in when "required"

Their "work" is to just look on. When every kind of commotion is going on in Modi Bhavan

The show revolves around the women. Kokila the loud "announcer" and Gopi the doormat cum "killer" (See I relapse into talking about the women)

Ahem : He is the most vociferous male member of the show. Unfortunately for the wrong reasons.

One cannot decipher his character. He was rude crude angry everything to Gopi ( I saw the show only from the time he was angry with Gopi after he married her so...) And at that time Gopi (the other Gopi) was going gaga after Ahem. It used to irritate me. Ahem was most rude to Gopi partly because he loved someone else partly because Gopi was illiterate. The bloke did not know that Gopi was more than what he deserved in life. At that time Gopi used to sleep with her head covered on the ground when Ahem used to sleep up in the cot. He dared to love but did not dare to materialize his love. And to Gopi he did not have even a fraction of compassion for the orphan that she was. Gopi was treated worse than a servant. When Rashi wore a normal saree Gopi used to go around in tradional attire with pallu covering her head. Not that it is wrong. But it was Ahem who used to glare at her when her pallu fell off her head even by mistake. (Actually when I started watching the show Gopi (gia manek) had just come back from "maike" when baa was visiting from gaon. and the story started from there. )

Ahem knew only one thing in life to be rude to Gopi. what right he had I do not know. and Rashi and Urmila used to make a fool out of Gopi just for fun.

Kinjal was rude to Dhaval as well. And Gopi idiotic as she was used to ogle Ahem and go gaga over him while he was as rude as hell. So what does that tell us? Be rude to your wife the unfortunate one who married you thinking everything would be well. Dare to love a girl but do not have the courage to marry her. Marry an unfortunate girl your crude insensitve mother's choice and ill treat the girl because you think you are too good. Did you have the courage to refuse to marry the girl? No . You only know how to make her already miserable life more miserable. Have one set of rules for your wife and another set for the girl you "loved" (meaning the one you went around before marriage)

Ahem was rude even after he made up with Gopi. I have watched for a long time he was stern with Gopi even after Meera was born. Never had a one to one relationship always the bullying pati.

For Jigar I have nothing to say except he does not have much to say at any time except yesterday when he yelled at Paridhi. It is excusable since he is on "standby" They all are.

As for Parag Chirag bhai they are on standby as well. Ahem ke pappa what he does for a living I do not know. The motto write shairies and never never speak up to your wife. Get brow beaten every day. And listen to taunts about not being the active earning member or the "doing busines" member

Jigar ke pappa for him he is supposed to have taught Ahem "business" looks retired now. Motto have nothing to say all the time.Understandable since they are on "standby" at any time.

Dhaval motto keep quiet at any time. be it your wife or fai. (of late his "loyalty" and affection to Urmila is puzzling. Agreed she brought him up but he knows she does chori and she does golmaal of all sorts. Yet do not know why he slapped his wife for the sake of his fai. . No matter what the wife does slapping is not justified.

(Still I guess it is "necessary" for the story. )

So chup chaap sehente raho all kinds of nonsense from your wife or fai.

And yes I forgot to add what we learn from Dhaval more than anything else. Make endless rounds to your maike for ten years every day just to see your wife and plead with her to return home

Never mind you do not have much to offer except a "gone mad" fail saas who was unbearable when she was sane but now has become utterly unbearable and irritating

No wonder Kinjal never came back Yahi to problem hain. Urmila's paagal naatak. In spite of knowing fai since childhood Dhaval was not able to recognise that she is doing naatak.

Well what do these characters "teach" us? confusing a bit. a bunch of things. Being rude to your unfortunate wife . Look on helplessly when your wife is vociferous. stay quiet and as bystanders at all times . etc etc.

There are some male members who do not teach us anything. Like Jayantibhai (forgot his surname) and Jitubhai Shah.

Jitubhai of course cannot teach us anything because his wife does not leave him anything to teach us. She takes up his full time.

Of late he has gone gayab. don't know his whereabouts. Jayantibhai (no offense meant) I cannot understand why he is dressed up differently from the rest of the male cast.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 10 years ago

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Xarina

@Xarina

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 10 years ago

SNS has taught me that never to believe in fairy tales and that there are some people more stupider than oneself!

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Xarina
SNS has taught me that never to believe in fairy tales and that there are some people more stupider than oneself!

As for fairy tales I do not know what you mean. Do you mean to say this is not a fairy tale.?Of course it isn't.

As for people who are stupider than us that cannot be. We watch this show every day knowing the characters will do as they please with their unique logic.

Like yesterday Gopi and Kokila singing "lori" to Rashi jr. outside the room door sitting on the ground.. and trying to tell her "Hiranyakashibu" story.

But Rashi jr is no prahlad. She is as bad as Hiranya kashibu in fact worse than that.

Still knowing all this we watch this show who can be stupider than us?

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MADHYAMAVATHI

@MADHYAMAVATHI

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

#10

SNS has taught that you should bear all insults and hardships and yet be loyal to your husband and saasu ma like Gopi. Control the household with your loud mouth even if you are not the eldest or the head of your family like Kokila. Bring your own enemy into your house and bear all that is meted out to you in the name of reforming(?) like Modi family did with Radha. I still cannot fathom till today how and why did the Modi family have Radha in their house for so long and that too when her sister who is her only link with the family was not there. Even her parents were shameless to leave her there instead of keeping her with them. And they all pamper Rashi Jr as though she is heavens gift to them. Frankly speaking Rashi Jr is an unwanted child and occurred by mere accident. But when she grows up and does murder plotting not once but many times just like her mother, the family instead of scolding or punishing her are pacifying her saying that she is a very good girl. What sort of an impression that child will get. That she can get away with anything and her Kokila baa and Gopi maa are there to protect her. And why is Paridhi standing all this. She can just leave for her maike instead of making empty threats.

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