high injustice to mansi and like people.. - Page 4

Originally posted by: ani_gr

Agree.. in fact Gopi said that she will let them live as he has moved on...

Thanks Nikki and Kavitha..

Seems like one sided love from mansi's side otherwise why would she stick around for 10 years, if she thought it through properly she would have realised nothing would come of it after a few years and left ahem and the girls and moved on. I doubt she expected gopi and his family to pop into the picture since it been 10 years. I guess things were comfortable no commitment but still she can be around him and the girls and now gopi has rocked that boat.

R u for real...!!! Mansi has forced herself in ahem
He just sees her as someone who helped him with his kids. ..ahem us so selfish if he loved her or hated gopu he would have married her long back. The dumbo ahem is too much in love with gopi ..He is being nice to Mansi to torture gopi...sone twisted reason he will give in a few days...but sorry yaar ahem and gopi are together. Ahem can never get gopu out of his mind...

That's what I said in another post... he has been selfish all along... he used Mansi... If he wanted a nanny to take care of his girls, he should have hired a nanny not keep Mansi as his bahot achchi dost... as he said in his bakery...😕

Yup, agree with you guys. Ahem is a very selfish guy who supports Gopi only when he needs her, but whenever something doesn't go his way or the family goes through a crisis, he looses his temper and behaves rashly to punish his family. Once his anger cools down, his ego won't let him admit his mistakes so he punishes his family further.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

mansi loves ahem and daughter ...i agree... but several times i have seen during episodes that when meera/ahem/vidya do misbehave with gopi,at that moment she used to give crook smiles/smirks .i mean she feels very happy when they all misbehave with gopi. why???????? why it gives her satisfaction??

gopi is no one for her. if she consider gopi as her sautan than i must say gopi should have more hateness towards her as whatever is circumtances now but she is ahem's wife till now. still gopi does not feel happy/proud when ahem scold mansi today's episode. yes she feels sad when her husband disrespect her but she never gives that smirks of hateness for mansi.

this is basic difference between mansi and gopi. that mansi feels happy/proud for gopi's bad situation which gopi don't.

gopi never gives preference to her own family/daughters. but preference or without preference , stay together or live apart, fact will always remain alive " gopi is still alive, she is still ahem's wife and she will always remain meera/vidya's mother because she loves them. whether she give them preference or not ,still she has all rights because this relation of mother/wife is blessing for every woman by god and gopi got this by her kanhaji".

If we talk about mansi than, why she never expect secure relationship for herself in last 10 years??? if ahem not wanted to give her life security with marriage than just because of love she is with him. why she never thought that what is reason that ahem don't want to marry her? this all are very basic questions which should come in mind being woman. Every woman in india wants secure/legal relationship thats why women want to settle with marriage procedure. Why ahem doesn't marry her till now? why she push herself in insecure relationship? only because of love?

than must say if you are living in society than you must follow rules of society. if single woman is staying with Married man than for indian society that tag of baharwali will be always there. india is not that much forward country so this drawback for mansi .

now if gopi and ahem rekindle their love and there is bright possibilities of it as they were live as husband/wife, parents of children so itne jagde kar k bhi pati patni ek sath ho gaye to mansi kya force karegi apne one sided love and 10 saal ka vasta dekar?? kisi ka pyar kya daan mai paya jata hai??

mansi is really foolish woman who invest her golden 10 years behind that man who never loves her,who never tries to give her secure relationship by wedlock, who just allow her to stay in life as good friend and take care of her daughter. i feel pity for her .mansi doesn't deserve this life but she choose it for herself after knowing all reality.

That is what I have been posting earlier and I don't post just like that. Whatever I see or observe that is the thing I post.

For some people Ahem has got feelings for Mansi as what has happened in those 10 years is in suspense. But whatever it is, one thing is sure, Gopi has only been in jail for those 10 years. She is not legally divorced or dead. So Gopi stands to be his wife as long that she fulfills both the criteria. Ahem has got one more alternative if he wants to marry Mansi without divorcing Gopi, let him convert as a Muslim and marry again. After it is done, he can come back to his religion. Many people use the religious laws as per their convenience. Even Dharmendra has done that.

I am not against Ahem-Mansi relationship but it has to be in a proper way. Mansi does loves the girls as her own daughters but she never showed them the right path. She has spoilt them and they don't even know that.

Whenever Ahem and the girls misbehave with Gopi, Mansi smirks. However, Gopi dosen't do that. On the contrary, when Rashi misbehaved with Mansi, she told her this is not the way to behave with people who are elder to her. Gopi's love for Ahem has always been true & pure. She only wants Ahem to be happy wherever he is. Whether she gives first preference to Ahem & his family or not, her love for Ahem is unconditional. When Gopi killed Radha, the child was safe in Kokila's hands. She killed Radha, foreseeing the danger that may occur in future though she took the law in her hands. I am not telling that Gopi is right. She too has flaws as much as Ahem has! However, that does not reduce Ahem's mistakes. I always see people telling that Gopi gives less priority to her immediate family. However, there are 2 sides in a coin. One is the brighter side & other is the darker side. So far we have been talking about only about one side of it. Not about the other side. When you help others you are helping yourself & your immediate family as well.

Radha was a terror even to her daughters. Ahem was very much aware of it. But still he does not think anything beyond himself. If he is/was unable to understand Gopi, it is his problem & he does not want to accept it.

Why didn't Mansi tell Ahem to divorce Gopi in these 10 years? What made her to think that Gopi won't return so that she can Ahem & the girls with her forever? If she has thought like that, she is the biggest fool in the show. In fact I say that she is an educated fool.

How can she trust Ahem so blindly when he has not divorced Gopi. I agree on this part that Mansi gave 10 years of her life to Ahem & the girls but Ahem did not tell her to do that. Ahem could have appointed a nanny for the same work. It was Mansi's choice to do that & she should be prepared to face whatever comes.

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

That is what I have been posting earlier and I don't post just like that. Whatever I see or observe that is the thing I post.

For some people Ahem has got feelings for Mansi as what has happened in those 10 years is in suspense. But whatever it is, one thing is sure, Gopi has only been in jail for those 10 years. She is not legally divorced or dead. So Gopi stands to be his wife as long that she fulfills both the criteria. Ahem has got one more alternative if he wants to marry Mansi without divorcing Gopi, let him convert as a Muslim and marry again. After it is done, he can come back to his religion. Many people use the religious laws as per their convenience. Even Dharmendra has done that.

I am not against Ahem-Mansi relationship but it has to be in a proper way. Mansi does loves the girls as her own daughters but she never showed them the right path. She has spoilt them and they don't even know that.

Whenever Ahem and the girls misbehave with Gopi, Mansi smirks. However, Gopi dosen't do that. On the contrary, when Rashi misbehaved with Mansi, she told her this is not the way to behave with people who are elder to them. Gopi's love for Ahem has always been true & pure. She only wants Ahem to be happy wherever he is. Whether she gives first preference to Ahem & his family or not, her love for Ahem is unconditional. When Gopi killed Radha, the child was safe in Kokila's hands. She killed Radha, foreseeing the danger that may occur in future though she took the law in her hands. I am not telling that Gopi is right. She too has flaws as much as Ahem has & that does not reduce Ahem's mistakes. I always see people telling that Gopi gives less priority to her immediate family. However, there are 2 sides in a coin. One is the brighter side & other is the darker side. So far we have been talking about only about one side of it. Not about the other side. When you help others you are helping yourself & your immediate family as well.

Radha was a terror even to her daughters. Ahem was very much aware of it still he does not think anything beyond himself. If he is/was unable to understand Gopi, it is his problem & he does not want to accept it.

Why didn't she tell Ahem to divorce Gopi in these 10 years? What made her to think that Gopi won't return & she can Ahem & the girls with her forever? If she has thought like that, she is the biggest fool in the show. In fact i say that she is an educated fool.

How can she trust Ahem so blindly when he has not divorced Gopi. I agree on this part that Mansi gave 10 years of her life to Ahem & the girls but Ahem did not tell her to do that. Ahem could have appointed a nanny for the same work. It was Mansi's choice to do that & she should be prepared to face whatever comes.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I am new in saathiya forum and this is my first post reply too. So i don't know what you had posted earlier. I have written what i feel during past episodes. So i compare behaviour of mansi and gopi. Well we have same POV for this mess which is good thing 😊

If you know the story, that is more than enough.😊

Originally posted by: librapiscesarie

PLSSS BREAK OFF AHEM-GOPI...FINAL