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Posted: 10 years ago
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I feel bad for Mansi. Ahem should have met Gopi in jail with the divorce papers & happily married Mansi. Even now, he can do it.

Gopi & Ahem lack understanding. There is no mutual respect among the two & are better off without each other though the show is about Ahem & Gopi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210

I feel bad for Mansi. Ahem should have met Gopi in jail with the divorce papers & happily married Mansi. Even now, he can do it.

Gopi & Ahem lack understanding. There is no mutual respect among the two & are better off without each other though the show is about Ahem & Gopi.


u know what wud have been an ideal n interesting track...

Gopi and Kokila, trying to cajole Ahem, into coming back...him refusing, due to his anger or ego...

than Gopi and Kokila, just let him be...if he wants to be with Mansi, than tricking him n forcing him, is all such a cheap thing to do, no matter what their intentions were...had they respected Mansi and accepted her, as she was Ahem's choice, than i wud have applauded them, as that proves them to be better humans...

Mansi deserves her respect, cause Mansi looked after Gopi's daughters as Mansi's own...she didnt behave with them as a step mother...and clearly Meera loves her and Vidya also respects her, so surely Mansi must have atleast loved them, if not given them traditional values...but loving someone else's child as ur own, is also a big thing...

so for that Mansi deseves respect from Gopi n Kokila and ofcourse all Modi's...

but poor woman, has just been tricked by them all...and insulted by Ahem...hope after today's episode she takes a stand n move back to mumbai... clearly Ahem doesnt deserve her love...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't feel bad for Mansi. She got into a relationship with Ahem knowing he was married, so whatever consequences happen, she should be ready for them. Ahem is in the wrong too, but since this discussion is about Mansi I'm just point out her mistake.

I hate people like Mansi who become involved with married people. They really have no self-respect if they cannot find someone who isn't in a committed relationship.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

I don't feel bad for Mansi. She got into a relationship with Ahem knowing he was married, so whatever consequences happen, she should be ready for them. Ahem is in the wrong too, but since this discussion is about Mansi I'm just point out her mistake.

I hate people like Mansi who become involved with married people. They really have no self-respect if they cannot find someone who isn't in a committed relationship.


Do you really think so much when u fall in love ??

they have no self-respect ? thats just like saying that Nirbhaya who went for movie in the evening deserved what happened to her...its wrong to even say such a thing...

she fell in love with Ahem...we dont even know how he was with her before gopi came back...maybe he was very charming n sweet...so how is it wrong of her to fall for a guy, who is alone...who is trying to raise his two kids...she fell in love...she started staying with them as the two kids were small n needed some motherly person around...

If Ahem didnt divorce Gopi, how is that Mansi's fault...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


u know what wud have been an ideal n interesting track...

Gopi and Kokila, trying to cajole Ahem, into coming back...him refusing, due to his anger or ego...

than Gopi and Kokila, just let him be...if he wants to be with Mansi, than tricking him n forcing him, is all such a cheap thing to do, no matter what their intentions were...had they respected Mansi and accepted her, as she was Ahem's choice, than i wud have applauded them, as that proves them to be better humans...

Mansi deserves her respect, cause Mansi looked after Gopi's daughters as Mansi's own...she didnt behave with them as a step mother...and clearly Meera loves her and Vidya also respects her, so surely Mansi must have atleast loved them, if not given them traditional values...but loving someone else's child as ur own, is also a big thing...

so for that Mansi deseves respect from Gopi n Kokila and ofcourse all Modi's...

but poor woman, has just been tricked by them all...and insulted by Ahem...hope after today's episode she takes a stand n move back to mumbai... clearly Ahem doesnt deserve her love...

Gopi always respected Mansi for what she did for her daughters.. she also said it many times that mansi brought her children up when she was not there...all this cajoling and coaxing Ahem was Kokila's idea..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Friends lets summarise...

Irrespective of Mansi or Ahem, who provoked each other,
Coz even if mansi entered, ahem is also coolly enjoying Holi
With Mansi..- ( just for your info RamSitaJanak - ok)

1) koki should get better..god bless her health..!

2) ahem mansi & girls should return Mumbai

3) kokila, rashi, gopi, urmi shd stay together. They can
get later ON get gopi another marriage, if she wish.

4) see we cannot seperate J-P ; (althou we love J-G pairing)

5) rest modi members; let stay as it is.

6) its upto kinjal dhawal'.if they want to get together or not.

( arey haaan...o teri, this kokila b...h hasnt made jameen aasmaan ek
To unite daughter to dhawal
But she is HELL after that Ahem like a witch; jussst coz he is with other woman Mansi ( and Not her own
Choice..) basss...thats it...ye hee hain...basss/ third class aurat.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ani_gr

]Gopi always respected Mansi for what she did for her daughters.. she also said it many times that mansi brought her children up when she was not there...all this cajoling and coaxing Ahem was Kokila's idea..


just mouthing the words a few times, isnt enough...she has been rude more often than the times she said that she respects Mansi...

and never once did she tell Kokila that they shud respect Mansi for what she has done...Kokila kept interfering n Gopi kept quite...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


just mouthing the words a few times, isnt enough...she has been rude more often than the times she said that she respects Mansi...

and never once did she tell Kokila that they shud respect Mansi for what she has done...Kokila kept interfering n Gopi kept quite...


Wow, now people expect Gopi to respect Mansi? 😲 I mean, yeah, from a 3rd person perspective we all can give lectures about how Gopi should respect Mansi for bringing up her daughters, but if anyone puts themselves in Gopi's shoes and actually tries to understand what she's going through, who here would actually respect Mansi? In Gopi's POV, Mansi replaced her in Ahem's affections. Mansi stole her daughters' love and affection. Isn't it natural for Gopi to feel bitter and resent Mansi? Wouldn't any of us do that in her position? Forget blaming Ahem, we all might blame Ahem and even hate him for what he did, but would any of us actually respect Mansi? We would also hate her for having a part in our marriage breaking up. It's natural and it's human.

It's downright ridiculous to expect Gopi or any of the Modis to respect Mansi, particularly Gopi. No one in her position would feel respect or gratitude to the woman who replaced her in her husband and daughters' affection.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


Do you really think so much when u fall in love ??

they have no self-respect ? thats just like saying that Nirbhaya who went for movie in the evening deserved what happened to her...its wrong to even say such a thing...

she fell in love with Ahem...we dont even know how he was with her before gopi came back...maybe he was very charming n sweet...so how is it wrong of her to fall for a guy, who is alone...who is trying to raise his two kids...she fell in love...she started staying with them as the two kids were small n needed some motherly person around...

If Ahem didnt divorce Gopi, how is that Mansi's fault...


OMG, comparing Mansi to Nirbhaya is downright ridiculous. 🤢

I will say this to any man or woman who falls in love with a married man or woman. Prepare for the consequences! If the person you fell in love with hasn't divorced their spouse, there's a reason they didn't do it! If someone truly does not love their spouse anymore, they will divorce them no matter what, particularly if they fell in love with you again.

The mere fact that Ahem did not divorce Gopi for 10 years, nor did he ever have any sexual relations with Mansi, proves that he still loves Gopi, no matter what he says. How can Mansi fall in love with a person like that? People are saying Gopi has no self-respect, I say Mansi doesn't.

Forget love. Before love happens, a relationship has to be formed. No one "falls in love" out of nowhere. They had to have been in a relationship first before love came. Why form a relationship with a married man in the first place? If Mansi fell in love with Ahem, she had to have had a relationship with him first, and we know she knew about his wife being in jail, so it's not like she didn't know about Gopi. If Mansi had self respect, she'd have told Ahem to divorce his wife before dating her.

No, instead she acted as his friend, she acted as the nanny of his daughters, all the while trying to make him fall in love with her. Ahem himself said he and Mansi never had a loving relationship, let alone a sexual one. He only announced his engagement to Mansi to spite Gopi, and Mansi knew that. Mansi doesn't care if Ahem doesn't love her. She wants to marry him for ulterior motives. If she truly cared for him, she'd tell him that he doesn't love her and she can't stay with someone like that.

Mansi is not innocent in the least. She entered into a relationship with a married man with eyes open, and if she's paying the consequences now, it's her fault. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and for as long as Ahem does not divorce Gopi, he belongs to Gopi only (if she accepts him back that is). Mansi has no place in his life, neither does she deserve any pity.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: librapiscesarie

Friends lets summarise...

Irrespective of Mansi or Ahem, who provoked each other,
Coz even if mansi entered, ahem is also coolly enjoying Holi
With Mansi..- ( just for your info RamSitaJanak - ok)

1) koki should get better..god bless her health..!

2) ahem mansi & girls should return Mumbai

3) kokila, rashi, gopi, urmi shd stay together. They can
get later ON get gopi another marriage, if she wish.

4) see we cannot seperate J-P ; (althou we love J-G pairing)

5) rest modi members; let stay as it is.

6) its upto kinjal dhawal'.if they want to get together or not.

( arey haaan...o teri, this kokila b...h hasnt made jameen aasmaan ek
To unite daughter to dhawal
But she is HELL after that Ahem like a witch; jussst coz he is with other woman Mansi ( and Not her own
Choice..) basss...thats it...ye hee hain...basss/ third class aurat.


I'm not saying Ahem is not at fault, sure he is, but if Gopi is prepared to have him back that's her choice and her choice alone. Mansi has no say in that choice.

When there is infidelity in a marriage, it's not the fault of the spouse only. It's also the fault of the spouse's extra-marital partner, because both together made the infidelity happen. So Ahem and Mansi both are at fault for what they did, but if Gopi is prepared to forgive Ahem, that's her choice. Mansi has no claims on him because 1) Ahem never divorced Gopi and 2) Mansi knew he was married from the start and thought she could make him love her regardless.

People are very quick to blame men who have relationships with married women, but I don't understand how any of you are finding Mansi innocent or worthy of pity. Mansi is no better than all the men who have relationships with married women. It's totally wrong to enter into a relationship with a married person, whether they are man or woman. Mansi knew everything, yet she made her choice, so she'll have to face the consequences.

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