WHY MODI BAHWAN A JAIL FOR WOMEN!!! - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's not Rashi doing what she wants or not, but Rashi lied by saying she was going to an orphanage to donate money, which she planned to use on a hotel. 🤢 Rashi's been doing this from the very beginning. She says one thing and does the other, so how is Kokila, an authoritarian herself, ever to trust her? Rashi crossed her limits by using the orphanage as an excuse. Even I would be disgusted if I was in Kokila's place. I'm not saying the fault is all Rashi's. Kokila has also been strict with Rashi, but Rashi is not completely faultless either. Rashi has to learn to tell the truth, and if she wants to spend time with her friends, she should say so boldly. If Kokila opposes that, then Hetal should support her DIL. She's done so before, and if Hetal does not support Rashi, then it's also Hetal's fault that Rashi resorts to lying. The fault is not all Kokila's. She is simply easiest to blame, but everyone in the house shares fault for how Rashi is, including Rashi herself.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know... If Koki is so against make up, buying dresses why doesn't she herself wear ... A white widow saree. This way she will save a lot of money. She won't have to buy such a thick eye liner, lipsticks, gota saree and so many bindee.Her husband is alive= dead
So no point

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

It's not Rashi doing what she wants or not, but Rashi lied by saying she was going to an orphanage to donate money, which she planned to use on a hotel. 🤢 Rashi's been doing this from the very beginning. She says one thing and does the other, so how is Kokila, an authoritarian herself, ever to trust her? Rashi crossed her limits by using the orphanage as an excuse. Even I would be disgusted if I was in Kokila's place. I'm not saying the fault is all Rashi's. Kokila has also been strict with Rashi, but Rashi is not completely faultless either. Rashi has to learn to tell the truth, and if she wants to spend time with her friends, she should say so boldly. If Kokila opposes that, then Hetal should support her DIL. She's done so before, and if Hetal does not support Rashi, then it's also Hetal's fault that Rashi resorts to lying. The fault is not all Kokila's. She is simply easiest to blame, but everyone in the house shares fault for how Rashi is, including Rashi herself.

even if rashi tells the truth will koki agree to it?? will even hetal supports her bahu at least once in her life time?? rashi to have her personal life to enjoy when kinjal has a right to enjoy her life then y rashi shouldn't have??? urmi at least gave her that right she is not against to it but only greedy for money.atleast jigar should understand her but poor rashi always getiing taunts by koki even during her pregy track she has to do all the house chores where as gopi should take rest ??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: risha8

even if rashi tells the truth will koki agree to it?? will even hetal supports her bahu at least once in her life time?? rashi to have her personal life to enjoy when kinjal has a right to enjoy her life then y rashi shouldn't have??? urmi at least gave her that right she is not against to it but only greedy for money.atleast jigar should understand her but poor rashi always getiing taunts by koki even during her pregy track she has to do all the house chores where as gopi should take rest ??


That still doesn't give a person to make up dirty lies about what they're doing. Rashi's lie about the orphanage went too far. Why lie about helping orphans when she was really going to a hotel? There's a limit to what kind of lies someone makes up. This just wasn't right morally or ethically.

Anyway, there comes a point when a person has to put their foot down and take control of their life. How long will Rashi go around lying to enjoy her life? After a while, if her MILs won't support her wishes, then she'll have the gain the support of her husband. If Jigar really loves his wife, then he will support her, and if he does not have the guts to support her in front of everyone, then it's better for them to break away from Modi bhavan and get their own home so that Rashi can at least live her own life honestly and peacefully.

The problem is that even Rashi would not want to do this. She'd rather enjoy the wealth of Modi bhavan and continue her life lying than gain independence from the family. The problem is not only Kokila's. Kokila is the way she is because everyone lets her be like that. No one stands up to her, not her MIL, her husband, Hetal, or her son. When someone is enabled to become a bully, then it's easy to remain a bully. So IMO, Kokila's behavior is caused by everyone else in the family, so before blaming Kokila it's better to blame the others, who have enabled her behavior to continue all those years.

The ultimate villain in all this is the CVs, who have ruined Rashi and Kokila's characters. 🤬 There was a time when both Rashi and Kokila became positive characters. Kokila, who was a bully in the beginning, had become a pretty nice MIL before Umang entered the story again, but then it all went downhill after that. As for Rashi, she had become such a loving, supportive character lately, but because Rucha is leaving the show, the CVs have made her the same old Rashi again, which is plain stupid because Rashi's character had gone through such a positive transformation. If anyone is to be blamed, it's the infuriating CVs who are weaving such a nonsense storyline that shows no development of any of their characters.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pancakes527

I know... If Koki is so against make up, buying dresses why doesn't she herself wear ... A white widow saree. This way she will save a lot of money. She won't have to buy such a thick eye liner, lipsticks, gota saree and so many bindee.Her husband is alive= dead

So no point


Your views are a bit too strong on Koki baby.

I agree with you that Koki baby wears those brassy looking too good to be gold necklaces, long dangling earrings, double bindi etc and it looks gaudy especially when compared to Hetal behn who dresses up simple and sweet.

I don't understand Koki's character though. What is she trying to portray? Even as she speaks shudh sanskrit when there is a emergency situation that too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I cannot stress how much I agree with you.

It's just the way that fat mother in law of Gopi thinks she owns the place.

Where are parag and chirag? I'm sure they are both afraid of kokila
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I was thinking the same when Rashi wanted to out for lunch with her friends. I mean she's just out having fun? Can't she even do that? What's the point of making so much many then?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its a jail for women CONTROLLED by Women!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#19
it not only a jail for woman but also a place where men are silent observers to all the events of the house.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Abray

I was thinking the same when Rashi wanted to out for lunch with her friends. I mean she's just out having fun? Can't she even do that? What's the point of making so much many then?


It's strange that people forget the lie Rashi made to go out to lunch. No decent person lies about helping orphans just to go out to lunch.

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