Gopi was, Is and will Remain a DOORMAT!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yea, she has no sympathy whatever hell is happening to her until she stands up for herself. She deserves everything she is getting unless she stands up for herself.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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If a woman does not stand up for herself she can't expect others to think of her with respect. No one at MM respects Gopi. They look at her as a poor, uneducated girl who can only wash, cook and serve her God aka Ahem.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yup...Ahem talked so much CRAP...she just stood there like a doormat...saying nothing...she allows people to walk over her...getting fed up her...I thought atleast now she will change but i forgot she is Gopi!! 😡 Gopi open ur mouth!! Say something!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: westindian

If a woman does not stand up for herself she can't expect others to think of her with respect. No one at MM respects Gopi. They look at her as a poor, uneducated girl who can only wash, cook and serve her God aka Ahem.

Well said Christine. 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Well said Christine. 👏

yup Well said. A independant gopi would be worth watching, working in front of the modis live her life according to her, she needs to go back to teach. My friend in Hyderabad was constantly been taunted by her in laws sis in laws etc her parents were given mouthfuls, so she went to work in the international school as a teacher , she does not have time for kitchen politics now her in laws worship her. these are the same in laws who made her life hell 😲
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think it's quite fair to say that Gopi is still a doormat... we have just seen the harshest words that Ahem has ever used with her, but he also thinks he is talking to the same Gopi from 8 years ago. I think we need to wait until tomorrow. Gopi heard Ahem out - because let's face it, she is the only one acting like an adult between herself and kohem. This Gopi is stronger; she has born and raised a daughter alone, while teaching at a school and making money for her small family's well-being. This is a Gopi who knows her value.

We will have to see if she says something to Ahem. If she meekly accepts her fate (as the old Gopi would have done), then yes. DOORMAT for sure. BUT I feel that with the support of Vidya, she will definitely tell Ahem to shut up in some way and say that she is not going to hurt her daughter by leaving nor will she separate her daughter from her father, despite Gohem's relationship.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: suk19

yup Well said. A independant gopi would be worth watching, working in front of the modis live her life according to her, she needs to go back to teach. My friend in Hyderabad was constantly been taunted by her in laws sis in laws etc her parents were given mouthfuls, so she went to work in the international school as a teacher , she does not have time for kitchen politics now her in laws worship her. these are the same in laws who made her life hell 😲


Your poor friend. I'm so glad she stood up for herself. 👏👏See how they now respect her for standing her ground? This is exactly how the CVs should portray Gopi. Who is writing this script? They must hate women😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why do we watching Sathya.

Gopi is treated as a doormat and Kokila is the man in the house. All the men in Sathya is there for a show figure except Ahem. He is the mom's boy and he does not have any spine to stand up to his mom he can advice everybody and nobody can not advice him. Radha is doing all this evil nobody is suspecting her. Is she relative of the writer or something. Ever since she came the show the moral is gone . Before Sathiya is a good show now i do not even watch that show. Only thing good in the show is the kids and Gopi's 3rd marriage. My opinion they should stop the story if they do not have anything else to show.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gopi is a very irritating person. She can walk out from the Modi home with Vidya if she wish. If Vidya refuse to go with Gopi then Gopi should leave her behind. Vidya will soon realise that she cannot live with her mum so the Modis will be forced to re-unite mother and daughter.
Gopi just cannot see that the Modis are using her for their own selfish reasons.
At least Kokila and Ahem have been honest in telling her that they do not want her in the house.
Gopi shpuld leave and divorce Ahem and take him to the cleaners together with Kokila.
She should expose Kokila for all the cruel things that Kokila has done to her.

Family usually support each other but Gopi is not supported by her in laws . They use her according to their needs
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I guess gopi has become a stronger woman than before but because she has respect for her family, she doesn't want to argue with them. After all she is the DIL of the house. Even if she doesn't get the respect that she deserves as DIL, she will always stay quiet like this.

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