Kokila should get Kinwal out of RN

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Now that Urmilas true colors have been exposed Kokilashould get Kinjal and Dhawal out of Urmilas house.

Make them independent of her somehow.

That will be the ultimate punishment.

Also, I cannot understand he Kokila continues to ignore Kinjal and her fate.

Hoe something s done for Kinjal soon

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Because Kinjal is her daughter and not son. guess different set of rules apply for Kokilaji and another set for others.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The thing is Kokila trusts that Dhawal will do the right thing.😊 She is not partial to Kinjal just wise.
A lot of troubles in a girl's marriage happens when the Maayka keep constantly butting into the sasural's decisions like Urmi does.. Kokila is just not doing it. She is far from being partial or hypocritical😊

I hope Dhawal makes that decision. He needs to take Kinjal away from his fui. It is high time he stops supporting her and moves on with his life. And if they take the first step, I am sure Koki will help them. She gave money for Dhawal to set up that Baniyan shop.. GoHem gave Dhawal half of the pickle business. .I am sure Kinjal will be helped further if only Dhawal makes the first step😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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There is always a time when girl parents have to intervene for the benefit of their daughter. I am not only talking about this serial but also in real life. Many times domestic abuse is ignored by the parents or a daughter is given up once married saying that she is no longer their's. And Kokilaji didnot give money to Dhawal at first instance it was only when Chirag offered Dhawal a place in his office, she didn't like it and then on Kinjal's taunts she gave Dhawal money as a loan to setup business I agree that Kinjal lied earlier to get married to the person whom she loved but unfortunately it didn't work out but for that mistake her mother gave her a lifelong punishment. It's different matter that now Kinjal compromised and started looking for love in her partner. But had it been Ahem I am sure though she will rant and would say that she would cutoff relationship with him , she wouldn't go to such extreme measures.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

The thing is Kokila trusts that Dhawal will do the right thing.😊 She is not partial to Kinjal just wise.
A lot of troubles in a girl's marriage happens when the Maayka keep constantly butting into the sasural's decisions like Urmi does.. Kokila is just not doing it. She is far from being partial or hypocritical😊

I hope Dhawal makes that decision. He needs to take Kinjal away from his fui. It is high time he stops supporting her and moves on with his life. And if they take the first step, I am sure Koki will help them. She gave money for Dhawal to set up that Baniyan shop.. GoHem gave Dhawal half of the pickle business. .I am sure Kinjal will be helped further if only Dhawal makes the first step😛

Before he makes the first step he has got to get rid of that god awful attitude. There is a limit to everything. Urmila does not deserve to have family around her.😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

There is always a time when girl parents have to intervene for the benefit of their daughter. I am not only talking about this serial but also in real life. Many times domestic abuse is ignored by the parents or a daughter is given up once married saying that she is no longer their's. And Kokilaji didnot give money to Dhawal at first instance it was only when Chirag offered Dhawal a place in his office, she didn't like it and then on Kinjal's taunts she gave Dhawal money as a loan to setup business I agree that Kinjal lied earlier to get married to the person whom she loved but unfortunately it didn't work out but for that mistake her mother gave her a lifelong punishment. It's different matter that now Kinjal compromised and started looking for love in her partner. But had it been Ahem I am sure though she will rant and would say that she would cutoff relationship with him , she wouldn't go to such extreme measures.



I agree Neeraja and I don't think it is because of Kinjal being a girl that the difference is shown. Unlike Ahem, Kinjal has been her own.. She has been rude with her mother most times and I don't think Koki has been any better but yet..

The point is, I do agree Dhawal and Kinjal need to leave Urmila but the initiative has to come from Dhawal because he has not been abusive to Kinjal i.e as of yet.. He has been a prick for sometime now but I hope he changes soon and sees Kinjal's PoV and moves out too.

In real life, it is absolutely necessary that the parents support their child at her in laws but what I mean by interference is not support. Interference is when the DIL's parents want to make every decision for their daughters family also. Marriages break due to such interference. Support however is imperative. The girl cannot be cast away after marriage (Which BTW what happened to Kinjal and I agree that she should not have been left to defend herself)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Before he makes the first step he has got to get rid of that god awful attitude. There is a limit to everything. Urmila does not deserve to have family around her.😡



Oh yeah Xari😊

He taunted Kinjal as he told Urmi that Kinjal was saying something right the first time in her life😡 I mean, the guy needs to let his attitude go🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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That is a great idea but Kokila knows that Kinjal has the ability to stand her own ground. She knows that Kinjal can take care of herself.

Further, she is fully aware that Dhaval s a level headed husband who will have the best interest at heart.

Once before Hetal did suggest this but it was squashed by Kokila.

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