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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes we can all rejoice. ..urmi has been yelled at...but poor gopi...pls dont forget ahem is a blind believer wen it comes to his mom...so if koki is insulting her..ahem will tooo...if koki angry. Then ahem angry..piir guy might even say that he hates gopi..and is tolerating her just cause of meera...earlier he told her he was just tolerating her for his mom... belueve ne its not a happy situation. .. gopi might even leave mm with meera ... no its not goibg to be happy cause ahem will hurt her even more now... he will bury his love and let his hate rule...and tjis time no koki to stop him...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sunnyahem

Yes we can all rejoice. ..urmi has been yelled at...but poor gopi...pls dont forget ahem is a blind believer wen it comes to his mom...so if koki is insulting her..ahem will tooo...if koki angry. Then ahem angry..piir guy might even say that he hates gopi..and is tolerating her just cause of meera...earlier he told her he was just tolerating her for his mom... belueve ne its not a happy situation. .. gopi might even leave mm with meera ... no its not goibg to be happy cause ahem will hurt her even more now... he will bury his love and let his hate rule...and tjis time no koki to stop him...

Sunny this is a necessary evil for Gopi to bear. I am not happy about it either. She is paying for her hesitancy in allowing her maami to railroad her into silence. Hopefully she will regain what she had with both Ahem and Kokila but for now she has broken their trust big time. Do you see Rashi becoming all self righteous and lecturing Gopi too?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Poor Gopi😕 I feel sorry for her.. I can understand Koki and Ahem's PoVs but it is sad that they do not consider Gopi's situation atleast a bit..

I agree she will have to bear the consequences of hiding the truth.. But it is unfortunate that she is being punished for the wrong crime. She should have faced this when she hid Vansh's truth from all but now that Gopi stood up to Urmi, she will face problems..

@Xari - Very like Rashi to play the self righteous person. Wonder what would happen if Gopi decides to say that she wants to confess a bit more and explain what happened with Vansh.. I wonder where Rashi will keep her sorry face then😡

You know Xari and Sunny, I have one wish.. I want Gopi to actually get raving mad at all after this. I want her to tell Koki that she does consider her a mother but she is still frightened of her because of how she was treated in the past when she came home married. She should tell Koki that it is correct to expect Gopi to be a daughter but it is also important to understand a daughter and her dilemma and not go on a blaming spree..

Gopi should tell Ahem that she has forgiven numerous of his mistakes including him hiding the truth about Anitha .So can he just keep his anger aside for once and look at her as a faulty human for once?


As for Rashi, I really want Gopi to turn into the tigress of your OS and tell her in her face what she is.. The biggest hypocrite of them all.. Now when it comes to her, Rashi thinks her mother is cruel.. So what happened when she agreed that the adopted baby needs to be a boy and not a girl? Where did her self righteousness go when she wanted the gifts even after Vansh left😡😡


I feel for GOpi.. But I think it is time she stood up and let them all see the reality😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Harini, I don't see the point of Gopi saying anything about the Vansh issue as I do feel it is too little too late. Rashi won't say anything either because she will be implicated.

I'd be one of the first to cheer Gopi on if she loses her rag. The time to be timid and hang her head has passed. One has to shout above the din to make yourself heard. She will have to shout long and hard for she has broken her maaji's trust and not been honest with Ahem. Such a big loss.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey gals..!!! Never thought of that,,,, yesss gopi shud give it off o ahem at least if he does any tamashas...ooo but wasn't nazim sexy...!! God I'd love his anger at gopi if and only if his making up is as intense... In the past ahem has just said a meek sorry once or twice... And poor gopi gets ok in a second.. Let handsome grovel for a bit... Then it will be true drama and I'll feel sooo good...!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Xari, I want Gopi to say about Vansh because it is high time Rashi is also shown the mirror.. it is all well and good to play the wronged when it suits her but she is no less evil than her mom.. maybe more because he mom atleast never lets her down when she is in trouble.😕


But I do want GOpi to become a tigress now and not cry for what is probably the greatest loss in her life. I get what KoHem will be feeling and understand their anger but they have made mistakes too and maybe it is the reason of Gopi trying to please everyone that has made her who she is.. Timid, meek, worrying and carrying the world's burden on her shoulders..

She needs to stop caring less for those who do not matter (UrShi IMHO) and start making amends with KoHem.. But this also means that she needs to actually open up and tell Koki and Ahem why she keeps quiet at times. Her fears and her worries.. Gopi stopped for a reason. .She did not reveal Vansh's truth for a reason.. The reason being UrShi.. She needs to come out with that and be totally honest..

Maybe also tell them how her past (this includes her initial treatment at KoHem's hands) always keeps playing in her mind. after all, KoHem do not know about Vansh and with the one truth of them believing Gopi protected Urmi made her fall in disgrace, I think Gopi's fears are coming true.. She is rather judged for only her mistakes
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Harini my mum went through life covering up other peoples' wrongdoings and it backfired on her. When she revealed events, she was dismissed by others. Not because she told everything but because she did not disclose facts there and then. She suffered from that for quite sometime. The fact is Gopi, as did my mum kept things quiet for fear of upsetting the apple cart or the effect it would have. That silence is misguided. Sometimes you have to stand up for what is right and for yourself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree Xari and I totally accept that Gopi is wrong in her silence. I also see why it affects others so much.

But is this not the time for Gopi to actually stand up for herself? How long will she keep hoping that people see her for who she is and take on other's sins on her head and worry for them?

I am sorry about your mom.. My aunt did the same and though she had a happier ending it still was bad seeing her suffer for sometime. I know Gopi deserves what she is getting.. My only issue is that no one else seem to have Karma visiting them.
Gopi is blamed for silence while the real culprits are sent away scott free..

You think Urmi will even care about the ultimatum from Koki and Rashi. She will not worry and find her way back into MM somehow...

Gopi will suffer in silence as Koki chooses to ignore the truth and Ahem supports his mother. I get it that it is her silence coming to bite her back but I still cannot see her suffer and only her suffer for everyone else's mistake.

Anybody who judges Gopi should also think what they have done to her before or atleast let her talk once. They silence her with words even after knowing that she cannot defend herself. If Gopi's own mother does not let her tell her side of the story, then who would?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sadly Gopi will bear the burden and willingly take Kokila's punishment. She will suffer more when Ahem is not in the house and whilst he is there she will keep to her routine showing little to no effect of Kokila's punishment.

It will be great to see Gopi losing her temper and raging and ranting but this will need to be built up over time.

We have seen Ahem side Gopi once, when he supported her with her learning.

Today, being Holi celebrations, he has had a quiet moment with his Gopi reminding her of their time just last year when they became husband and wife, and he expressed his love to her. He is very much in love with his Gopi.

Yes, Ahem openly supports and cares for his mother but Gopi has a growing significant place in his heart. He now thinks of his immediate family - that being Gopi and Meera.

So Ahem's trust in Gopi should be intact.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I hope so Swasthi..😊

I just hope that Ahem after being initially angry, talks to Gopi about his disappointment and they sort it out.. It would not go well if he also reverts back to his angry self and Gopi has no one to turn too..

She played a role in getting him closer to his dad and mom at one point of time in his life. Hopefully he returns the favor by being the Saathiya he is shown to have become.. Be angry with her, rant at her but also tell her with love that he wants her to come with her troubles to him, no matter what😊

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