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Posted: 12 years ago
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Harini Karma only seems to come round and bite people who have goodness, principles, fear and faith. You don't see the others suffer in the same way. I am hopeful that Gopi's eventual saving grace will be that Kokila realises that Gopi did indeed try to tell her. Not just once but a few times. But I am wondering if our anger on Gopi is our frustration as to how naive she is.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

<font size="3" color="#0000ff">Sadly Gopi will bear the burden and willingly take Kokila's punishment. She will suffer more when Ahem is not in the house and whilst he is there she will keep to her routine showing little to no effect of Kokila's punishment.</font>


<font size="3" color="#0000ff">It will be great to see Gopi losing her temper and raging and ranting but this will need to be built up over time.</font>

<font size="3" color="#0000ff">We have seen Ahem side Gopi once, when he supported her with her learning.</font>

<font size="3" color="#0000ff">Today, being Holi celebrations, he has had a quiet moment with his Gopi reminding her of their time just last year when they became husband and wife, and he expressed his love to her. He is very much in love with his Gopi.</font>

<font size="3" color="#0000ff">Yes, Ahem openly supports and cares for his mother but Gopi has a growing significant place in his heart. He now thinks of hisimmediatefamily - that being Gopi and Meera.</font>

<font size="3" color="#0000ff">So Ahem's trust in Gopi should be intact.</font>




Awww I hope so girl..!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I hope so Swasthi..😊

I just hope that Ahem after being initially angry, talks to Gopi about his disappointment and they sort it out.. It would not go well if he also reverts back to his angry self and Gopi has no one to turn too..

She played a role in getting him closer to his dad and mom at one point of time in his life. Hopefully he returns the favor by being the Saathiya he is shown to have become.. Be angry with her, rant at her but also tell her with love that he wants her to come with her troubles to him, no matter what😊

I would love Ahem to take on that role but I am fearfull that it may not be as simple as we think.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Harini Karma only seems to come round and bite people who have goodness, principles, fear and faith. You don't see the others suffer in the same way. I am hopeful that Gopi's eventual saving grace will be that Kokila realises that Gopi did indeed try to tell her. Not just once but a few times. But I am wondering if our anger on Gopi is our frustration as to how naive she is.



I think it is exactly that Xari.. Gopi's naiveness almost borders stupidity at times and you wonder if someone will be such a fool.. But then you see around you and you know we are surrounded by such emotional idiots, myself included..😉

Why do women stay and protect their abusive husbands even when they have a way out? Why is it that a mother who is treated like a servant by her own children still stand up and defend them? Maybe we will do the same if put on the same spot..
When we love someone, we defend them, quite a bit too.. Some are sensible enough to know where to stop. .Some just are not. They build a dream and decide to live within that dream because reality is too hard for them to take.

I still think that Gopi needs a psychiatrist.. Not punishments or Saasuma treatments.. This is not tit for tat.. You don't consider me you Mother, then Ok, I will treat you as my DIL.. Why is a DIL any different from a daughter anyway.. there should be no difference.. That in itself is a wrong notion.

But I agree with you on Ahem. I don't think it will be as simple as him supporting her. This track is gonna be long and hard.. I am seeing tears and more tears when finally Gopi will 'prove' herself.. I wonder why she should 🤔

I think she has proved enough already.. Almost dying trying to save your husband, not once but twice should have made the writing very clear. .But then she has to now 'prove' herself as a daughter I suppose
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sometimes some people are too afraid of the unknown. Hence they will stay within the confines of a abusive relationship. Sometimes the human mind is wired up in such an odd way. 😕 But did you see both Javadena and Gopi's actions when Ahem was ringing the police. Even then they had that pleading look. 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Still have not watched it completely Xari.. I think I will feel sadder when that happens😭 Mota Bhabhi and Gopi🤢 Damn them both.. Why feel sorry for people like Urmi.. Especially Gopi.. Come on.. She knew her maami was doing everything to stop her.. 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I haven't seen the episode as yet but I do think that Ahem has come a long way from the Ahem of old.
Obviously he loves his mum and has a really strong bond with her so anything that hurts her hurts him too but he now has forged an equally strong bond with Gopi too. Like Swasthi says he has sided with Gopi before and that was without loving her.
He won't find it easy to forgive Gopi for keeping it a secret but he won't be callous towards her. He knows her well and may even understand to some extent.

As for Gopi giving everyone what for then I don't buy it. She's not the type - especially not to Koki and Ahem. She'll beg for forgiveness and eventually she'll be forgiven. And everything else will once again be swept under the carpet.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nazma, that is how it will be.. It will take some time for GoKi to forge the old bond again and I see Nikki and SB's hand in it 😊 Soon they will lead to circumstances that will make Koki melt and forgive Gopi for her lapse.

Ahem.. I do think he will not go back to his angry self but I do wish the CVs let Gopi and Ahem talk it out this time. I want Ahem to voice his feeling and not tell Gopi that he understands. I want Gopi also to tell him her fears.. Please let them talk😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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it seen like gopi is always the escape goat... but urmi did get caught...
And we all knew that somehow Gopi would be in trouble ... that has always been the theme of SNS
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gotta say this girls ... ahems sad and hurt reaction on his wife's wrong doing. .is very surprising. .I was expecting a mad as hell ahem instead we get tame lover boy..who truly cant be mean.he can be silent and withdrawn but not cruel. !! Awww an feeling v warm ...!!!

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