Dhawal... - Page 2

Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

Hi, I don't know why people are having a problem with Dhawal's behaviour with Kinjal. As far as I am concerned, Kinjal is a spoilt and ill mannered girl (I don't know but she is very poor reflection of Koki's upbringing). Kinjal is not so innocent and she is now getting back the same from Dhaval. I only hope one day both Jigar, Parag met out the same treatment for their spouses. Marriage can work only when both husband and wife have mutual respect but putting down your husband in front of everyone like Koki and Kinjal do or lying constantly to your husband like Rashi does is not marriage. But my only crib of this serial is the title Saath nibana saathiya but it appears more of saath nibhana kokila.

Sorry if I have offened anyone.

Neeraja, you are free to post you views. .Don't think we will be offended.. Most of us think the same except that I think SNS is, these days more about Saath Nibhana Rashi and Urmila and their KKs than anybody else.. 🥱


My goat is that if Dhawal is agree, he should be for the past, the way Kinjal was with him. He is being shown angry for Kinjal behaving like a wife finally which is what he wanted out of her..

If he has such problems with Kinjal's non trust issue then why was he taking the route of jealousy by acting to be all close to Falguni? Doesn't it defy logic? He went along with Falguni because he knew Kinjal would feel jealous and insecure but now he has a problem with the same thing?

The anger is not because Dhawal is treating Kinjal bad but it is because of why he is doing it and also because he is a hypocrite of first order. He does not say a word when his fui insults Kinjal the same way but admonishes Kinjal..

How is that correct? Anyway, I think Parag already dealt with Koki.. Jigar is forever blind about Rashi.. Jithu has runaway not able to bear his wife Urmila.

But when Kinjal changes, she is being shown the other side of the face.. Is it because she looked at her behavior, was sorry and she changed? She should have remained a shrew😊

Originally posted by: dipsy80

I thought of exactly the same thing Harini when Dhawal was giving his gyan to Kinjal 🤢. I agree Kinjal has been a spoilt ill mannered brat and she needs to pay for her past sins but do the CVs need to stoop Dhawal to her level to do that? I would have been ok if Dhawal was angry with her for the way she has humiliated him so far..but no all this angst is for Falguni! 😡🤢...it's all going wrong..the Kinjal of the past would have turned around and asked him why doesnt he practise what he preaches..unfortunately in CVs brains, being good is equivalent to becoming a doormat so Kinjal is going to take this humiliation silently as she has reformed now 🤢

👍🏼 Thanks Dipsy.. I agree..
Dhawal is doing it because he now knows that Kinjal is changed. And my irritation is with his reason.. He wanted Kinjal jealous and insecure about Falguni and now he blames Kinjal for that?😡

Originally posted by: NazmaJ

I have just started the March episodes so haven't got to this bit yet but I was already a little irritated at Dhaval for telling Falguni about his relationship problems and then using the other woman to arouse jealousy in his wife. Especially as I felt that even without Falguni Kinjal was beginning to realise the truth of her own feelings.

Nazma, Falguni accelerated a process that already began.. Dhawal and Falguni did go overboard with their little drama.. It is foolish of Dhawal to expect Kinjal to react like Gopi which is what he wants.. I wonder how he felt when Anita talked about Umang last year.. Kinjal was reacting like a wife and Dhawal who wanted her to react like one now has problems with it😡

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

👍🏼 Thanks Dipsy.. I agree..
Dhawal is doing it because he now knows that Kinjal is changed. And my irritation is with his reason.. He wanted Kinjal jealous and insecure about Falguni and now he blames Kinjal for that?😡

Originally posted by: Deepikz

Dhawal has been getting on my nerves.. the CVs should just end this and show them together my parents wants this and so do I.

From here to the CVs ears Deepz😊

Originally posted by: mariyem

Somdodt tell his guy hes fai is no saint well hes getting on my nerves as well

Exactly His Fui does the same thing and Dhawal has done nothing but watch.. Is it because Kinjal is 'just a wife' and Urmi is his blood relation?

Originally posted by: delsi

By punishing Kinjal he is spoiling his character it need to be end soon😭

Delsi, he can punish Kinjal all he wants but for the right reason.. Not for Falguni😡

Neeraja, you are free to post you views. .Don't think we will be offended.. Most of us think the same except that I think SNS is, these days more about Saath Nibhana Rashi and Urmila and their KKs than anybody else.. 🥱


My goat is that if Dhawal is agree, he should be for the past, the way Kinjal was with him. He is being shown angry for Kinjal behaving like a wife finally which is what he wanted out of her..

If he has such problems with Kinjal's non trust issue then why was he taking the route of jealousy by acting to be all close to Falguni? Doesn't it defy logic? He went along with Falguni because he knew Kinjal would feel jealous and insecure but now he has a problem with the same thing?

The anger is not because Dhawal is treating Kinjal bad but it is because of why he is doing it and also because he is a hypocrite of first order. He does not say a word when his fui insults Kinjal the same way but admonishes Kinjal..

How is that correct? Anyway, I think Parag already dealt with Koki.. Jigar is forever blind about Rashi.. Jithu has runaway not able to bear his wife Urmila.

But when Kinjal changes, she is being shown the other side of the face.. Is it because she looked at her behavior, was sorry and she changed? She should have remained a shrew😊

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Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

Hi Thanks for your reply. Regarding Dhawal,if I understood correctly he was too intimidated by Kinjal and Kinjal cared two hoots for him. When she worked as a model she never took his permission, when Kokila and her family stayed at Rajpal Nagar just to spite Urmila she behaved very badly. Being straight forward and being rude and proud is different.

For Dhawal , Falguni was a true friend who accepted for what he is hence he could not bear Kinjal's behaviour towards her. If not he would have pulled her up many times when she misbehaved with him, Urmi (whether we like it or not urmi is elder and also equal to her mother in law), or Kokila. But in trying to teach his wife a lesson, I also think the CV's lost their plot that's why we are not able to complelely sympathise with Dhawal.

Regarding Kokila, she never cared for Parag simply because he was not ambitious like Chirag. She showed disrespect to him and Parag only reacted when she falsely accused him of having affair with her sister. But wasn't Kokila wrong in her bahaviour but since it is Kokola, cv's have to some how justify her but in real life Parag type of husbands are called henpecked. I thought the story for Saath Nibana Saathiya would be how couples of different mentality come together, how the husband and wife relation works out. But the show is only Kalakaris being done by Urmi, or Rashi or Kinjal and the list goes on... The tile is very misleading.

Neeraja, Saathiya has always been about the younger generation in terms of the title. Hence I do not think it matters about Saathiya being related to Kokila and Parag. But like it is said, there are two sides to any coin. In case of Kokila the other side is not hard to understand.

I do not agree with Koki's constant criticism of Parag.. I also agree that she is loud and she at times is intolerant but as much as Parag would be considered hen pecked, he would also be considered as a good for nothing man who could not keep his family in the real world.

Think about this. He does not earn and was supposed to be the bread winner of a family of 4. What would have happened if Parag's elder brother had not supported this family? Kokila has a reason to be bitter. She was a glorified housekeeper in MM until her own son Ahem took charge of the business at one stage.

It does not justify Koki's behavior but it gives us the background for it and if I remember correctly, in that track, Koki apologized and she accepted that she was indeed very wrong with Parag. I did not see Parag accepting that he should also have been a little more responsibility but that was not shown. .Rather it was shown as all was Koki's fault. 😊

As for Falguni.. I have no issues about Dhawal actually being helped by Falguni.. Her being a friend etc., but don't you think that even as a friend, there needs to be a line drawn as to what you do?
Falguni was Dhawal's friend but she was not Kinjal's friend and that is why Kinjal reacted the way she did. Dhawal has learned not to be frightened in front of Kinjal but somewhere along the way he has also lost his senses.. Yes. CVs have lost the plot with Dhawal

If there is an example of a hen pecked husband,that is Jithu Bhai.. 20 years of blindness to your nieces torture cannot be trumped🤢

Hum Thanks for your very toughtful reply. Trying to rationalize a fictional show is difficult but if I recollect correctly, Parag was not interested in business and was more inclined towards art and poetry but for Kokilabeing sucessful in business was the inthing. Somewhere Kokila and Rashi are same, that is both are very ambitious, want everyone to listen to them, and they would love their kith and kin only if their are sucessful as per their thoughts, where their differ is Kokila at the sametime is honest because for which she commands respect whereas Rashi whines and lies her way through it and loses respect.

It was great discussing with you too Neeraja.. Do keep sharing your thoughful opinions and discussions.

Yes. I do agree that Kokila got lucky that Mota Bhabhi was not Urmila but then I do not think Kokila would have sat down and cried. She would have walked out with her children and would have supported herself. That is why I like her.😊

You were spot on with your analysis on Koki and Rashi's similarities and differences. To me, Koki loves her family, including Jigar but is strict because that is how she is. She is not lazy nor is she evil. Rashi is all that. I cannot sympathize with her cribbing because she actually has nothing to crib about.

As a side note, it has been shown that Koki loves Jigar equally with her own children. She loves Ahem the most but Jigar has been her laadla too. If I remember correctly Hetal once mentioned that Koki used to take care of Jigar even before her own children when they were young...
Although I respect Mota Bhabhi for being generous to her Devrani, I think it was a selfish need to have someone manage her house rather than out of real love. When one gets swayed and within a matter of a month can think that your so called 'sister' is bad because your DIL told you so, then why say you know her all the years and consider her a sister? Unfortunately it was the batwara track that made me start disliking Mota Bhabhi. Not because she listened to Rashi but because she never showed the love she said she had for Koki and from there it has been downhill😊

Pop in when you have time Neeraja.. It is fun discussing fiction. Real life is rather too complicated and too much personal to discuss and disect😉

u r right, now kinjal loves him that's why he become rude to kinjal???