Vulnerabilities and Manipulators! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Xarina

Sorry. That cup of tea went on forever 😳.

Gopi's behaviour is true to the Stockholm syndrome in every sense of the word. Such is Gopi's brainwashing by these two that she conveniently forgot the mistreatment, the beatings, the beating down of her spirit that she accepts whatever they did and did not even question them. This is the same girl who stood in front of her kanaji and berated him for breaking her dreams yet she cannot bring herself to tell these two witches. Gopi had better wake up to the reality of her past lest it becomes her daughter's future. Meera might not be another Gopi, I hope but can there be a danger of Gopi becoming a jave dena and overlooking what might happen to her own daughter.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Aww Xari😃 was the tea so good😆

I get what you mean Xari. There was a time I thought that Gopi would face UrShi and their mistakes squarely if Ahem was harmed in anyway. But that never happened because somehow UrShi have always been well clear of harming Ahem.

But with Meera.. With Meera, I hope Gopi finally sees injustice when it happens. I am afraid because while Gopi was certainly hurt when Urmi said that girls are not the same as sons, she could not say anything. But neither did Ahem. So there is this inkling of hope that unlike Java Dena who does not even find out and turns a completely blind eye to UrShi's faults, Gopi has atleast finally seen that Rashi does hurt others with her lies and is trying to change her. What I am trying say from all that above rambling is, Gopi hopefully will not become Java Dena.

She is finally seeing some of Rashi's mistakes and even though she feels guilty about putting Rashi through 'difficulties', she still stood by her need to make Rashi accept her mistake. As we are talking about Meera who Gopi loves, I am hoping that Gopi stands against the mischief if any planned by these two in the future😊

I am completely not making sense even to myself😆

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Thank you for holding my hand 😆 I think I am losing it.. 😆

What I do not get is how the Modi woman can be like this. It was the same when Gopi was pregnant except that Gopi never took advantage of the fact that she was asked to rest nor did she act like the world had to stop to do her every bidding. But the Modi's lost it even then a bit but with rashi, everyone is overdoing it. Even Dhawal.. And what is it with Mota Bhabhi anyway? "I want to do seva to my DIL"😕 Java Dena is becoming too much OTT 😡

I find it hard to accept the concept of show your other cheek in these times and especially in SNS against UrShi. These two will keep hitting you again and again and will not care. BTW, did you see their shouting match in the Precap😆

I think the maa-beti will make up quickly afterwards.. they are too much in need of each other to let the other go so easily😉

Originally posted by: Xarina

Being pregnant does not excuse anyone from carrying minor household tasks. Yes, they are creating another life and hat should be applauded. But but not go OTT. I thought Urmi is nuts but this is fast becoming a family of idiots. Even Baa!!

The shouting match didn't make me whoop I am afraid. Those two will be back to their scheming and petty ways. Would love a re enactment of the first ten minutes of Do Aur Do Panch. That would be something.😃

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I had this dream that one day Urmi and Rashi will get into a fighting match and each would spill the beans against the other while the Modi family looks on

Then I realized that it would make no change because all that would happen is Jigar and Gopi will cry, Mota Bhabhi will look sad, Koki will spew anger and Ahem will look disinterested😆 In due course we will hear Java Dena and we will be back to square one.

And yes. Being pregnant need not stop you from doing minor household work as long as you take some necessary precautions. And it absolutely does not give one a free card to insult others and order them about😡

Originally posted by: swasthi

Intriguing post Harini.

The plus point with Gopi today was her ability to walk away even though she chose to continue to suck up to the manipulators by listening and pleading to them. Their story is not consistent now as each want something out of Gopi. Urmila want to see the back of Rashi as she is tired of looking after her high demands and Rashi wants to have her own way.

However, with the manipulators there is a sense of fear in their approach - they are finding that the Modi's, in particular Kokila, is hard to win over.

Arising from the Rashi exiling herself, her mental state has weakened by inferring Kinjal to be Gopi. Will this get Kinjal to understand or at least consider of Rashi's behaviour with Gopi?

However what comes out clearly is that Urmila's world is there only for ensuring that her daughter gets a good life with her gaining too, not her taking care of her high maintenance daughter. A distant relationship seems more effective than one that is close up with Rashi and her mother.

Originally posted by: mona05

I love it that gopi did not give in...she was humiliated yes but she did not give in to urshi...
hate Urshi more and more...
hope Koki keeps Urmi out of MM forever..
Rashi will come back but without gopi agreeing to her conditions...