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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruchisahay

Well, the timing for the separation is just right - Ahem with his newfound love will squirm a lot and this is a great punishment for him.

But then, Kokila doesn't read Swasthi's 'Ahem and Love', right?😉 Isn't she a bit late in looking for justice and better treatment for her DIL? I mean off late Ahem has been way better than he was in his first year (I haven't seen those episodes but heard enough on this forum) and nobody (including Koki) said anything then. That makes me think that maybe Koki loves Gopi more because of her pregnancy.


Actually @ Bold is not true.. Every character grew and changed their perspective when compared to the start.
Koki, who started out as this Mom who wanted a DIL for herself who she could control and have no fear of ever overtaking her, grew into a mother for the orphan girl Gopi...
This is also not the first time Koki stood up for Gopi against Ahem. She has done it again and again from the time Naani ended her first visit. It took her a mother's advice to see what was missing in Gopi and Ahem's relationship..
Then it was Koki who pushed Ahem and Gopi together though Ahem hated it. It is again Koki who is separating them because she is really hurt at what Ahem said. His disrespect and lack of patience inspite of being in love is what she cannot stand.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Actually @ Bold is not true.. Every character grew and changed their perspective when compared to the start.
Koki, who started out as this Mom who wanted a DIL for herself who she could control and have no fear of ever overtaking her, grew into a mother for the orphan girl Gopi...
This is also not the first time Koki stood up for Gopi against Ahem. She has done it again and again from the time Naani ended her first visit. It took her a mother's advice to see what was missing in Gopi and Ahem's relationship..
Then it was Koki who pushed Ahem and Gopi together though Ahem hated it. It is again Koki who is separating them because she is really hurt at what Ahem said. His disrespect and lack of patience inspite of being in love is what she cannot stand.

Well, I will take your word about Koki's character's growth as I haven't seen older episodes. My question is only that is Koki sure of Ahem's love for Gopi??
If not, wouldn't her method backfire and be a death sentence for Gopi's life's most important relationship?
Let's assumes for a min that Ahem does not love Gopi - just that she is a nice companion and he likes her - then this separation wouldn't affect him that much and gradually the distance would grow between Gohem. Ahem being in love changes things drastically - only because he won't accept the separation and try to cornet Gopi. Do you honestly feel that Koki can predict all that??
Rashi played a kalakari on Gopi - resulting in her getting expelled form school. End result - Ahem took responsibility of Gopi's education. Anita tried to burn Gopi down. End result - ahem figured out that he really loves Gopi a lot. I know these are bad examples and Koki has Gopi and Ahem's best interest at heart. What I am saying is that just because the end result is good does not justify any action. Any action can only be judged based on the context and information available at the time of that action. Koki does not know how her decision will impact Gohem and that is precisely why she's wrong (strictly my opinion 😊)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruchisahay

Well, I will take your word about Koki's character's growth as I haven't seen older episodes. My question is only that is Koki sure of Ahem's love for Gopi??
If not, wouldn't her method backfire and be a death sentence for Gopi's life's most important relationship?
Let's assumes for a min that Ahem does not love Gopi - just that she is a nice companion and he likes her - then this separation wouldn't affect him that much and gradually the distance would grow between Gohem. Ahem being in love changes things drastically - only because he won't accept the separation and try to cornet Gopi. Do you honestly feel that Koki can predict all that??
Rashi played a kalakari on Gopi - resulting in her getting expelled form school. End result - Ahem took responsibility of Gopi's education. Anita tried to burn Gopi down. End result - ahem figured out that he really loves Gopi a lot. I know these are bad examples and Koki has Gopi and Ahem's best interest at heart. What I am saying is that just because the end result is good does not justify any action. Any action can only be judged based on the context and information available at the time of that action. Koki does not know how her decision will impact Gohem and that is precisely why she's wrong (strictly my opinion 😊)


You are right and it is exactly because of that I consider Kokila being right..

If Ahem still does not love Gopi, then Kokila's actions are more prudent.. Why should Gopi go on taking Ahem and his hurtful words when she has no hope of his love. Gopi went through fire to keep Ahem alive and if Ahem still considers her a companion and does not love her then it is time that they are separated.
That is why Koki told Baa that she also wishes for the best but she just cannot forgive Ahem that easily.
It is not about Ahem being in love alone. It is about a husband doing his duty to his wife who has been taking everything that has been thrown at her. This is just a mother who wants to correct what is wrong.. Just my PoV😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post on Kokila, Shilpa! 👏
She truly defines righteousness 😳. Each of the Modis have an opinion but only Kokila Modi has THE standard of righteousness that applies equally to all people....be it her her own blood.
She knows that her son loves his wife dearly but has no control on his anger. This track will teach him a valuable lesson on anger management, teach him restraint and make him realize to think for others before self.😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah..Kokila has a very strong personality..She was right in being strong; as this would be a wakening call to Ahem..She is alos making gopi strong by this. Gopi has to try to understand the falseness in Rashi s behavior. Only if she is strong and learns to depend on her thoughts would she be able to identify the falseness. So way to go..Kokila modi..!!!😊

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