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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Aish3003
Positive thinking yes,

But don't you think they could have done it in a much better way? Seriously that last scene?

Doesn't Gopi deserve even a little bit of sensitivity from others when she is just being rallied like a show-dog?

All that you said is fine... Probably the only justification that Kokila will give at the end... But the process of doing it is not right.

Just my point of view. They should not have made it so trivial and demeaning for Gopi.

Aish, afterall this is a drama.. It will have stuff that does not happen in real life. You need to take it with a pinch of salt..

BTW, the last scene was beautiful. If you think that Koki is pitting Gopi against the wolf and wants her to come at the top, then I do not agree..

Koki knows that there is nothing or no one who can be Gopi. This is not Gopi's Challenge at all. Even if she loses, it will not change the fact that she is Ahem's wife or a Modi Bahu.

That is why I am surprised that a lot of people think Ahem is the prize. The worst that would happen if Gopi loses, is Koki's judgement will be proven wrong. That is not Gopi's fault and that would be it.

Kokila completely knows that she is just testing and showing Anitha her place. She is not pushing Gopi to win.. In the course of action, Gopi will learn to stand up to Anitha directly without having to have Rashi tell her.. Advantage because she can put Anitha down the next time she sees her say even a small thing as 'Gopi is not worthy of Ahem'😊

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Vinder90

@Vinder90

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

at the end of it all. . undoubtedly all will be well. . .even thos who dont like how this is going, including me. . KNOW that this all will end well. .. its more like a very bitter Ladoo .. . that has no sugar. . but only red chilli powder. . and salt. . and is made of plain flour (thats no longer a ladoo)) lol . .and were jsut have to swallow it. . .

I find this annoying. . but am putting up with it. . . .. end result will be gud. . its obvious. . . i dont like how its being done. . not comfortable. . not satisfying in my pov. . and i am really not enjoying it lol . . simples. .

I was this over and done with FAST. . . 😊

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ll-Shilpa-ll

@SIP1997

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Wonderful post Harini and very well said.

I completely agree with all your points here, there is no doubt in my mind this will not only prove to Anita that just because she is educated does not mean she has the abilities and talent. or the heart that Gopi has.

Also at the end of this track, Gopi will come to her own realization about herself. Her confidence will grow at each achievement she accomplishes and the best part about this track is that Gopi is not competing at all, she is being herself, always putting others needs before her.

I feel that this is needed not only to show Anita why she is wrong, but also to show to Gopi that no matter what anyone says, she is and always will be the best life partner for Ahem and the best DIL for Modi family.

As for Koki, not asking Gopi, I think Gopi would actually say no and tell Koki may be Anita is right and might actually try to give up before trying so this is a better way.

Also as Koki said to Urmila, she wants Gopi to have a solid stand not only as Modi bahu but also as Ahem's wife. There is a specific reasong this was said to Urmila, after this Gopi will be lot smarter and stronger to deal with any future Urshi kalakaris.

Finally at the end of the day even if Gopi fails at any of the challenges, and I have full confidence she will bag them all, Ahem is not the price, he will not be handed over to Anita on a silver platter.

What might happen as you said Harini, is Anita may try to create an illusion that Ahem loves her and Gopi herself may try to remove herself for Ahem's happiness, but even then she will not make it out of MM, because the truth is Ahem loves her and wants to be with her only. Anita is his past and he has moved on.

After this Gopi will not be asked to prove anythign and neither is she being asked to prove anything.

The burden of proof in this case lies with Anita, not Gopi.

It is Anita who has to prove that she is better than Gopi for Ahem and for Modi family.

I am also going to enjoy the downfall of one Anita the skank. There will be tears and smiles but at the end of it we are all going to jump in joy.

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doc4ever

@doc4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Firstly, thank you for this post..can finally feel like smiling again..😛

There is no question to whom Ahem belongs too..the answer we all know..it's Gopi..Even Ahem had clearly said it to Anita that he feels lucky to have a wife like Gopi..

This whole situation is to permanently end any doubts that Anita has her mind feeling that Ahem still loves her..

For Gopi, as you said, this her chance to grow in confidence and stand up to Anita with her faith that says yes, she is right for Ahem in every way..no doubts about it..The last scene was beautiful..it showed in Kokila's eyes the amount of faith and trust she carries in Gopi..that very faith and trust in which she brought Gopi into MB is only going to be increased even more..

Will say this again..Anita has already lost Ahem..she really does have such a strange habit of getting herself rejected again and again..😕 As u beautifully said, this is an illusion which Kokila has created for her..And the very same illusion is going to bring her down again..

Agree with you and Shilpa, this competition is not for Gopi..it's about getting rid of the excess baggage lurking in MB right now..and that too for good..👍🏼

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Aish3003

@Aish3003

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Aish, afterall this is a drama.. It will have stuff that does not happen in real life. You need to take it with a pinch of salt..
BTW, the last scene was beautiful. If you think that Koki is pitting Gopi against the wolf and wants her to come at the top, then I do not agree..

Koki knows that there is nothing or no one who can be Gopi. This is not Gopi's Challenge at all. Even if she loses, it will not change the fact that she is Ahem's wife or a Modi Bahu.
That is why I am surprised that a lot of people think Ahem is the prize. The worst that would happen if Gopi loses, is Koki's judgement will be proven wrong. That is not Gopi's fault and that would be it.

Kokila completely knows that she is just testing and showing Anitha her place. She is not pushing Gopi to win.. In the course of action, Gopi will learn to stand up to Anitha directly without having to have Rashi tell her.. Advantage because she can put Anitha down the next time she sees her say even a small thing as 'Gopi is not worthy of Ahem'😊

What Anita says is that important is it? See Harini... I am not against building Gopi's confidence and all that...

But as you said, if she loses nothing changes in the marriage... Ahem won't leave her. Right. But will nothing change for Gopi... won't the feeling that Ahem compromised with her increase... How does it build her confidence...

Another thing that I don't get... It is not Gopi's competition... you are right there again... Does Gopi know that? Does she realise what people are doing around her? How her marriage is being manipulated by so many people... Rashi ain't letting her talk to Ahem. Kokila is making her compete with Anita. Anita is building more misunderstandings...

Koshi say they wan;t Gopi to come forward and claim Ahem... But is this a right way.

The last scene where Kokila told Gopi about Anita's intentions was insensitive. And Gopi's reaction was also too bland.

I am just hoping things improve on Monday...

All I am saying is that everyone who is meddling with the marriage owes a proper explanation to Gopi... They need to tell her. That's all...

But it is nice that you have such positive thoughts... Atleast some one is happy. Maybe I just expect a lot. This show has been very true to reality that it is disturbing to see it become some thing like this... But maybe Monday will be better.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Aish3003

What Anita says is that important is it? See Harini... I am not against building Gopi's confidence and all that...

But as you said, if she loses nothing changes in the marriage... Ahem won't leave her. Right. But will nothing change for Gopi... won't the feeling that Ahem compromised with her increase... How does it build her confidence...

Another thing that I don't get... It is not Gopi's competition... you are right there again... Does Gopi know that? Does she realise what people are doing around her? How her marriage is being manipulated by so many people... Rashi ain't letting her talk to Ahem. Kokila is making her compete with Anita. Anita is building more misunderstandings...

Koshi say they wan;t Gopi to come forward and claim Ahem... But is this a right way.

The last scene where Kokila told Gopi about Anita's intentions was insensitive. And Gopi's reaction was also too bland.

I am just hoping things improve on Monday...

All I am saying is that everyone who is meddling with the marriage owes a proper explanation to Gopi... They need to tell her. That's all...

But it is nice that you have such positive thoughts... Atleast some one is happy. Maybe I just expect a lot. This show has been very true to reality that it is disturbing to see it become some thing like this... But maybe Monday will be better.

Well thanks Aish.. I am usually happy as long as I do not see Rashi smirking at Gopi's pain😊

As for whether Anitha's opinion matters in this, to a certain extent yes.. It matters because it was Anitha who misled Gopi that Ahem was still in love with her (Anitha), so it will have to be Anitha who shows Gopi again that Ahem is not in love with her but is in love only with Gopi..

As for the external factors, there have been too many.. I totally agree. But I guess this is where Gopi will stand up and demand an explanation. It is her right to have an explanation and she will be given one for sure.

Every person has a way of doing things. To Gopi, her nature is to accept what others tell her. She will now stand up and think before she does any thing like that again.

So yeah.. your points are the very reason I am happy.. This track is leading there. The difference is I am looking beyond Monday.. You are looking at today😉

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mona05

@mona05

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

i actually loved it that koki told gopi everything in front of Anita...no more hiding...and goi deos not look frightened ..infact not sad also...but determined...

i am loving this track...yesterday's episode was awesome..and koki and urmi were superb..

anita is a psycho,,,she remind me of Glenn Close in Fatal attraction...ira is playing the role very well...you can see he5r madness in her eyes...

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Aish3003

@Aish3003

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Maybe you are right... I expect too much... But I am going to be like Gopi should be... Unless they prove they are getting better I am not going to praise them... Enough...

I am tired of making it sound better than it is... And having patience. They have to stop this drag and get stuff done.

Cheers

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Aish3003
Maybe you are right... I expect too much... But I am going to be like Gopi should be... Unless they prove they are getting better I am not going to praise them... Enough...

I am tired of making it sound better than it is... And having patience. They have to stop this drag and get stuff done.

Cheers

Great... lets just shake hands on that.. 😃

It is better from my end but then opinions vary.. So this is hoping that you get what you expect soon.. 😛

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aris22l

@aris22l

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Aish3003
Maybe you are right... I expect too much... But I am going to be like Gopi should be... Unless they prove they are getting better I am not going to praise them... Enough...

I am tired of making it sound better than it is... And having patience. They have to stop this drag and get stuff done.

Cheers

Aish, I agree with all your points. So we should accept it thinking there will be rainbows in future? We will accept it when they do show those rainbows and we have seen CV's not showing us those even when we waited and waited. Holi day comes to mind. It was really disturbing yesterday to see Kokila just saying that Anita thinks Ahemji loves her without any explanation in front of Gopi and no reaction from Gopi. I feel the editors messed up. They cut a scene that happened between Gopi and Kokila alone. It was just plain weird.

So far, we always praised SNS for being true to life with the Gohem story and its slow moving pace. So now, we should admit that it is like any other regular drama with holes and mundane stories to create hype and high expectations that don't always fall through. If that is the case, the current track gets high points for creating an average drama we have seen in other shows where two women want to prove that the man loves them. Nothing unique about that. The only thing different may be the MIl is involved. Admit I haven't watched that many serials but I have seen similar tracks. I guess we should start expecting average cliched tracks from SNS.

We already know Gopi doesn't have to prove anything and at the end of the track, good things might come to her life. I don't think this process they have shown to get there is right. The creatives could have come up with something else. This is kind of foolish to prove to Anita that she is wrong and not involve Ahemji in this process. Gopi and Kokila always have trusted Ahemji in everything. So now if he tells Gopi that he doesn't want Anita, why wouldn't she believe him? Why Gopi needs Anita to tell her or prove to her that she is the one for Ahemji and not Anita? This is just a cop out to say that it is all being done for Gopi and to say Gopi doesn't have to do anything. She may not have to do anything physically, but the strain on her mind and heart is there.

Harini, as always applaud your optimism. Glad you are enjoying the track. This drama does give Rupalji a lot of chance to show that roaring old Kokila once again. I loved her acting yesterday.

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