Kokila is tooo partial

Kokila is known to do justice and stuff, but she is the most partial women I have seen. Her son is "Ahem dikra" where as Jigar is just Jigar. Her daughter in law is "Gopi bahu", but Rashi is just Rashi. I have never seen her show any concern or love to Jigar or Rashi. On the other side Hetal is all kind to Ahem and Gopi. Now, many would argue that her nature is mild, but its not how she act, but how she feels about people.

u know it is soo ironic my mother in law and sister in law were saying the exact same thing about koki and i wasnt agreeing but now as the time is passing by i am also finding kokis attitude a bit partail and annoying sometimesand the thing she is constantly doing now a days is my ahem dikra my ahem dikra its not good and .i really like koki but her current attitude not soo much.i really still dont understand why koki blasted rashi when she said all men r same their was no need for that she could have said that softly but on other hand ahem is s sidha sadha bacha and their is nothing wronge with her mother trusting him and not questioning him abt anitas incident😊

Originally posted by: scorpian87

u know it is soo ironic my mother in law and sister in law were saying the exact same thing about koki and i wasnt agreeing but now as the time is passing by i am also finding kokis attitude a bit partail and annoying sometimesand the thing she is constantly doing now a days is my ahem dikra my ahem dikra its not good and .i really like koki but her current attitude not soo much.i really still dont understand why koki blasted rashi when she said all men r same their was no need for that she could have said that softly but on other hand ahem is s sidha sadha bacha and their is nothing wronge with her mother trusting him and not questioning him abt anitas incident😊

Originally posted by: methebest

I too felt the same way. Koki is getting on my nerve. I know what you are saying about Ahem,but I think a question is required from Koki, no matter how true anybody is she doubts, but when its her son everything is ok. Despite of being a big Ahem fan I feel this way :-).

just because koki is siding ahem constantly nowadays doesnt means she is always did that ..there were times when she blasted her ahem dikra also wether her reason were right or wrong :)

With Rashi, I know why she doesn't call her bahu (because of Rashi breaking Sonal and Jigar's wedding), but I have no answer to why she calls Jigar only Jigar. She did make Jigar a sweater--I don't know if that equalizes things.

Yes, she didn't question Ahem once about his "fall" with Anita. I, too, feel like she should've asked him what happened. Asking is not the same as blaming. Clarification was required for all of the Modis (and especially, Gopi) because they don't know what happened. Only we, the audience, and Ahem and Anita know.

Ahem's not speaking yet and it is irritating the bajesus out of me. It is purposeful on the CVs part because they want to drag this until either we start graying or Gopi starts graying. I just hope that when his tolerance bursts, he swats the maneater's head with his verbal sword.

As for the respect part (and I have said this before), I don't think the Modis have a lot of "respect" left. If we look at the past, then there's been just episodes of humiliation that Rajkot's public has witnessed. Maybe what she meant was a sense of personal respect that one feels for oneself, but then, why will that be questioned because the person who is concerned will make the judgement on his/her own respect? Then, she must be talking about the social respect, which there isn't a lot of.

In Gopi's case, I think the reason Gopi doesn't see Anita's conniving Lankani roop is because it is not evident to her. The only reason she could tell Rashi was planning some KK was because she had some proof. Here though, Anita sugarcoats everything. She wants to be near Ahem, but she doesn't say that explicitly. She says that she's not sleepy. She cries because she wants Ahem's sympathy, but she tells him that she has bad luck. Anita's just too twisted!

I apologize if my answer was too long-winded. 🥱

Good points, Kokila never ever asks Ahem what has happened, so Mr Ahem Modi is perfect. No clarification needed, but it Gopi has done something like that, then it would have been another matter. Ahem is treated like a God whereas Jigar like you said just Jigar without any feeling or love

point taken

Well said! Kagdi is becoming too much these days! Always "mera Ahem dikra & meri Gopi bahu" and Jigar bakra & Rashi is out of her good list. I'm not 4getting how kagdi helped Gopi. But y she is not helping Rashi? Always Kagdi corrects Gopi,but fond of pulling mistakes out of nowhere even if Rashi does something sensible! I started hating Kagdi when she accused Ahem 4 being stupid & irresponsible like his dad (whom she never respects,she just needs a husband 2 show all, I felt many times) when Jigar did something indipendently. Y only Ahem everytime? How selfish it is? And now Rashi is turning good,trying 2 adjust with Kagdi, help Gopi, she dint stop her "tumhari himmat kaise huyi etc.. blah blah". I feel if Rashi goes wrong&does kalakaaris is only becz of Kagdi who never pays any attention on whatever good Rashi does and humiliates her in front of all finding something stupid&silly out of nowhere! How much u can suffer being bashed in public 4 stupid reasons? [PERSONAL VIEWS! NOT OFFENSIVE]. All I can do is just hope one day Kokila will realise herself being partial and consider every1 equally as Hetal does!!!!

i always argued in ths forum tht rashi's bad behaviour was egged on by kagdi's rudeness. agree rashi is evil. but kagdi was mean 2 rashi evn whn she had no proof aganist rashi. she always humiliatd n put rashi down for silly reasons. and she's not perfect either. she forcibly married both of her children bcoz of which both of their marriages, at one point of time, were on th brink of breaking up( ofcorse gohem's marraige saved due to gopi).

Originally posted by: June_Anne_Mary

Well said! Kagdi is becoming too much these days! Always "mera Ahem dikra & meri Gopi bahu" and Jigar bakra & Rashi is out of her good list. I'm not 4getting how kagdi helped Gopi. But y she is not helping Rashi? Always Kagdi corrects Gopi,but fond of pulling mistakes out of nowhere even if Rashi does something sensible! I started hating Kagdi when she accused Ahem 4 being stupid & irresponsible like his dad (whom she never respects,she just needs a husband 2 show all, I felt many times) when Jigar did something indipendently. Y only Ahem everytime? How selfish it is? And now Rashi is turning good,trying 2 adjust with Kagdi, help Gopi, she dint stop her "tumhari himmat kaise huyi etc.. blah blah". I feel if Rashi goes wrong&does kalakaaris is only becz of Kagdi who never pays any attention on whatever good Rashi does and humiliates her in front of all finding something stupid&silly out of nowhere! How much u can suffer being bashed in public 4 stupid reasons? [PERSONAL VIEWS! NOT OFFENSIVE]. All I can do is just hope one day Kokila will realise herself being partial and consider every1 equally as Hetal does!!!!