kokila decision to bring anita

to mm n now to keep her until she gets married wrong or right...

will it not backfire on her, if gopi leaves nthen the dvd played she will blame rashi not realising that it was because of kokila n ahams recent action that gopi left instead both mother n son will not know which i dont want i want kokila n aham to know it is due to them

Originally posted by: suk19

to mm n now to keep her until she gets married wrong or right...

will it not backfire on her, if gopi leaves nthen the dvd played she will blame rashi not realising that it was because of kokila n ahams recent action that gopi left instead both mother n son will not know which i dont want i want kokila n aham to know it is due to them

Suks. I am begining to wonder if ever mother and son will see the error of their ways. I mean or rather I feel that they way the disregarded Gopi's emotions and feelings in all this, whether intentional or unintentional it was contemptous. I said before and will say it again. By standing by an outsider they forgot one of their own. Kokila knows full well that Gopi's well being and emotional state is at stake but she is willing to risk it for the sake of making her stronger. There are other opportunities to prove this point but this was just callous.

Originally posted by: Xarina

Suks. I am begining to wonder if ever mother and son will see the error of their ways. I mean or rather I feel that they way the disregarded Gopi's emotions and feelings in all this, whether intentional or unintentional it was contemptous. I said before and will say it again. By standing by an outsider they forgot one of their own. Kokila knows full well that Gopi's well being and emotional state is at stake but she is willing to risk it for the sake of making her stronger. There are other opportunities to prove this point but this was just callous.

Xarina, I absolutely agree with you. Kokila showed a big error in judgment when she brought Anita to MM and she showed it again by being emotionally blackmailed by Anita. She is seeing how Anita is clinging to Ahemji. When Rashi told Kokila that Anita was upset after Gohem left for the party, she should have understood that Anita wanted Ahemji and it wasn't just a matter of Anita being too forward with her ex. She should see all the signs and still, she continues to do this to Gopi in the name of making her strong. It is wrong.

Originally posted by: aris22l

Xarina, I absolutely agree with you. Kokila showed a big error in judgment when she brought Anita to MM and she showed it again by being emotionally blackmailed by Anita. She is seeing how Anita is clinging to Ahemji. When Rashi told Kokila that Anita was upset after Gohem left for the party, she should have understood that Anita wanted Ahemji and it wasn't just a matter of Anita being too forward with her ex. She should see all the signs and still, she continues to do this to Gopi in the name of making her strong. It is wrong.

We excused Ahemji in the beginning thinking that he didn't know that Gopi knew about his past relation with Anita. Well, we were wrong. He knew all along. Still he continues to support Anita more than his own wife makes me want to throw up.

What is going to happen is Kokila will probably manage to find a boy for Anita, Rashi may get the partial blame for this fiasco, Gopi will just say her maaji and Ahemji did what was right, and things will go back to as before except for Rashi being out of MM and Gopi trying to get her back.

aris, so ahem knows gopi knows about his past with anitha...how...did i miss something...

Originally posted by: varshu27

aris, so ahem knows gopi knows about his past with anitha...how...did i miss something...

They haven't given clear indication, but I am just guessing. Anita talked about their college days in front of Gopi and he did tell Gopi that he loved Anita, so he has to know she knows. There can only be one Anita who knows all his friends, his tastes in food and clothes, and is talking to him in such a familiar way. I think the CV's forgot about the confusion in this fact and they are never going to clarify this for us.

Originally posted by: varshu27

aris, so ahem knows gopi knows about his past with anitha...how...did i miss something...

Varshu. Ahem told Gopi in the very beginning that he loved Anita. He never hid the truth from her and was very vocal about it. So she was aware. Pity he can't say to Anita that it is Gopi he loves. Twat!!!

Originally posted by: aris22l

They haven't given clear indication, but I am just guessing. Anita talked about their college days in front of Gopi and he did tell Gopi that he loved Anita, so he has to know she knows. There can only be one Anita who knows all his friends, his tastes in food and clothes, and is talking to him in such a familiar way. I think the CV's forgot about the confusion in this fact and they are never going to clarify this for us.

what u are saying makes sense...if infact he does know ...then his behaviour now is all the more unforgivable...and why isnt koki talking to ahem abt this whole mess...ok...she wants gopi to get strong and assertive...but is ahem going to be like this for ever ...when is he going to be strong 😕...as of now he comes across as very weak...

Originally posted by: Xarina

Varshu. Ahem told Gopi in the very beginning that he loved Anita. He never hid the truth from her and was very vocal about it. So she was aware. Pity he can't say to Anita that it is Gopi he loves. Twat!!!

xarina, i knew he told gopi at the beginning...when he told gopi she wasnt even worthy of his hatred...i just gave him the benifit of the doubt now...that he thought gopi had not made the connection between that anitha and the one living in MM now...

Varshu, if Ahemji thinks that Gopi doesn't know this is the same Anita who he used to love, then he is even a bigger idiot than I thought him to be. How does he justify a girl he met for the first time in a wedding visiting his bed room at all hours and seeking his company all the time? How does he justify her knowing about his tastes in food and clothes, knowing his friends, and kissing him and crying all over him when other family members are present?

Originally posted by: aris22l

Varshu, if Ahemji thinks that Gopi doesn't know this is the same Anita who he used to love, then he is even a bigger idiot than I thought him to be. How does he justify a girl he met for the first time in a wedding visiting his bed room at all hours and seeking his company all the time? How does he justify her knowing about his tastes in food and clothes, knowing his friends, and kissing him and crying all over him when other family members are present?

ahem seems to have a lot of difficulty connecting the dots most of the time...so i gave him the benefit of the doubt...but why is he not worried about explaining things to gopi...she is no mind reader...is she just supposed to shut up and put up with whatever the heck he does...how did his character end up being this way😡...