Arranged Marriages?

After watching SNS who thinks that arranged marriages could work, if people were like ahem and gopi????

i guess in the olden days most of the girls were like gopi, so regardless of what their husband would act like, they would continue to serve him and eventually the husband would start to like his wife (because of the way she cared for him) and then eventually love her.

this love seems so much nicer and long lasting then that which is evident between 'Ahem and Anitha" or even "Nilesh and Anitha"...especially in the latter..there is no question of trust and it seems mainly based on infactuation.

But then i guess in modern day, arranged weddings won't really work cos the girl would be like ahem as well, so there will be arguments from the first day and then divorce on the secound. Lol. I don't know about you guys but i think it is really sweet how the girl doesn't even contact the boy before marriage but after through serving each other, they gain great affection for each other!

I think one of the best things about vedic culture is that married couples can't get divorced so they have to end up solving their problems regardless of how serious it is!!! Its another reason why we can rest assure that ahem could never divorce gopi for anitha!!! Lol

Hey guys, do you think that they will end SNS as soon as Gopi and ahem get together, and we already know that Urmila and Kinjal have been found, so after finding Rashi could this be the end of the whole thing. Also this seial has been going for 2 years and most end after this time period!!!! What do you think!!!

Jai Shree Radha Krsna!!!!! Sri Sri Radha Krsna Ki Jay!!!!!!!!

i truly believe in arranged marriages and infact almost all my cousins have got married like this , and they all are happily living ,so i guess it works n maybe is really the best. the way one person tries to adjust to the other n vice-versa. love after marriage is actually what i believe in.

Originally posted by: rsk16

i truly believe in arranged marriages and infact almost all my cousins have got married like this , and they all are happily living ,so i guess it works n maybe is really the best. the way one person tries to adjust to the other n vice-versa. love after marriage is actually what i believe in.

Yep Yep!!! I think so too...was just thinking what others thought =D Its sooo cute hah...but the one thing different in the olden days was that girls got married younger like mostly after 16 and they were married...this was done so that as soon as they developed the desire to get married they were married..i guess this helped the couple to be chaste to each other...!!!!Also they used astrology to make sure the pair would bond together so as to prevent personality clashes..

Anyway i think it is sweet 😳

Oh and the name is Tilakshini 😃

arranged marriages do work couples have to work hard at there relationship and also need time to get to know each other as long as both agrees to arrange marriage. it gives couples to adjust develop friendship which in time turns into a loving relationship just like gopi and ahem minus the kalakaries.

I guess arrange marriage are ok ... I married th elove of my life ... met him in highschool ... we talked about childred ...we talked about everything before we got married . So my wedding day was great.. and it is still great ... so my hubby was not a stranger ... but my friend from school day.

some time its good but not always i have seen my cosines they wedding was arrange it id not work they try for two years but anything they were not so close to each ever even she get pregnant after her delivery they leave seperatly now i have two cosine who did love married they also got they have kids after seven years now they are leaving separetly so for me the both side are the same if we married some one we have love latter we can regret it , when we get arrange married it will be the same it depend on the couples how they manage there married life it must have communication in a couple that is the main point share lots of thing my wedding will be eighteen years now .

If you don't fall in love with anyone then the marriage has to be an arranged one !!😆 okii i better shut up now ...maybe in some cases they work and in some they don't. It depends...by the way i vote for love marriages !! my mom-dad had a love marriage !!😃

i've always beleived in arranged marriages except majority of the time in our family its arranged/love marriage. my mum and dad had an arranged marriage, except they got to see each other and got to know each other before they got married. 😊

No one I know ever had an arranged marriage so it's a new concept for me. However, since I got hooked on Indian serials I have sometimes wondered what it would be like to have an arranged marriage...