The Modi boys - unlucky in love?

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Christine

@westindian

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Posted: 13 years ago

So, what do you think about the Modi boys, are they unlucky when it comes to love? 💔

Ahem was in love with Anita but due to his mother's decision he had to leave her and marry Gopi.

Jigar was in love with Sonal (I think that was her name), but due to Rashi's

interference, Sonal left him believing that he was cheating on her with Rashi.

Jigar did not know about Rashi's trick to break his engagement to Sonal so he accepted her as his wife and he has always been very loving and kind to her. Even after he suspected her of breaking his engagement he still forgave her and continues to stand by her side. However, after almost 2 years of marriage he has still not consummated his relationship with her and they have more of a friend relationship that a husband & wife relationship. The poor guy is ready to take it beyond the hand-holding stage but Rashi is still not ready.😒

As we all know Ahem hated Gopi due to his anger over losing Anita. But slowly, very slowly, he started to fall in love with Gopi. He finally had his SR/SD, at least we think so.🤔 He feels a "change" in himself and has some scratches on his back, but he has not fully remembered this event. 😲

For Ahem just when he has started to get closer to Gopi, his ex reappears in his life. He is consumed by guilt over causing her heartbreak the first time and now he has caused her marriage to break.

So, can we all agree that both Jigar & Ahem are unlucky in love? Seems like everytime they are about to grasp happiness it gets snatched away from them.😕

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shruthi2010

@shruthi2010

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Posted: 13 years ago

i dont think they are unlucky but stupid.
first jigar. it is two years now. on his SR he promised her that they can be friends and start their relationship,. now it is almost 2yrs. he is still stuck to that bargain. and the fellow sleeps with her on the bed. personally unless i m dead tired. i roll on the bed. these two what get pasted on their sides or what. i still doubt that jiggy is gay.
okay jigar just needs to get rashi alone and tell her what he is feeling. tell he stop all this nonsense we must take our relationship to next level. if rashi rejects he has the full right to talk with his mom. this is what happens in reality. i think he is afraid that rashi might reject him and he will end up with tears. he can threatened her with divorce. rashi will come to his way.

next aham dirka is a jerk, idiot, selfish moron.
he knew his mom inside out. so why the hell he got a girlfriend.
okay he married gopi. fell in love with her. what is stoping him. he knows to shout at her but cant say those damn three words i love u to her.
he is were he is today bcos of his cowardice. he has lots of chance to tell koki the truth. what ever he is thinking by acting as nelish. how long can he take this facade .

sorry for my rant.
these the mere mention of aham dikra gets on my nerves

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Tahira

@tamzin43

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthi2010
i dont think they are unlucky but stupid.
first jigar. it is two years now. on his SR he promised her that they can be friends and start their relationship,. now it is almost 2yrs. he is still stuck to that bargain. and the fellow sleeps with her on the bed. personally unless i m dead tired. i roll on the bed. these two what get pasted on their sides or what. i still doubt that jiggy is gay.
okay jigar just needs to get rashi alone and tell her what he is feeling. tell he stop all this nonsense we must take our relationship to next level. if rashi rejects he has the full right to talk with his mom. this is what happens in reality. i think he is afraid that rashi might reject him and he will end up with tears. he can threatened her with divorce. rashi will come to his way.

next aham dirka is a jerk, idiot, selfish moron.
he knew his mom inside out. so why the hell he got a girlfriend.
okay he married gopi. fell in love with her. what is stoping him. he knows to shout at her but cant say those damn three words i love u to her.
he is were he is today bcos of his cowardice. he has lots of chance to tell koki the truth. what ever he is thinking by acting as nelish. how long can he take this facade .

sorry for my rant.
these the mere mention of aham dikra gets on my nerves

@bold
have you seen the photos of him he posts total gay look😆😆

Edited by tamzin43 - 13 years ago

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Vinder90

@Vinder90

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Posted: 13 years ago

well they are unlucky in love:: True (yeah unlucky in the sense that for AHem who does not know yet/ abused the love he got, And Jigar whose love is always distracted)

Ahem::::===== DAMn Horrid. . . total tranced man, he seems to be improvin though, SLOWLY, snails pace. . .

Jigar:::=====Blame Rashi::: He got a crap wife first place, whenever things look up for them eventually, Rashis KK deeds come before her and Raji relation = back to square 1.. .. so Raji SR, long shot. . Rashi deds make that hopeless. . .

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Hetal

@Hetp

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Posted: 13 years ago

good topic...by you...

Well I must say first that in life if you get something easily you dont understand its true worth...but on other hand if you get after facing so much of pain then you undrstand the importance...

Sometimes in life some things go away from us...we surely feel back that time ...but when in future when we look back to those memories we sometimes think that good those thing we didnt get at that time

About JIgar...

agree Sonal was to good but then as as wife rashi is also good...why I m saying this is no one in life is bad but surroundings makes you bad...so jigar instead of being too good sometimes with rashi can be a true husband n stop her to commit mistake...it sometime happen that you need to change the person if he is going in wrong manner...jigar atleast then should make attempt to put down his love...she no doubt loves him...but then the kalakari n greedy thing fill in rashi is making her act like this...

about Ahem now...

no doubt he was in love with anita...but now he has a gem in his life...after marriage atleast once he would have look in point of view of gopi then he would have understoond what kind of person she is...gopi loved ahem without expecting anything from him...but he realise that a year late...never matter...now atleast he is physically showing his love o her ...but then he need to put in words because gopi ears are crying out to listen those from him...as in past bearing pain n now him forgetting Sd...those worrds will make gopi to realise...i guess he is trying to check out gopi reactions from his actions...but then to take relationship to next level its mutually need to be decided n that where they need to talk with each other freely ...which they r not doing...

end of all analysis...modi boys are not unlucky when it comes to love...but I would say they are the luckiest one

Edited by Hetp - 13 years ago

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FlowerHater

@FlowerHater

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Posted: 13 years ago

Only 1 word comes 2 my mind for Modi BOYS "DHAKKANS"

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shruthi2010

@shruthi2010

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Posted: 13 years ago

tamzin here is the pic you were talking about

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Christine.. Very good post👏

Let me start with Ahem.. Well he was unlucky.. no doubt the first time.. It is always difficult to give up your love and Ahem had a strong reason in his mom.. But he was unlucky then. I would say he would have felt the lowest especially when he came to know of his wife's illiteracy.

His first love was totally different. So I am thinking his dreams were also pretty different.

But Ahem was lucky.. It is said that if something happens as you wished and prayed for, then it is nice but when it does not happen the way you wanted, it is because He has his own ways to give you happiness.. A happiness you would not even have imagined..

To me Ahem is very lucky. He now has the love of his life in his wife and he also gets a chance to make it up to the one girl he once loved and then had to hurt. Anitha's entry will help him atone for the heart break he gave her.. It is very rare to get a chance to make up for your mistake. Ahem is lucky that way in love.

His wife adores and loves him, trusts him and he loves her completely. He now can be free of any past guilt after Anitha goes back. I guess the end or lets say the beginning of Ahem's actual love is worth the heartbreak before that.. To get the love of his life (Gopi) Ahem will have to spend in the form of pain and guilt and that is the price he is paying now.. The love that awaits him is well worth this pain😛

Jigar.. Now Jigar.. I really cannot say anything.. I am not even sure if Jigar loved Sonal. He liked her, no doubt and he felt sad when he saw her at Navrathri but he seemed to be more sad at her accusations and misconceptions than for losing her..

Jigar takes life easily Christine. Things do not seem to affect him as much.. and if they do then it is for a very short period of time.. I am not sure if he will ever get the love of his life but I am sure he will not miss anything. That is being lucky.. No disappointments about love.. He can forgive and forget and not care..

At the end of the day Ahem is lucky and Jigar.. He is also lucky but in a different way.. not because of his wife but because of himself.. Maybe that is why Ahem got to marry Gopi while Jigar married Rashi😊