Root cause of the problems (My POV) - Page 2

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Oi you lot! I am not saying rashi is innocent! I am saying aham and koki are making the wrong decisions for the wrong reasons! Two wrongs will never ever make a right! They need to stop and think sensibly about this matter. Not blunder about like elephants high on bhang!

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Harini in her haste to fix a girl's broken marriage did she ever think to ask the girl what she wants? What if anita wants to marry nilesh? Is it right for her to alienate his father?

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Shilpa. Cool op! And yes i agree rashi is the root cause of a lot of problems. But i don't think we can hold her accountable for everything. Koki and aham do need to shoulder some responsibility too. And i am not one to shy away from that. For instance koki's decision today to get anita married. Guess What. That sucked. Bigtime! And her motives for doing it suck even more. She is not making the situation better but she is compounding it. When life throws you lemons you make lemonade!

Originally posted by: Arnisha

i agree shilpaben to everything you have said here at the end of thiis gohem will be togther no matter wht and they will be strnger day by day lovely post...

Originally posted by: doc4ever

Shilpa, loved ur Rant! 👏 👏Perfectly said! ⭐️ @Bold: Totally agree with u, Ahem and Kokila are doing something, they are not hiding anything, u used the apt words...they are taking responsibility for their actions which Rashi is not! Atleast, they are trying to salvage the situation! Rashi, agreed, may not let go things go smoothly, at the end of the day, her days at MB are starting to get numbered...the only way one can see Rashi changing...is if she actually spoke up and owned up to her mistakes...and stopped taking advise from her mother...and starting using her own brain...and teaching her mother some good! But that will never happen! 🤢

@Harini, Rupal: Ur comments were fabulous too! ⭐️⭐️

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Thank you so much Shilpa🤗

I wanted to make a long post on the same and felt that it will never work.. Ahem and Koki will still be the villians in this entire mess because they decided to clean up something that was started by...Who else the witch Rashi😡

So a couple of tears from Rashi and we let her off the hook. She conveniently hides behind the facade of being nobody in this situation and people call Ahem a rat.. Well no one can hide better than Rashi can they? If Ahem is hiding, what will you say about this person who created all the mess but chooses to remain ... let me hear it... YES.. SILENT.. Silent as though none of this is her fault when she knows even now that she can clear this up.. But no.. We can let her off because she is basically evil. So there is nothing we need to say against her.

She is cute, she is bubbly, beautiful... And evil.. So let her off the hook.. This is a day in the park for Rashi Jigar Modi..

But we can hatch on.. We can blame Koki for caring enough about her DIL and Son.. For their future and the future of the family. This decision of hers is being hailed as insensitive. If she lets Anitha to her fate now, Ahem will feel guilty, Gopi will be troubled.. Now that is avoided and marrying Anitha will fix all the problems in long term.. But NO.. we need blame her goodness on pride.. Helping Anitha because somewhere her son is also the reason for a broken marriage is wrong...

Of course Ahem.. He is certainly at fault. He confessed that he just needs this phase to pass and that he is doing it because Anitha is the scapegoat of an unfortunate situation. He is man enough to see that the he is guilty and needs to set things right. But no.. We can blame him for clearing the mess because he is available to blame everything..

The root cause of the problem will be let off scott free for we can blame others for her faults right? Just like she blames Gopi for hers.. Now she has got two more to take her blame.. Aww.. Poor Rashi.. The delicate doll will break by shedding those two tears..

Saying that she feels sorry and actually being sorry are two different things. If you truly are Sorry, you repent and set the situation right. You do not look for ways to save yourself.. Face it guys.. You are barking up the wrong tree..

But I get one thing Shilpa.. If Rashi continues this act of shedding tears for Anitha, she will be absolved of everything..🤢 Unfortunately for me, I still have to see the regret that others are seeing...

So lets keep blaming Ahem, Koki and maybe Gopi tomorrow for all this mess.. They are there to field it for they are facing this and atleast trying to correct the mess created😕

Long rant.. But like you Shilpa, I am really fed up that we have to defend those who are truly trying..

And it is not her fault.

Originally posted by: varshu27

shilpa wonderful post...and i agree raashi is the root of all evil for the modis...i can explain all the reasons why ...but talking about raashi gives me a headache...she is a lost cause...i just cant stand the sight of her...and the tears makes me want to throw up...she is beyond anything evil we have ever seen😡

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Thank you so much Harini for the support.

Like you I am tired of people blaming Ahem and Koki for trying to do the right thing by Anita and letting Rashi get away. I thought long and hard about this before posing the topic.

They are only stuck on the fact that Ahem and Anita were on the bed but lets start at the beginning.

*who went snooping in Gohem room

*who hid the wedding card from Koki.

*who made everyone go to the wedding that Ahem did not even want to attend.

*who spilled the juice and told Ahem where the bathroom was.

*who took the pins from Anita's lehnga to make her go to cloak room

*who locked the door.

And it is not her fault.😡

What exactly did she think would people think even if they hadn't fallen on the bed.

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

Shilpa, another fantastic analysis and a much needed one for me...I was getting tired of reading all these negative posts and I almost left the forum for good...I have complete faith in Kokila and Ahem. Kokila and Ahem have one thing in common. They want to make sure their mistakes are improved the best way possible.

And what you said is the ultimate truth, why is Rashi getting a get out of jail free card? Is it not her fault from the time Gopi married Ahem to the reason for Ahem hating Gopi (OK, so Kinjal helped too) to this current situation. She is only after one thing...REVENGE. She cannot stand to see Gopi win during the separation track and so she had to make sure Gopi learned her lesson...

So if she feels bad...whoopti doo...Who the 🤬 cares. If she wanted to repent, then start to make improvements...like go to Nilesh and say it was a prank that went bad...or say something else to bring Nilesh and Anita back together...Her hiding and calling her mother for more kalakaries just goes to show she is not capable of learning from her mistakes...She would rather do another kalakarie to make the old one disappear and hence she is out of trouble.

Getting back to the first sentence of the last paragraph, she does not feel bad. What she is feeling is scared of her exposure since she created the situation in front of others...like spilling the juice on Ahem or telling Anita about her pallu (she may have caused it, but no proof anyone saw it).

Shilpa, I could go on forever and ever...Like Munni likes to say it could take well over 5000 words to show the ways that Rashi is the guilty one. And we will see in the future how much she is feeling guilty...I can bet my bottom dollar she will create situations to put doubt in Gopi's head. That is all she knows what to do. She is hopeless, useless, brainless and most of all heartless

Sorry for the long rant, had to put it out there. I hope you understood what I am trying to say. I wrote this with some anger in my heart due to Rashi being shown as repenting 😡