Root cause of the problems (My POV)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi friends.

Before I start my rant let me say that this is just my point of view no one has to like it or agree with it.

I have caught up with many posts lately and it seems everyone wants to blame Ahem and Koki for the current Modi crisis.

Some of you think Rashi is not at fault, why? Why is it that every time Ahem or Koki are in a sticky situation the blame is taken automatically off of Rashi and she gets get of jail free card? Why do we forget the fact that it is Rashi who has put them in this situation?

Why do we not sit back and think, who is the root cause of these problems?

It's greed, more importantly Urshi's greed. Rashi's need to be the queen of MM.

After all of this could have been prevented if Urmila and Rashi were good standing citizens.

So what if Koki did not want Ahem to marry Anita, if Ahem had loved Anita he would have married her but it is obvious he never did. He could have come to this conclusion late in life, but that is beside the point.

How about if Urmila and Rashi hadn't lied to Gopi she could have stopped the marriage, she was willing to go to this length, but no Urshi's greed started the chain of events that has once again brought the Modi's in the situation they are in.

What wrong did Ahem do by posing as Nilesh? Remember which gawar opened her mouth and came up with the idea. He never expected things to go out of hand. It was a one-time thing to calm Anita down that is going to cost him big time.

As for Koki, whatever reason for her wanting to get Anita married. Koki in the end is doing the right thing. She knows she is also responsible for the current situation.

So Rashi feels guilty for what she did, but if she was a human with feelings she would have opened her mouth and claimed responsibility for what she did, but she is hiding and calling mummy for new kalakari so she wouldn't get in trouble

My point here is Ahem and Koki both realized that what they did in the past was wrong. A young girl was hurt because of them and Ahem feels very guilty for this and Koki know her son well enough to know that this has affected him deeply. She is trying to salvage the situation as best as she can and I admire her and Ahem both for acknowledging their mistakes and trying to repent for it.

Let us give credit where credit is due.

I am sorry for my long rant, but it does not sit well with me when we ignore the reasons for why this is happening.

For me Urmila and Rashi are the root cause of the problems.

No offense to anyone. But I admire Ahem and Koki for trying to make up for the past mistakes.

Urshi are nowhere near trying to repent for any of their sins. In fact they are busy coming up with more kalakaris to hide the old Kalakari.

Whatever happens from here on out, in the end Gohem relationship will be stronger. These are testing times for them and they will shine at the end of these crisis.😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shilpa. Cool op! And yes i agree rashi is the root cause of a lot of problems. But i don't think we can hold her accountable for everything. Koki and aham do need to shoulder some responsibility too. And i am not one to shy away from that. For instance koki's decision today to get anita married. Guess What. That sucked. Bigtime! And her motives for doing it suck even more. She is not making the situation better but she is compounding it. When life throws you lemons you make lemonade!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Shilpa. Cool op! And yes i agree rashi is the root cause of a lot of problems. But i don't think we can hold her accountable for everything. Koki and aham do need to shoulder some responsibility too. And i am not one to shy away from that. For instance koki's decision today to get anita married. Guess What. That sucked. Bigtime! And her motives for doing it suck even more. She is not making the situation better but she is compounding it. When life throws you lemons you make lemonade!

Thank you Shaun.
But that is the point Shaun, they are taking responsibility and trying to do something about it. If god is on their side things will work out, but we all know Rashi will not let anything happen smoothly.
And you said it yourself when life throws you lemons, make lemonade. At this point what choice do they have? In the end they are still paying because of Rashi and we cannot deny this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree shilpaben to everything you have said here at the end of thiis gohem will be togther no matter wht and they will be strnger day by day lovely post...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Thank you Shaun.
But that is the point Shaun, they are taking responsibility and trying to do something about it. If god is on their side things will work out, but we all know Rashi will not let anything happen smoothly.
And you said it yourself when life throws you lemons, make lemonade. At this point what choice do they have? In the end they are still paying because of Rashi and we cannot deny this.

Shilpa, loved ur Rant! 👏 👏Perfectly said! ⭐️ @Bold: Totally agree with u, Ahem and Kokila are doing something, they are not hiding anything, u used the apt words...they are taking responsibility for their actions which Rashi is not! Atleast, they are trying to salvage the situation! Rashi, agreed, may not let go things go smoothly, at the end of the day, her days at MB are starting to get numbered...the only way one can see Rashi changing...is if she actually spoke up and owned up to her mistakes...and stopped taking advise from her mother...and starting using her own brain...and teaching her mother some good! But that will never happen! 🤢
@Harini, Rupal: Ur comments were fabulous too! ⭐️⭐️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you so much Shilpa🤗

I wanted to make a long post on the same and felt that it will never work.. Ahem and Koki will still be the villians in this entire mess because they decided to clean up something that was started by...Who else the witch Rashi😡

So a couple of tears from Rashi and we let her off the hook. She conveniently hides behind the facade of being nobody in this situation and people call Ahem a rat.. Well no one can hide better than Rashi can they? If Ahem is hiding, what will you say about this person who created all the mess but chooses to remain ... let me hear it... YES.. SILENT.. Silent as though none of this is her fault when she knows even now that she can clear this up.. But no.. We can let her off because she is basically evil. So there is nothing we need to say against her.
She is cute, she is bubbly, beautiful... And evil.. So let her off the hook.. This is a day in the park for Rashi Jigar Modi..

But we can hatch on.. We can blame Koki for caring enough about her DIL and Son.. For their future and the future of the family. This decision of hers is being hailed as insensitive. If she lets Anitha to her fate now, Ahem will feel guilty, Gopi will be troubled.. Now that is avoided and marrying Anitha will fix all the problems in long term.. But NO.. we need blame her goodness on pride.. Helping Anitha because somewhere her son is also the reason for a broken marriage is wrong...
Of course Ahem.. He is certainly at fault. He confessed that he just needs this phase to pass and that he is doing it because Anitha is the scapegoat of an unfortunate situation. He is man enough to see that the he is guilty and needs to set things right. But no.. We can blame him for clearing the mess because he is available to blame everything..

The root cause of the problem will be let off scott free for we can blame others for her faults right? Just like she blames Gopi for hers.. Now she has got two more to take her blame.. Aww.. Poor Rashi.. The delicate doll will break by shedding those two tears..
Saying that she feels sorry and actually being sorry are two different things. If you truly are Sorry, you repent and set the situation right. You do not look for ways to save yourself.. Face it guys.. You are barking up the wrong tree..

But I get one thing Shilpa.. If Rashi continues this act of shedding tears for Anitha, she will be absolved of everything..🤢 Unfortunately for me, I still have to see the regret that others are seeing...
So lets keep blaming Ahem, Koki and maybe Gopi tomorrow for all this mess.. They are there to field it for they are facing this and atleast trying to correct the mess created😕

Long rant.. But like you Shilpa, I am really fed up that we have to defend those who are truly trying..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oi you lot! I am not saying rashi is innocent! I am saying aham and koki are making the wrong decisions for the wrong reasons! Two wrongs will never ever make a right! They need to stop and think sensibly about this matter. Not blunder about like elephants high on bhang!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Thank you Shaun.
But that is the point Shaun, they are taking responsibility and trying to do something about it. If god is on their side things will work out, but we all know Rashi will not let anything happen smoothly.
And you said it yourself when life throws you lemons, make lemonade. At this point what choice do they have? In the end they are still paying because of Rashi and we cannot deny this.


Well said Shilpa⭐️
And Shaun, at least Koki is trying.. And Ahem is trying.. What is Rashi doing?
You think her motive is pride.. But behind that pride is also the fact that she is fixing a girl's broken marriage. That is far better than just pretending to feel bad.. I do not see Rashi fixing anything by saying the truth..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1



Well said Shilpa⭐️
And Shaun, at least Koki is trying.. And Ahem is trying.. What is Rashi doing?
You think her motive is pride.. But behind that pride is also the fact that she is fixing a girl's broken marriage. That is far better than just pretending to feel bad.. I do not see Rashi fixing anything by saying the truth..


Harini in her haste to fix a girl's broken marriage did she ever think to ask the girl what she wants? What if anita wants to marry nilesh? Is it right for her to alienate his father?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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shilpa wonderful post...and i agree raashi is the root of all evil for the modis...i can explain all the reasons why ...but talking about raashi gives me a headache...she is a lost cause...i just cant stand the sight of her...and the tears makes me want to throw up...she is beyond anything evil we have ever seen😡

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