Does Ahem deserve Anita's or Gopi's love?

Ahem is really lucky to have had two women in his life - each one fought really hard for him - one of them is still fighting for him. But does he deserve either?

Nice question and the answer is double sided..

Does Ahem deserve the love of Anitha or Gopi? Did Gopi deserve a Maami and a cousin like Rashi? Does Rashi deserve to be the Bahus of Modi's? Does Dhawal deserve a wife like Kinjal? These questions do not have an yes or no answer.. It is what life is all about..

Marriages and relationships are made in heaven. The one thing Ahem did was make a choice. The past and the future has been dictated by that choice he made. From Ahem's point of view, did he deserve to be married to an uneducated girl? Gopi loved him unconditionally but he did not ask for that... Just like he did not have the choice of knowing she was uneducated, he also does not have the control over Gopi's unconditional love for him.

Did he deserve Anitha's love. He also seems to have loved her equally. Yes. He did not fight for her but just like he moved on, she did too. His choice was correct to him under those circumstances. He did not want his 27 year old relationship to break for a one that was not even a couple of years old.. How can we say that is wrong?
Your actions decide the way your life moves forward. Now Ahem is slowly seeing the result of his past actions. I think more than Ahem deserving Gopi, Gopi deserved Ahem, a man who was strong enough and kind enough for her. When Ahem overcomes his past hurt he will be the saathiya Gopi deserved. He already has become the saathiya she needs. One past memory does not make him any lesser.

So maybe it is not just Ahem but Gopi also... Both deserve each other. If Ahem is lucky, Gopi is lucky too.. Anitha is also lucky. She would not have been the correct choice.. Everything happens for a reason😛

Originally posted by: ruchisahay

Ahem is really lucky to have had two women in his life - each one fought really hard for him - one of them is still fighting for him. But does he deserve either?

He didn't have the guts to marry Anita against his Mom's wishes and as a result made his own, Anita's and Gopi's life a living hell. And now, again Gopi is hellbound because of his guilt / anger / pain whatever. What is he? A self-destructive devdas?

What we deserve and what we get are two different things and can not be debated period. If we get what we desire life will be a different proposition altogether.
In any moment it is desirable to take a decision. Decisiveness is an essential aspect of manliness. 😆 Ahem decided to follow his mom's decision and marry Gopi and ended his relationship with Anita. But fate dealt him loosing hand... the girl he got married to was illiterate.... Was life fair to him? NO!! Poor guy had accepted the new burger but that was served to him cold and uninteresting without any dressing so initially he was upset and raised hell. So he thought that he shd have gotten that favorite fajita of his😳 ...inference being the same😃

I have always found Ahem Modi a compassionate and dependable man. He was arrogant yet sympathetic and believable always...he yelled at Gopi for making minuscule of a mistake. But gradually he learns to communicate with and accept help from Gopi his wife who cares for him and worships him. 😳

PS: All the burger & fajita talks made me hungry...Ok me off to eating & feeding my hungry family😳

Nice question and the answer is double sided..

Does Ahem deserve the love of Anitha or Gopi? Did Gopi deserve a Maami and a cousin like Rashi? Does Rashi deserve to be the Bahus of Modi's? Does Dhawal deserve a wife like Kinjal? These questions do not have an yes or no answer.. It is what life is all about..

Marriages and relationships are made in heaven. The one thing Ahem did was make a choice. The past and the future has been dictated by that choice he made. From Ahem's point of view, did he deserve to be married to an uneducated girl? Gopi loved him unconditionally but he did not ask for that... Just like he did not have the choice of knowing she was uneducated, he also does not have the control over Gopi's unconditional love for him.

Did he deserve Anitha's love. He also seems to have loved her equally. Yes. He did not fight for her but just like he moved on, she did too. His choice was correct to him under those circumstances. He did not want his 27 year old relationship to break for a one that was not even a couple of years old.. How can we say that is wrong?
Your actions decide the way your life moves forward. Now Ahem is slowly seeing the result of his past actions. I think more than Ahem deserving Gopi, Gopi deserved Ahem, a man who was strong enough and kind enough for her. When Ahem overcomes his past hurt he will be the saathiya Gopi deserved. He already has become the saathiya she needs. One past memory does not make him any lesser.

So maybe it is not just Ahem but Gopi also... Both deserve each other. If Ahem is lucky, Gopi is lucky too.. Anitha is also lucky. She would not have been the correct choice.. Everything happens for a reason😛
[/QUOTE

He actually should have moved his life with gopi

Ahem is a very short tempered man and his anger he had called her by different names becoz he considered him to be a gold digger but with the passage of time he come to know about gopis true self and he was the one who supported her when she was acusd of cheating and from here his journey continues and now he respect her, understands her, and supports whether she is unwell or is in trouble. N in this whole he had washed out the hurt he had given her in early year of marriage. Both are lucky to have each other in their life and equally deserve each others love and saathiya.

i am confused whether aham loves gopi or not the way he behaved and forgot gopi completely,...did he ever love gopi or it was just care.. and concern...

ahem deserves gopi's love she sees ahem as her kanhaji

ahem deserves Gopi n only Gopi she has done so much 4 him her love his tru... Ahem surly deserves Gopi and at the end they will be togther... they are the main lead n so will be togther... he def deserves Gopi 100%..

Originally posted by: bhavya

i am confused whether aham loves gopi or not the way he behaved and forgot gopi completely,...did he ever love gopi or it was just care.. and concern...

He got the shock of his life ... Poor guy .. Right now ahem is so confused ... his brain is like JELLO... I think Ahem has become a ZOMBIE... I think if he was a girl , ahem would cry a river , like the MISSIPPISS ...