Going to stay calm - he still loves her!

I too am upset that the cv's having Ahem not remembering what took place. (Actually ridiculous...you don't lose full memory from using pot--know first hand) Anyway, I still see positively in this. Ahem still loves Gopi. His feelings for her were there BEFORE he had the laddos. The only thing he lost were his inhibitions. His actions were not false, just forgotten. He will remember. He will still be thinking how he can approach Gopi. Now, Gopi may be hurt that he doesn't remember but if she thinks about it she will realize that Ahem's actions on Holi were really how he wants to be with her...and the cannibis just gave him some courage. She has the advantage now because she knows how he really feels. Now, she needs to figure out how to get him to show his true feelings without the false confidence. She shouldn't shy away.

Pride and the fear of being rejected or embarrassed get us humans in sooo much trouble. We are so afraid to show our true emotions. That's Ahem's trouble. Emotions are so new to him and he is afraid. All will be well...

im with u nyc one he will remember everything bt it will tke time bt thts how he wants his realation to be with gopi mking her confortable n give her the love tht she deserves...

Originally posted by: ChicagoCarole1

I too am upset that the cv's having Ahem not remembering what took place. (Actually ridiculous...you don't lose full memory from using pot--know first hand) Anyway, I still see positively in this. Ahem still loves Gopi. His feelings for her were there BEFORE he had the laddos. The only thing he lost were his inhibitions. His actions were not false, just forgotten. He will remember. He will still be thinking how he can approach Gopi. Now, Gopi may be hurt that he doesn't remember but if she thinks about it she will realize that Ahem's actions on Holi were really how he wants to be with her...and the cannibis just gave him some courage. She has the advantage now because she knows how he really feels. Now, she needs to figure out how to get him to show his true feelings without the false confidence. She shouldn't shy away.

Pride and the fear of being rejected or embarrassed get us humans in sooo much trouble. We are so afraid to show our true emotions. That's Ahem's trouble. Emotions are so new to him and he is afraid. All will be well...

yes we kow emotion are new to him but gopi is not that smart to handle thing liek that this is the main issue she will be shattered when she get to know abt it

Is there just the smallest hint of a possibility that Gopi will actually become stronger because of this?

Nice post..

Nice post. I just want gopi to behave normal with him. I can't expect her to try to make ahem comfortable but atleast not make him uncomfortable😃