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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just wanted to say how much I liked Hetal's sari today!! It was gorgeous colours!! Really pretty - I was slightly jealous and I don't even wear sari's!!

Now that I've started this topic I might as well write something else!!

Noticed that Hetal had time to have a bath, get dry and all dressed up before she ventured into the kitchen whereas Kokila was still in the same clothes as before and hadn't yet bathed.

What does this tell us?

Well for one that Kokila is so focussed on enduring the smooth running of the house - letting Meethi know what needs to be prepared - that she hasn't yet had a chance to go and cleaned up. She knows her responsibilities and is fully focussed on fulfilling them.

Whereas Hetal obviously felt comfortable enough to sort herself out first. Now the only reason she is able to do so is because she knows that Kokila is there to make sure that everything that needs to be done, gets done. So she waltzes into the kitchen to reiterate instructions that Kokila has already given and then looks offended that Koki has already done so!! All this tells me is that Hetal is pretty much superfluous to requirements!! She isn't needed to manage the house and there isn't anything else that she does either.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Superb post Nazma👏 So true...

Hetal always seems to be the least bothered about the happenings in the house be it the kitchen or pooja or work for she knows Kokila is there to take care of it.. So she just comes in whenever needed to perform a few tasks..
All through Holi, I saw only Gopi and Koki work.. Even during the Mahasivrathri pooja.. Gopi was working near the mandir while all Hetal did was talk to guests and Rashi.. Rashi did nothing but stand around Hetal and then create a fight between the pandits.

Leads me to always wonder, will the house even run for a couple of days without Koki.. It will without Gopi though Koki will have the strain of doing more things..But without these 2 the house will break down... 😕

BTW, I love Hetal's saris too. They are simple yet elegant.. She carries them well too😃



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Both Koki and Gopi could manage on their own.

Theyy know what needs to be done and when. Gopi is used to managing on her own so wouldn't demur from just getting on with it.
Kokila also is made off hardy material so she would be able to get on with it without it disrupting the balance or running of life.

Hetal manages only with Koki bearing the brunt of responsibility. It would be interesting to see her cope without the pillar she relies on.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Couldn't agree more, and this is why I want the split to happen or for Kokila to step back. I want Koki to take Gopi and do other household chores and let Hetal and Rashi run the kitchen and everything else that Koki and Gopi does around the house.

As far as I am concerned it's about time Koki and Gopi had some free time or better yet go on a vacation.

@Harini send your OS to CVs please.😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Couldn't agree more, and this is why I want the split to happen or for Kokila to step back. I want Koki to take Gopi and do other household chores and let Hetal and Rashi run the kitchen and everything else that Koki and Gopi does around the house.

As far as I am concerned it's about time Koki and Gopi had some free time or better yet go on a vacation.

@Harini send your OS to CVs please.😛



😆 Thank you so much Shilpa.. I really wanted to complete the OS but after watching Hetal today, my mind will not let me write the reconciliation properly😕
But I really do hope the CVs show Koki standing tall.. She cannot be bowing down to Rashi.. It somehow does not sit well Hopefully the CVs do a proper job of making Hetal realize her stupidity 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nazma fantastic post👏


Completely agree. hetal is superfluous woman...the way she wanted to take the right by telling Meethi to make undiya...was just simply annoying...how did she even think that koki will forget about jigar's favorite dish ,... has she known koki only to this extent...

Nazma... with out koki, hetal is like a needle in sand... she is completely lost... she has no identity... i sometimes feel, she garners the respect only by her position and not by her duties...

have we ever seen her manage anything, proactively, on her own... she hides behind koki...
she can fight for her rights ..but she cant' really bear the weight of responsibilities on her shoulders

hetal lacks the basic, self-motivational skills, leadership skills and the decision-making skills

after the split, lack of the above three skill sets will affect hetal the most
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1



😆 Thank you so much Shilpa.. I really wanted to complete the OS but after watching Hetal today, my mind will not let me write the reconciliation properly😕
But I really do hope the CVs show Koki standing tall.. She cannot be bowing down to Rashi.. It somehow does not sit well Hopefully the CVs do a proper job of making Hetal realize her stupidity 😡


don't worry harini... koki will be the one who sorts out this mess

@bold... CVs cannot make stupid mistakes and put koki's character at stake... already they have a negative elder lady in hetal, so koki will be the one standing out and making things right for everyone

hetal realization seems to be apparent only after the split and many more hungama's by urshi


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