True saathiyaa...the different expectations...

Yeah the story as far started with two cousin sisters gopi and Rashi...

Bhavya a very solid and true comparison👍🏼

Well Bhavya.. I agree completely on Gopi. She will stand by Aham through thick or thin. He is her life and she will never want anything go wrong for him and will put herself in pain if that means Aham can be happy.
Theirs is a perfect love story and Gopi is a perfect wife.

I do agree on Rashi not caring if hypothetically Jigar loses everything. But I guess it is her inherent nature to be that way. Plus she is not sacrificing or patient so she will feel suffocated if there is no money.
But remember in Gopi's case even after losing money Gopi still has her dream intact.She will have a loving husband. But if Jigar loses money, Rashi loses her dreams and that is usually hard to digest.

Don't think I am trying to defend Rashi.. I most certainly am not a fan of hers.. But I think we need to compare Rashi - Jigar situation differently and not see it through money..

So given in a situation where the only way to save Jigar is for Rashi to accept her mistakes truthfully, if Rashi does that, then she is a true saathiya in my opinion.. But will she do it is the question... Will Rashi be able to put herself in trouble to save Jigar?

I cannot answer my own question because I will say NO.. But this is fiction and I think one day we will see her do exactly that..
Again I am NOT a Rashi fan.. 😃

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Well Bhavya.. I agree completely on Gopi. She will stand by Aham through thick or thin. He is her life and she will never want anything go wrong for him and will put herself in pain if that means Aham can be happy.
Theirs is a perfect love story and Gopi is a perfect wife.

I do agree on Rashi not caring if hypothetically Jigar loses everything. But I guess it is her inherent nature to be that way. Plus she is not sacrificing or patient so she will feel suffocated if there is no money.
But remember in Gopi's case even after losing money Gopi still has her dream intact.She will have a loving husband. But if Jigar loses money, Rashi loses her dreams and that is usually hard to digest.

Don't think I am trying to defend Rashi.. I most certainly am not a fan of hers.. But I think we need to compare Rashi - Jigar situation differently and not see it through money..

So given in a situation where the only way to save Jigar is for Rashi to accept her mistakes truthfully, if Rashi does that, then she is a true saathiya in my opinion.. But will she do it is the question... Will Rashi be able to put herself in trouble to save Jigar?

I cannot answer my own question because I will say NO.. But this is fiction and I think one day we will see her do exactly that..
Again I am NOT a Rashi fan.. 😃

I believe gopi will always stand by ahem...

Originally posted by: bhavya

for Rashi its always NO...she will not stand for Jigar if he ends up in trouble...she cannot be a true lover a true saathiya given at any situation...

she will save herself and jigar and her mummy if any trouble arises , when she thinks she can save only two people can be saved she will detach herself from jigar, she will try to save herself and her mummy,..

later if given a situation to save only one life she will save only herself...

mummy aur jigarji ko maaro goli...

maein tho bach gayi... she will say kanaji thank you for saving me from this trouble...

😆 I agree with you.. Rashi has got everything easy in her life. See even now her husband and MIL have become her slaves again.. So she never values things.. An thinks only about herself..

bavya great post dear...👏

So many good threads today I am finding it hard to keep track lol.

Thanks Munni and shaunsa...

Nice post bhavya , yes gopi is ahems true saathiya , she will stand by him In good tyms and bad . She is his true support system in every arena of his life be it business, family, marriage and social . No matter wot the circumstances she will be at his side , rashie on the other hand will chose the occassions to be jigars support , if he and his family loose everything and have to move into impoverish conditions she will never stick by him and encourage him to rebuild everything, she doesn't want to put in the hardwork to gain in life is wants it ready made handed to her on a platter.