how many of u think

guys tell me franklyin this modren culture how many of u think DIL like gopi will exists...such a selfless person,always think about others,no interaction with outside world,naive...

.i know for thinking only we cant even imagine our life is going to be like what gopi is going through...is this is the reason we r so immersed ourself into this charaters...we all know they r just doing to whatever they asked them to do but it is hurting our feelings...

.when gopi is crying my day is like so dull...if i see some good secens between gopi and ahem i feel so happy about the show...or i am the one who is feeling this way anybody around...

i always tell myself in the morning it is just a show...we dont have to feel bad or good but after watching the epsiode...but it is not working for me...the self coatching...

today after watching the precap...i was like i didnt have any words for gopi...Urmi just snached her phone the poor gopi couldnt even saya word...her own daughter didn't come to see her own mother...gopi came to see the mami and this b*****ch urmi😡🤢 is behaving like a maid came to do seva for her...guys help me...😕😕😕😕😕😕😲😲😲😲

Hey.. People like Gopi don't exist and do exist. Confusing right😆

But I think people like Gopi when she is too naive do not exist in reality but the precap... I think there are times we have to be Gopi when there is a patient involved.. I know Urmi is doing this in all evilness🤢 and I have no words... But in reality, when we are dealing with patients that too older ones, they tend to behave like children.. Tantrums, anger at everything and whining all the time.. We do serve them that too patiently because they are our own.. Say it is your grandmother.. Will you not serve her with all patience even if they throw a tantrum? This will happen in any family...
The patience level varies though.. I have seen very patient DIL who understand the older person and take care of them..

But Urmi is too much and snatching Gopi's phone is 😡... I hope Ahem hears Urmila shout at Gopi at least this time and comes to get her back... Poor girl needs a rescue party😕

I have seen people like Gopi. They may not be as naive or innocent since in the world of fiction, the characters and situations have to be made larger than life to have maximum effect on the audience, but there are people like that out there. When I was younger, I had heard people talking about our neighbors dil who was beaten by her mil, husband and sil but still did all the work in the house and we never saw her outside. Sometimes, she was starved as a punishment. One of our other neighbors once saw her on her roof and threw some food to her. Eventually, she died and her mil, sil and husband were arrested for her murder. We may think - was she so naive that she stayed in that house thinking her situation may improve. No, she wasn't naive, but she probably had no other way out. But this is an extreme case.

I think I said this in another post that in life, sometimes we may act like Gopi for our own reason. We may do it to keep peace in the family or we feel we owe it another person or we may feel guilty for something else we have done or we may just be helpless or may feel we will not have any support if we didn't do what we are being forced to do. To others it may look like we are being naive or being taken in for a ride, but we know better. We are aware of what is going on but it is easier to pretend innocence or naivete in order to justify what we are doing. I admit I have done such things for my relatives that I didn't want to and I knew I was being taken advantage of, but I had my own reasons. This is the reason I get upset when people call Gopi brainless or spineless or naive. She is very strong and is a peace maker in the family.

I can go on and on about some real stories on this, but I won't bore you all. But these things may not happen to us on such a grand scale as they show in serials. Sometimes, they create a mountain out of molehill in the serials and show the situations in their worst form.

mahi... harini explained there is a little bit of gopi in every one... ... some have patience... some are hard working some are helping even their enemies... but in total finding this kind of gopi is rare... i must say... i don't say it's impossible to find such a character ...but very very rare

gopi seems to have found a place in all of our hearts...we all are invested in her ...and thats why we cry with her..are happy for her and angry on her behalf...but with ahems change now...gopi is sure to have happy days ahead...

All of the above have explained it amazingly! 😃

I am yet to come across anyone like Gopi. But to an extent I am sure most people at some point or another has done or will do something for someone even though they know they are being used. Sometimes it's easier to go along with something than fight it. Also as said by others, dealing with people older than you is different than dealing with people if your own age.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Hey.. People like Gopi don't exist and do exist. Confusing right😆

But I think people like Gopi when she is too naive do not exist in reality but the precap... I think there are times we have to be Gopi when there is a patient involved.. I know Urmi is doing this in all evilness🤢 and I have no words... But in reality, when we are dealing with patients that too older ones, they tend to behave like children.. Tantrums, anger at everything and whining all the time.. We do serve them that too patiently because they are our own.. Say it is your grandmother.. Will you not serve her with all patience even if they throw a tantrum? This will happen in any family...
The patience level varies though.. I have seen very patient DIL who understand the older person and take care of them..

But Urmi is too much and snatching Gopi's phone is 😡... I hope Ahem hears Urmila shout at Gopi at least this time and comes to get her back... Poor girl needs a rescue party😕

yes some time i fell like i am so atracted to gopi characthershe is always be positive...see her only her only wish is loviable by in laws and hubby...in this type of culture who is going to be there like her...but sometimes we only behave like gopi...for kids sake or for family sake we do so many sacrifices ...but after today's precrap gopi is really naive,she dosen't know how to fight for her own rights...koki said not to distrub ahem she is not even showing her face to him...avoiding like hell...😭😭😭

Originally posted by: varshu27

gopi seems to have found a place in all of our hearts...we all are invested in her ...and thats why we cry with her..are happy for her and angry on her behalf...but with ahems change now...gopi is sure to have happy days ahead...

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

mahi... harini explained there is a little bit of gopi in every one... ... some have patience... some are hard working some are helping even their enemies... but in total finding this kind of gopi is rare... i must say... i don't say it's impossible to find such a character ...but very very rare

i know what u r asking why are you feeling hurt when she is hurt...

we all are humans with a heart and feelings... we can easily empathize with the feelings of others not only in real life but with a fictional character in motion pictures or even in books...

so it is totally normal to feel sad and happy with their sadness and happiness... 😉

well said munni...i was thinking from the morning how come a girl's life will change.teke an example of gopi...now i don't blame her behaving like frightned all the time...because she doesn't have parents to support, no pihar no support form husband(when she newly married) and her MIL have trust issues with her...and koki is in her own world always thinks like she is going to loose her son...so i think thats why always play a peace maker role.