why is gopi avoiding

koki only said not to interfer in ahem's work life she didn't say that not to speak to ahem...so why is gopi is avoiding ahem not even answering when he calls her...

That is Gopi for you.. 😭 Gopi likes to twist things in her own mind and blame herself for everyone's misery.. So this time around Her Ahemji was punished and Maaji was angry because of her.. Hence her vow not to disturb him
Gopi is just taking a stricter version of disturb i,e she considers herself a disturbance. So she has decided that she will not come near him, talk to him or face him for that matter. The girl can torture herself a lot..
But another point, perhaps, it is her childhood misery playing out. She has been told by her Maami and Rashi that she is Manhoos to anybody she is associated with. Gopi actually believes this to be true. So an already guilty Gopi with the above said feeling will naturally hide from Ahem.. Poor girl..😭

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

That is Gopi for you.. 😭 Gopi likes to twist things in her own mind and blame herself for everyone's misery.. So this time around Her Ahemji was punished and Maaji was angry because of her.. Hence her vow not to disturb him
Gopi is just taking a stricter version of disturb i,e she considers herself a disturbance. So she has decided that she will not come near him, talk to him or face him for that matter. The girl can torture herself a lot..
But another point, perhaps, it is her childhood misery playing out. She has been told by her Maami and Rashi that she is Manhoos to anybody she is associated with. Gopi actually believes this to be true. So an already guilty Gopi with the above said feeling will naturally hide from Ahem.. Poor girl..😭

hey good point.i was thinking yesterday also she was frightned when chriag asked her ot sit with ahem at havan...

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

That is Gopi for you.. 😭 Gopi likes to twist things in her own mind and blame herself for everyone's misery.. So this time around Her Ahemji was punished and Maaji was angry because of her.. Hence her vow not to disturb him
Gopi is just taking a stricter version of disturb i,e she considers herself a disturbance. So she has decided that she will not come near him, talk to him or face him for that matter. The girl can torture herself a lot..
But another point, perhaps, it is her childhood misery playing out. She has been told by her Maami and Rashi that she is Manhoos to anybody she is associated with. Gopi actually believes this to be true. So an already guilty Gopi with the above said feeling will naturally hide from Ahem.. Poor girl..😭

Originally posted by: luckylucky1

hey good point.i was thinking yesterday also she was frightned when chriag asked her ot sit with ahem at havan...

Yes.. She is frightened.. She actually believes herself to be the reason for Ahem's troubles. She does not want him to be punished further.. Kokila told her to sit with Ahem in the havan yet she was uncomfortable.. So my understanding is she has mixed everything together.
- Her Ahemji missing work due to her accident
- Ahem missing work because of playing cupid
- Ahem being punished because of her
In all this she was associated to Ahem which means to her that she was unlucky for him. Very very illogical. But when you have been told that from childhood, you tend to believe it without thinking about logic and stuff like that..

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

harini, gopi thinks and twists things in her mind...

do you think the manhoos part is really playing n her mind... more than manhoos ...it's the distraction thing that is going on...

but the girl is not realizing how much she is disturbing my Ahemji in the facade of avoiding him😕

@Bold.. Maybe not that much.. But yes the distraction thing is going on.. When they sat for the havan, Gopi was still uncomfortable. I am thinking why? She was not disturbing Ahem and further more her Maaji herself told her to sit with Ahem. Then why be uncomfortable? The only answer I can think of is those insecurities of hers.. Poor girl thinks that being with her distracts her Ahemji so indirectly she herself is bad for him..😕

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

@Bold.. Maybe not that much.. But yes the distraction thing is going on.. When they sat for the havan, Gopi was still uncomfortable. I am thinking why? She was not disturbing Ahem and further more her Maaji herself told her to sit with Ahem. Then why be uncomfortable? The only answer I can think of is those insecurities of hers.. Poor girl thinks that being with her distracts her Ahemji so indirectly she herself is bad for him..😕

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

gopi knows at one point or the other Ahemji is gonna ask her the reason for her worries...

so when they sat near the havan - the uncomfortable nature in her is she knows that he might ask her regarding her worries ..and as expected he asked her what is worrying her😉.

just thinking about how to avoid answering these questions...she was in an uncomfortable situation

👏makes sense now.. She does over complicate things for herself..😕

harini ... SNS is a set of really complicated characters...not all but

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

harini ... SNS is a set of really complicated characters...not all but

Ahemji

Gopi and Kokii

we made 6 posts to analyse gopi only for 2 days and 50 posts to analyse koki

and Ahemji's analysis is being done by navya ...swasthi and others

from outside they seem to be simple a DIL, MIL and son who does business,,,, but the more u try to enter their periphery they are more complicated

and i love this😃

😆 Yeah.. the complications are all in one family.. the other side is easy.. 3 Java de nas and a really evil DIL..😛