What I do not understand...

Is Urshi...ganging up against Gopi...

Knowing Raashi's personality, it doesn't matter who it is but if there is someone getting more respect,love or affection than her,she will def make a kalakari!

Originally posted by: navyab

Is Urshi...ganging up against Gopi...

If Ahem was not married to Gopi, he would have surely been married to somebody else & there would have been a Jethani in place for Rashi...so would they still have gone ahead with their kalakaari's against the other jethani ???

Or do they still think if Gopi had not shown her face on the day Kokilla went to see Rashi, she would have been married to Ahem & she would have been the Jethani !!! That means Rashi does not genuinely love Jigar even now !!!!

I dont think Raashi can luv anyone more than herself...so tho I think she luvs Jigs in her own way no1 is always no1

no matter who her jettani was raashi would have been the same...but in this instance it being gopi the urshi are going for overkill...

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

A few corrections if I may...

Everything in...green is because they think of Gopi as manhoos who is after their happiness and if she gets happiness than it is the mother/daughter duo's job to kill it right there and then

Everything in blue...Rashi still would not have been married to Ahem. Koki has a keen eye to spot people who are fakes and who are real...She saw Urmilla and knew all about her even though she did not say anything...

@Bold - Rashi and Urmi do not know that.. Actually they still think that Gopi is the reason Rashi was not selected..
But I think, the reason Urmi got Rashi married to Jigar was because he was Mota Bhai's son. She would have thought that being the only son of the Patriarch of the family, Jigar would be the sole heir.
Unfortunately for the duo, Ahem was already well established in business and the owner of the house. So without the inside knowledge they felt cheated. That is the cause of their jealousy.

Originally posted by: navyab

Is Urshi...ganging up against Gopi...

If Ahem was not married to Gopi, he would have surely been married to somebody else & there would have been a Jethani in place for Rashi...so would they still have gone ahead with their kalakaari's against the other jethani ???

Or do they still think if Gopi had not shown her face on the day Kokilla went to see Rashi, she would have been married to Ahem & she would have been the Jethani !!! That means Rashi does not genuinely love Jigar even now !!!!

Navyab what can I say but for the first question, bullies are always brave before the person they can bully. If they find someone who stands up to them, they will scamper away. UrShi can bully only Gopi hence they do it..
Plus the root cause for creating all misery to Gopi was Jealousy. After seeing the property papers they know that she will anywayz always be the eldest DIL. But befoer marriage they did not count on the fact. At that time Rashi was marrying the ONLY son of Chirag. Usually the heir gets the money and it is obvious they assumed Jigar as the next heir.
They did not account for Koki bringing up Ahem to take over the business and house so early. So they felt cheated. To your question, does Rashi genuinely love Jigar? My answer is, if the separation happens and Jigar in a fit of anger says he does not want a penny and leaves the house empty handed, will Rashi support him?
NO.. Of course she does not love Jigar...

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Navyab what can I say but for the first question, bullies are always brave before the person they can bully. If they find someone who stands up to them, they will scamper away. UrShi can bully only Gopi hence they do it..
Plus the root cause for creating all misery to Gopi was Jealousy. After seeing the property papers they know that she will anywayz always be the eldest DIL. But befoer marriage they did not count on the fact. At that time Rashi was marrying the ONLY son of Chirag. Usually the heir gets the money and it is obvious they assumed Jigar as the next heir.
They did not account for Koki bringing up Ahem to take over the business and house so early. So they felt cheated. To your question, does Rashi genuinely love Jigar? My answer is, if the separation happens and Jigar in a fit of anger says he does not want a penny and leaves the house empty handed, will Rashi support him?
NO.. Of course she does not love Jigar...

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Navyab what can I say but for the first question, bullies are always brave before the person they can bully. If they find someone who stands up to them, they will scamper away. UrShi can bully only Gopi hence they do it..
Plus the root cause for creating all misery to Gopi was Jealousy. After seeing the property papers they know that she will anywayz always be the eldest DIL. But befoer marriage they did not count on the fact. At that time Rashi was marrying the ONLY son of Chirag. Usually the heir gets the money and it is obvious they assumed Jigar as the next heir.
They did not account for Koki bringing up Ahem to take over the business and house so early. So they felt cheated. To your question, does Rashi genuinely love Jigar? My answer is, if the separation happens and Jigar in a fit of anger says he does not want a penny and leaves the house empty handed, will Rashi support him?
NO.. Of course she does not love Jigar...

I disagree with that. She will feel bad of course and might persuade Jigar to join MM back but at least she will not leave him. And thats enough reason to believe that she actually loves Jigar. And also being in love does not mean that you just blindly say yes to everything that your loved one is doing. If Rashi disagrees with Jigar, does not mean that she is not in love with him.

I remember Munni also posted a nice answer to that question that if she is not in love with Jigar then why all that hard work to impress him in the first place?

Originally posted by: BlackSonic

I disagree with that. She will feel bad of course and might persuade Jigar to join MM back but at least she will not leave him. And thats enough reason to believe that she actually loves Jigar. And also being in love does not mean that you just blindly say yes to everything that your loved one is doing. If Rashi disagrees with Jigar, does not mean that she is not in love with him.

I remember Munni also posted a nice answer to that question that if she is not in love with Jigar then why all that hard work to impress him in the first place?

Like I posted ealier...she misses one dedicated person who used to give her complete attention...now that Jigar is not doing it, she is worried & she also knows for her existance in MM she needs Jigar to be on her side !!!